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my last boyfriend(nicknamed kp)and i broke up in july. my friends comforted me and supported me, but three of my friends had a secret. when one of them(of the 3 friends) left for about 30min, so the other two decided to make the move. they were pretty shy about it. but they finally told me that my ex cheated on me with 10 other girls.
i was hurt, who wouldnt. i told some other friends and soon all my friends knew( well most, and thats alot). over myspace kp told me my friend gina tried to strangle him for it. and he told he never cheated on me, and that my friends said lies. im pretty mad at kp, but should i believe him?
14/f
MiCHii with love (link)
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If you have no proof, I wouldn't take his word for it. However, True friends don't keep secrets from one another. If they were really friends they would of told you earlier instead of leading you on. If your friends told you that your ex cheated on you with "10 other girls" please I doubt that is actually true it sounds a little exaggerated. Yes, he might of cheated on you but with 10 others..sounds to good to be true. Did you have clues that you didn't pick up on? Did he show the signs of cheating...? Only you would know that.
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Kay so in Colorado do you have to have your permit for the full 12 months if you have already completed All your driving hours already and have parental permission to get it early?? Oh and your almost 17 (link)
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http://www.coloradodrivinginstitute.com/new-laws.html
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Basically for the last few months, I have suffered this very sudden abdominal pain, that really strikes to the point where you immediately keel over, and it goes all the way to my bum, I struggle to sit and walk.
I find as gross as this sounds that it almost stops when I go to the toilet & release my bowels, but surely I should not be getting the pain that severe? I wasn't even desperate for the toilet, I almost had to force it to happen. My stomach now feels tender like Ive been stabbed and its healing. Its really painful and not sure what to do about it, Ive been on my period 2 days, but I dont find it happens just during this time, I find it happens other times too. (link)
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I would see a doctor, If it is that painful it could be something serious. I found a list of possible things on a website...
Causes of Buttock pain:The following medical conditions are some of the possible causes of Buttock pain. There are likely to be other possible causes, so ask your doctor about your symptoms.
Buttock conditions (see Buttock symptoms)
Anal conditions
Rectal conditions
Sciatica
Hip arthritis
Gluteal claudication
Sacroilitis
Spondylarthropathies
Tuberculous infection
Pyogenic infection
Primary tumor of pelvic bone
Secondary tumor of pelvic bone
Pelvic fracture
Osteoporosis
Osteomalacia
Paget's disease of bone
Polymyalgia rheumatica
Gluteal bursitis
Trochanteric bursitis
Ankylosing spondylitis
Pregnancy
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I have an elder cat, who we've had for as long as i can remember. one of my kittens, who's a couple years old now (not so much a kitten ) was born around this older cat and absolutely adores him. he purrs and rubs himself against him. will he get depressed when my older cat passes on? how can i help him feel better when he does? (link)
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Your young cat probably sees the older cat as a father figure, However when the cat passes in time the younger one will forget, memories will fade and he will over come the loss of the other cat. Yes, he may go through a depression that you will need to watch closely because it could effect the young one to the point where it doesn't want to eat. The younging will need a lot of comfort and love and over time the young will get better. I do not recommend getting another cat after the older one passes, not right away anyway just like human beings the younger cat will need time to heal.
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How do you tell some one who has a girlfreind that you are completely in love with them? (link)
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Don't bite my head off here but..
You really can't tell them, If they are happy with someone eles than you really have no right to intrude on the relationship by stating how you feel about the person. It will only cause problems between not just the boyfriend and girlfriend but a big arguement with you as well. How would you feel if someone did something like that too you? put yourself in that persons shoes. I think you need to put the feelings aside at least for now and try and move on, Wait for that person to become available then tell them.
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My dads girlfreind! For the past year she has came before everyone in his life! I mean come on now because I didnt get along with her and buy her crap she convinced my dad to make me come live with my mom. And now for the past year me and my dad fight everyday ..over her!
Im so sick of it I love my dad so much and wish we could have a relationship and talk like we used to but its impossible with her. No matter how many times I tell my dad how I feel he defends her. I wish she would die, she took the most important person in my life from me. what can I do? (link)
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Damn this sounds just like the situation I'm in now infact spot on...
