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15/f
ive been going out with my boyfriend for like 2 months and we're really close and shit im not sure if i should tell him tht i cut myself cause i dnt want him to find out from anyone else but eventually hes going to so i dnt know.im not sure how he would react cause hes like rlly straight edge and like an effin saint sooo wht should i do????????????
btw no lectures pleez
thanks
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hm maybe you should be honest with him and tell him, and if he deserves to be with you then he'll accept you for who you are. if you honestly believe he's going to find out from someone then it's better if it comes from you, that way he won't get mad at you for not telling him and it will just make things go much smoother.
either that or maybe you can actually stop cutting yourself if you want a commited relationship with him, because to tell you the truth idk if he'll stay with you once he finds out if you don't put an end to it.
i'm not telling you how to run your life i'm just making suggestions based off of experience.
hope this helps, and good luck to you
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I believe you should be straight up honest and tell him, because if you don't someone else will or he'll see the marks and ask about them. if he doesn't like it, he'll lecture you and maybe even get mad. but at least you can say you were honest with him and got it off your chest. the sooner you do it the better you'll feel and the less you'll have to worry about.
good luck.
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