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well im no lesbian but me and my friend are quite bisexual.
so I was wondering if I can get an std from her.
like idk if she has anything but I know that when she had sex recently she let the guy cum in her.
&& all we did was like
-makeout
-finger
-eat out
-69
so any possible way?
anything will help.
please and thank you.
All STDs are different, although there are quite a few that can be spread in the ways you listed.
Before you panic, please check if your partner actually has an STD or not. Contrary to what fundamentalist reactionaries will want you to believe, not everyone out there has an STD.
Still, if you're in doubt, get checked out. And like Cux said, be safe.
Okay, so any of you that havent read about my pregnancy scare, here goes.
I used a contraceptive film, and allowed my boyfriend to get off in me...saturday
Iv been on Birth Control for 2 years.
& Sunday night I took my pill to start my period.
But I'm also having to take antibiotics for Staph infection =/.
My mother says, antibiotics kills your birth control.
So. Sunday night I took my pill to start my period. I didn't expect to be on my period by morning monday, or even after noon because thats always how my cycle works.
So when I wake up TUESDAY morning, no blood.
I come home from school tuesday, and there are a few spots. So I change my tampon.
Then later that night, I change it again, a few more spots, but more.
Then this morning I wake up, and I'm bleeding regularly.
So.. do you think I'm Pregnant?
When in doubt, get tested.
Twice, even.
That's a much better way to get an answer on "Am I Pregnant?" than asking people who don't know you on the internets.
i just bought a graphing calculator, it's a ti-83. i've never used one before, and i can't figure out how to go up to the previous calculations that i've done. on my old scientific calculator you just had to press the up arrow, and you could scroll through all the problems you have done. also, when i do a few problems and i keep them all on the screen & i try to use the arrow keys to move up and down between several lines, it doesn't let me. help please!
:) thanks
Good choice on the TI-83. It's been a while since I had one, but if I recall it was 2ND+ENTER to get to tbe last problem you did. Twice to get to a problem you did two problems ago, etc etc.
To my knowledge, you can't scroll up and down the screen using the arrows to see problems you've already done on the TI-83.
I'm addicted to City of Heroes.
I've logged 22 hours in the past three days.
Is it all good?
I think it's all good.
There are better things to be addicted to than City of Heroes, but I suppose it's still all good.
22 hours isn't such an obscene amount, especially if the past few days have been slow for you.
okay. so. ive recently gotten into the band mindless self indulgence and the band dance gavin dance. and i was just wondering if anyone could recommend any bands that are similar to these two?? i like screamo but i dont really like it when they are screaming the WHOLE time, so please keep that in mind :)
thank you so muchh !
They're not very similar to MSI or that other band, but I'm willing to bet you'll enjoy Thrice. They've been called the "thinking man's hardcore band". And if you ever decide you're tired of hearing the same sounds, they break all kinds of genre lines in the four issues of The Alchemy Index.
Plus, they're my favorite musicians.
My boyfriend and i are ready to have sex, but I'm a little scared. He says he can get me birth control to take, and we would also use a condom, of course. I'm not worried about any diseases (we're clean). I'm only worried about getting pregnant. By using condoms and taking birth control, am I really at any risk?
S_C is right, although her statistics are a little off.
Anytime a penis comes near your vagina, you're at some risk of becoming pregnant. Certain things decrease that risk, such as using condoms and various birth control methods, or both.
That said, you're only technically "at risk". By using a condom and both a topical birth control (Spermicidal cream/gel) and non-topical birth control (pill/patch/whatever), combined with the morning after pill, your chances of getting hit by lightning are better than your chances becoming pregnant. For all intents and purposes, it will be nigh impossible (but not completely impossible) for you to become pregnant.
Of course, be sure to use always use condoms correctly, not take prescription-only birth control without a prescription, be safe, blah blah blah...
whats the best site for downloading free music to an mp3?
There are a ton of P2P programs you could use to accomplish this end. Personally, I suggest a torrenting program (BitTorret, BitComet, etc etc), or Ares (Which I'm 99% sure does torrents also).
Keep in mind that having these programs installed and using this is legal. Pirating music is not. The policies of this website require me to advise you not to do anything illegal.
So, you know, don't.
ok so my boyfriend and I were having sex yesterday and when he pulled out the condom was covered in white sticky stuff. I mean like solid white, it looked kind of like glue. It wasn't seman, because his condom didn't rip or leak or anything we checked. it must have come from me. Now I know girls have discharge but mine has always been clear. is it normal for it to be white? Could something be wrong with me?
extra:
we have been dating for 5 years, we were both each other's firsts and neither of us has ever had any type of sex with somebody else.
the condom was ribbed, and because of that it was a little more harsh than usual. would that have anything to do with it?
and we KNOW the condom didn't break or leak, we checked.
we've had sex about 15 times, and it still kind of hurts for me. Is this normal?
