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is this normal?


Question Posted Thursday July 17 2008, 4:56 pm

ok so my boyfriend and I were having sex yesterday and when he pulled out the condom was covered in white sticky stuff. I mean like solid white, it looked kind of like glue. It wasn't seman, because his condom didn't rip or leak or anything we checked. it must have come from me. Now I know girls have discharge but mine has always been clear. is it normal for it to be white? Could something be wrong with me?

extra:
we have been dating for 5 years, we were both each other's firsts and neither of us has ever had any type of sex with somebody else.

the condom was ribbed, and because of that it was a little more harsh than usual. would that have anything to do with it?

and we KNOW the condom didn't break or leak, we checked.

we've had sex about 15 times, and it still kind of hurts for me. Is this normal?


What could be wrong with me? please help I feels so clueless.

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Melody answered Friday July 18 2008, 6:46 pm:
That's your natural lubrication. =] Absolutely nothing to worry about in the least, it's completely normal & actually a good thing. It probably means you were enjoying yourself.

I have been having sex for 2.5 years, and sometimes I still hurt too if I haven't had sex in a few weeks, or if i'm not well lubricated enough.

You all are perfectly safe & it's perfectly normal.

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Annerszz_101 answered Friday July 18 2008, 12:12 am:
Yep, don't worry about it.
I freaked the first time I squirted & it was that thick, but don't worry about it. It's perfectly normal and healthy. =]

Yes, it's normal.
Don't feel clueless, you can e-mail me if you want if you have any more sex questions, and nothing is wrong with you. =]

Hope i helped, let me know!

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Comrade answered Thursday July 17 2008, 5:38 pm:
The white glue-like discharge is normal. My girlfriend has it all the time.

It's also not unheard of for sex to kind of hurt even after 15+ times. Tell your boyfriend to be a little more gentle. He has to understand that you, as a female, aren't like him, and with a vagina comes added sensitivity that we men don't have with our penises.

Nothing is wrong with you. There's nothing to be worried about.

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