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Can I get an STD by....


Question Posted Wednesday August 13 2008, 6:52 pm

well im no lesbian but me and my friend are quite bisexual.
so I was wondering if I can get an std from her.
like idk if she has anything but I know that when she had sex recently she let the guy cum in her.
&& all we did was like
-makeout
-finger
-eat out
-69
so any possible way?
anything will help.
please and thank you.


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Peeps answered Wednesday August 13 2008, 7:21 pm:
Female on female sexual interactions also spread disease and infections very efficiently. You run a pretty high risk of contracting any STD/STI she has, especially since she is also sexually active with other partners.

Making out STD risk:

This would mainly be risking contracting herpes. Usually you will contract the HSV-1 strain (herpes 1), otherwise known as oral herpes. For some good information on herpes, how it's spread, and what it is exactly, check this link out:

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Fingering or mutual masturbating:

HPV can live under the fingernails and herpes is so easily spread that many people with coldsores even end up having sores on their fingertips at some point. You touch so many things during the day you have no idea what's on your hands or deep in your nails that you cannot reach to wash away. You, most certainly, can contract herpes on any area of your body, just as a note. You are at risk of contracting HPV from your friend's nails and herpes from her fingertips and nails if she has come in contact with such viruses during the day (extremely risky if she has herpes or hpv herself).

Eating out or oral sex (this includes "69"):

You are running the risk of oral/genital HPV, both strains of herpes (HSV-1 and HSV-1, otherwise known as oral herpes and genital herpes), chlamydia, syphilis, and even HIV.

Here is some really good questions people have asked before that very much relates to your question:

"Can you get an STD from giving a hand job?" (This is equal to you fingering your friend or her fingering you):

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"Coldsores means herpes, right? Well, when am I considered contagious then?" (in cause you or your friend has herpes):

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"Where can you contract herpes at? Just your genitals...right?" (wrong, you can contract it anywhere):

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"I just engaged in oral sex. Am I at risk for anything?" (although the person engaged in oral sex with a male partner, this is equal to you engaging in oral sex with your female partner as well):

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Make sure to read my answer on each of those questions listed above. My answers contain some very good knowledge that you really need to know.

You really should make an appointment with your doctor to have an STD/STI screening, as your partner should as well. STDs are SO common now that it's extremely easy to catch something. Many men and women are simply unaware that they have contracted a disease and spread it to a large number of people. Please be safe and get yourself (and your friend) tested for future health reasons. This if your life and health we're talking about.

If you have any more questions relating to this (or need some more information) please feel free to ask me :)

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Comrade answered Wednesday August 13 2008, 7:07 pm:
All STDs are different, although there are quite a few that can be spread in the ways you listed.

Before you panic, please check if your partner actually has an STD or not. Contrary to what fundamentalist reactionaries will want you to believe, not everyone out there has an STD.

Still, if you're in doubt, get checked out. And like Cux said, be safe.

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Cux answered Wednesday August 13 2008, 6:58 pm:
Any time you engage in any sexual activity, your risk spreading STDs.

Please be safe from now on.

--Jack
(16/m)

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