What could be wrong with me? please help I feels so clueless.
The white glue-like discharge is normal. My girlfriend has it all the time.
It's also not unheard of for sex to kind of hurt even after 15+ times. Tell your boyfriend to be a little more gentle. He has to understand that you, as a female, aren't like him, and with a vagina comes added sensitivity that we men don't have with our penises.
Nothing is wrong with you. There's nothing to be worried about.
can i make a homemade hair and body spray out of conditioner and water?
No. Anything that can be sprayed requires an aerosol spray as a propellant, something not found in either conditioner or water.
Hi, I found a post by "nesmira" @ the following link:
http://www.modestotechsupport.com/dual/
I want to upgrade my laptop to a dual core CPU and would like to know if that' possible.
Please e-mail me: cjn.simona@yahoo.com
Thank you,
Simona
ps: currently residing in Montreal, CA
Generally speaking, it's not possible or not worth the effort to upgrade laptops. Because of their miniturized design, you're better off getting an entirely new laptop.
Furthermore, even if you were to upgrade to a dual-core, that would most likely involve getting a new motherboard (Since you don't have a dual-core now) and with a new motherboard comes getting new RAM. The costs add up.
My advice is to get a new laptop, or to get a nice desktop computer which are upgraded far more easily.
i am 17 years old and i have this probloem with pot. you see my boyfriend and i started dating almost a year ago and before then he was really into the pot, but he stoped fot me, now my boyfriend is have like withdrawl beacuse he says he needs and he hasnt needed it like 2 months. but out of no where he needs it. i dont know what to do i cant stand pot and he knows, i just dont want it to ruin out relationship.
People don't go through pot "withdrawls". It's not physically addictive in the least--only psychologically addictive.
If your boyfriend really is having withdrawls, it's because he misses the feeling of blazing and getting blown, not because he "needs" it. Keep in mind that whatever he does from this point on is a choice. If you tell him "Either the pot goes or I go", and he chooses the pot, well...
Does anyone know how i can download Counter Strike,Dota (Death Of The Ancients) on the net ?
Is there any websites i can get the game(S) ?
Counter-Strike, like all Valve games, is downloadable via the Steam client (http://www.steampowered.com). It's fairly inexpensive too. I haven't checked the prices recently, but it's only about five to ten dollars, and Counter-Strike: Source (CSS) is only about ten to fifteen dollars.
If you meant a free download, you're SOL.
DotA, as far as my understanding goes, is a Custom Scenario map for WarCraft III: The Frozen Throne. The map itself is downloadable for free at http://www.getdota.com. WarCraft III itself is not downloadable to my knowledge.
I'm 16/f virgin and I've heard about a million things about sex. I've heard from my parents that I should wait until I'm married. I've heard from magazines that I can do it with anyone, but I should use a condom. In movies they make it seem like you can have as much sex as you want. Then you have others saying save your virginity while another group says things like you have to "test drive before you buy" kind of thing.
Who is right? Or because in this day and age that there are so few girls that have thier virginity that it's not important anymore?
Thanks,
A Virgin and proud (or possibly not)....
Opinions on "who is right" are almost as numerous and varied as they are all wrong. Nobody can make this choice for you, just as nobody can dictate any of your other morals.
Conventional wisdom tells you to save yourself for marriage. Conventional wisdom forgets to tell you that 88% of teens who vow abstinance can't keep their word (True story), and those that don't are far more likely to not use protection.
I'll spare you my opinion on virginity, because frankly, it isn't relevent here.
So, who is right? Nobody is. The side that says "Sex is fun and easy, have as much of it as you want with no consequences!" are living in a dream world, and the side that says "Don't have sex! You WILL get an STD and you WILL die!" are lying to themselves and everyone around them. As with all things, the truth is somewhere in the middle.
My advice to you is not to listen to anybody here, myself included. Everything you're being told by the TV, movies, your parents, your church, and us Advicenators about sex and virginity is (probably) wrong. Decide for yourself what "right" and "wrong" are. It's the most important choice you'll make in your life. As for being proud, you'll know if you are or aren't when you find your moral compass.
And of course, no matter what you decide to do, do it safely.
okay so lets say im giving a guy a blow job and his cum gets in my mouth. then ill either swallow it or spit it out, either way i might still have a little in my mouth and not know it. then i go back to kissing the guy and he later eats me out. could i possibly get pregnant?
