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well this is hard
just like the title says. im 17/male. and i guess for a dude, when i find a girl i like, i mean really like. i fall hard for them. then something happens, and it ends. but my problem now is this girl who i've known for about 6 months or so. and around aug. sept. we got serious. but it was wierd b/c, we really wasnt "going out" but we acted liked it. in sept. we went to the fair together, made out, had alot of fun. but we still wasnt "going out".and i asked her out, she said no, and basicly the reason was b/c shes best friends with one of her exs. and that was the reason b/c the dude don't really like me. and me and the girl told each other we loved each other all the time. but still wasnt "going out". and few weeks after we went to the fair, we started drifting apart, and i asked just the other day if she still loved me. she tells me that just as a friend. and basicly she jumped the gun when we went to the fair. so im hurting bad. still love her/like her w/e. and it sucks. can't sleep. don't eat much. and idk what to do really. so just some guideance would be really nice.
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hey boy! cheer up [: i've been through this. don't let this girl get away. you found someone who can make you smile, don't ever give up on her! i think it's dumb that she led you on, but girls are confusing sometimes. maybe you can work things out with her ex-boyfriend, maybe she still LOVES her ex-boyfriend and is not telling you because she feels bad. you need to talk to her, ask her what the real reason is. don't go on living your life wondering "what if.." tell her you don't want her out of your life. i thought that if i lost contact with the person i loved, my feelings would fade. turns out the exact opposite happened. i thought about it everyday, and my feelings grew stronger for him. you can't let this stop you from living life, you deserve to be happy. if in the end things just don't work out between you two, still be friends with her. i learned it's better to have someone in your life even if they're just friends than not talking to them at all. i hope things work out, if you need anymore advice let me know. good luck ♥ LU!
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If i were you i would try to be friends with her again. this will help you with the feeling you have. it might draw you closer together though. i would also say that you should move on with someone else or try to get her ex to like you so she would consider going out with you and your current feeling wouldn't be a waste.
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