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guy can't cum
ok so ive had sex with this guy only 2 times.. but he can't cum... he told me he barley ever masturbates and when we have sex he just can't cum he swears its not me or anything im doing thats stopping him he said that it feels good and he gets close but can't and he wont really talk to me about it other then that so i don't know whats wrong, does anyone have an idea what might be wrong? and some tips on how to get him to cum would be gooooood to ;]
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Alright I've had this problem with several guys and NOTHING is wrong with them. And don't worry, nothing is wrong with you either. It's not because he isn't turned on by you, or doesnt find you sexy, it's strictly psychological.
Girls like guys that last long right?(have long lasting erections)Well, after holding it inf or a certain amount of time, guys have a diffictulty of getting it back out without masturbating.
What I'd suggest doing is ask him to masturbate infront of you, then TAKE NOTE OF WHAT HE DOES, then try and perfect his technique. That way, if he still can't cum, you just finish with your hand. That way, you're doing it instead of him.
Another really important thing is his grip on his penis while he masturbates. If his grip is tight, it won't be the same as the feeling inside you. Ask him to loosen his grip while he masturbates, that might help a LOT.
Have fun;)
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Find out if he's on any prescription medications. Why? His inability to ejaculate easily could be a sexual side-effect of the drug. There are other reasons for this which be sexual hang ups, putting pressure on himself or being scared of something related to sex or intimacy.
Ask him if there's anything he's afraid of from getting you pregnant to something downright irrational. Fear can definitely paralyze people during sex from enjoying it or ejaculating in his case. If the problem is mental in nature he'll need a psychologist to figure out the reason for his sexual dysfunction.
If he's enjoying the experience than that's a good sign. He's always close to climax also. It just may mean that it takes him longer and keep going or that he can't achieve easily for some reason.
If he sees a urologist about his reproductive health and mentions the issue he's had with inability to ejaculate through sex or masturbation they can check to see if there's a physical problem.
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