Yes, it's possible, but you have a better chance of being hit by a train, so don't worry about it.
i was just wondering if there are certain foods you are not meant to eat together with, for example, milk and meat isn't good for you... im not sure about that, it is just an example. so please could someone help me understand if there is one, and if there isnt,.... why?!
if there is, which foods??
i would like to eat my crackers with cheese and corriander, 2 thing i love!! but i don't know if it is good or not for my body n diet and all that. apparentl, if you have the deep 'cut' on ur tongue, vertically, it means the foods you are eating, the mixture, isn't good... so confused really.
thanks so much in advance! :D
Foods that "don't go together" aren't considered such for health reasons as much as for taste reasons. The best example I can think of is potatoes and bread, which supposedly don't go together. Personally, I think they taste just fine together.
That said, there is no exaustive list of foods that "don't go together", because it all varies depending on personal taste.
The deep vertical cut on your tounge doesn't mean anything.
15/f.
Ok, so i've been goin out with this guy for about 10 or 11 months, he's my best friend as well as my boyfriend, we've known each other since we were 8 years old. so its a really strong bond we have. But just recently things have like started to heat up abit, he told me he wants to go further with me, and that he loves me so much. He said he knows we could go further and I want to. But I'm not to sure anymore as he's been doing really minxy gestures and it feels good, i won't deny that but I'm just feeling this doubt.
Should I Go For It ?
Or Not ?
Help ?
Signed, Lou.
X
Nobody can make this decision for you, although if you're waiting until you're absolutely sure, chances are you'll be waiting forever. Go with your gut instinct.
Whatever you decide to do, do it safely of course.
im CC ( bi female) and me and my girlfriend want to kiss but we are debating who should start/ initiate the kiss and we are going back and forth saying "you do it" and "no you do it" so who should go first....
Girlfriend...
or CC....
Instead of "who should go first?", a better question to ask would be "does it matter who goes first?", and the answer to that is no, it doesn't matter.
For the sake of circumventing frivilous issues like this, you should initiate it.
I have this uncle, who had a divorce. Then he met this girl. He is 63. This girl is 23. I have no problem with age differences. But this has gone to far. That is somewhat 40 years. That is nasty. I understand 20, or less, but 40, come on. He defentily does not look 60. He broke up with her for a 22 year. Myt uncle disguests me. My whole familly has no problem. I want him to be happy, but that happy, is to me just plain wrong. He also is verrrrrrrrry rich. These girls seem to like his money.He doesn't notice or get hurt. I am tired of seeing a young woman, that is only 2,3, or 4 years older then my sister who's 20. They could be my isters. That so nasty. I need peoples opinion on young + old = love/like relationaships.
My opinion is that it's not anybody elses business who your uncle chooses to date or marry. He's an adult, and he can make his own choices without consulting anyone else (Other than the person he's dating/marrying, obviously).
It's also fairly common, especially with "verrrrrrrrry rich" older guys. Your uncle isn't "weird" for doing this.
I was wondering if your high school was at all like its portrayed in the show the Secret life of an American Teenager? I'm a sophomore, and sure kids are having sex at my school but its not nearly dramatic and a big deal as it is in the show.
My mom happened to see the show so now she's got the wrong idea about my friends and my school. Sure I'm somewhat sexually active but its not like its all everyone talks about and everyone doesn't just sleep around.
I'm curious how your high schools are in comparison to the show. Thanks!
TV is never, ever, ever the same as real life. Even documenteries are blown out of proportion and exaggurated.
Yes, teeneragers are having sex. Yes, some are getting pregnant. This isn't anything new, and it isn't anything to panic about.
My old high school was what I consider to be fairly normal, and there were a fair amount of couples that people assumed were having sex, and I've had a few conversations about sex with classmates in class, but everyday life is nothing close to what's depicted on the show.
I received a baby shower invitation today, and I plan on going, but there is no "please RSVP" on the invite. Tt saiys "regrets only" and then has a phone number. I assume that this means to only "rsvp" if you CAN'T go. Am I correct?
Also, do you think it would be strange if I brought 2 friends with me? The pregnant woman is actually a former teacher of mine (and the two people I'd like to bring), and when I attended her wedding a few years ago I felt sort of awkward because I didn't really know anyone there (I was the only student there because I was really close to her - she was like a big sister to me). She had told me afterwords that I could have brought a friend or two with me to the wedding.
I wouldn't doubt that I'd be the only student there (I've actually graduated high school already...)
I would just ask her, but there are a few reasons I can't.
I would just invite one of the two girls I want to (the other can be a tad obnoxious when excited - she's very, very perky) but it's one of those situations where you can't invite one without the other. Again, too much detail to get into it.
Basically, what is the ettiquette for bringing 1-2 friend with you to a shower where you would otherwise not know anybody, and what is the RSVP ettiquette when it says "regrets only"... does that mean only if you don't plan on attending?
Thank you tons and sorry for the crazy length!
If the people you're inviting know the shower-host, and you're reasonabley sure that she won't mind, it's not that big of a deal. There's no set "ettiquette" for situations like this, so it'd be best to just try and guess the way your former teacher would react.
And yes, "regrets only" means call if you can't go.