I would try and tell your father how you feel about his wife, Let him know that you want to spend one on one time with him. Technically he is your dad and you really should be able to spend that father/daughter time with him. My situation is the exact same thing however over time I got tired of it and I couldn't take it anymore. I know you love your father I love mine too, but if your father wants to give up his relationship with his daughter to defend his wife then sadly there really isn't much you can do about it. You can hate his wife, call her names and wish she'd get run over by a bus..but that is not going to change the fact that she is your fathers wife.
Let me give you a little of what happended to me and what I did...
My stepmother I didn't like her for years, Pretty much everything you've said about your stepmom only mine loves to over criticize just about everything and anyone basically she controls my father and makes choices for him. I've talked to him on several occassions but he is constantly defensive of his wife and acknowledges she did no wrong...Over the years sadly the stress has gotten the best of me and I had to go my seperate way.
The only thing I can tell you is to sit down with your father and sternly tell him how you feel, Spill all of it while you get the chance. Hopefully he will come around and hear what you are saying. Remember you aren't alone in this boat
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I want to be popular and hang out with the "cool" group. But I don't know how to start a conversation... it's not that im not friendly, I am! And I always talked to everyone but I want to change my look this year and I want to see how it felt to hang out with the popular people can you help? (link)
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Just be yourself, Nobody becomes "popular" overnight. I'm not saying you do, but try not to over do things to get fit with the in crowd as it will only cause more embarrassing attention. I think you should just be yourself being "popular" only puts more stress and pressure on you because it becomes a competition between one another. People who become popular tend to forget who they truely are most of the time not to mention all the other crap that they get themselves into.
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I hate my wavy short hair an I straighten it every morning. But the humidity in my area is very extreme and my hair starts getting wavy and frizzy as soon as I stay outside for a few minutes. So at school I come as a puff ball with wavy hair... Also if my dad decides to take me in his car it doesn't matter because I have P.E. first hour and we ALWAYS go outside for a run and activities, so either way its frizzes and gets wavy and I end up looking bad... I tried using my wavy hair to look good but no use...it just looked childish. So can anyone help me and tell me if there is a product I can use to make my hair stay straight and not-frizzy or a hairstyle that can work for wavy short hair(shoulder lenghth).
thanks. (link)
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I have wavy thick hair, Believe it or not I found that Pantene Pro-V is good on the hair as far as washing it. Also, to help keep your hair soft you could buy spray on conditioner which helped me from frizzing. If your hair has a dried out and dead feeling to it you might want to buy a hair replacement conditioner. If you straighten your hair in the heat and humidity your hair will only become more fried out and you will have a higher chance of it frizzing.
Good luck! :)
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Well this is a tough one and I have no clue what to do, lost you could say. Im going to try and explain this to were it makes sense. Im 13 and turning 14 in a month. Curently I live with my jerk of a step father and mom. when i was little something happened with me and my dad. He went to jail. My mother lied saying my step dad is my real dad. I found out the truth a year or so ago and found my real dad a month or so ago now me and my dad have grown close. How do i get my SD to let me see my dad? (link)
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Technically your step-father has no say on whether not you can have contact with your father. As he is your father and you do have the right to see him. However, concidering you are a minor if your mother didn't approve than she could have say on whether you see him or not. I would try and get more information on your dad by going to someone you trust like maybe your mother it sounds like there might be a reason behind it. Find out what that "Something" was that happened between you and your dad. If it is serious like Steph said below me I would rethink the relationship between you and your father. I'm sure there is a reason for it.
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Everyone seems to have a problem with age I dont see why its just the some person being born a different time. What do you think? (link)
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If you are talking about age in general, It's not that big of a deal. However, If you are talking about a relationship with someone it is a big deal because it is illegal and not appropriate.
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14/f
My exboyfriend/friend told me he loved me and got me single and commited only to him for two months. Then we fooled around (no sex) and he's not been the same. Tonight He just went off on me for asking him if he lied to me.
"Yea I lied to you. I felt bad for you and your lonely ass. I felt bad for you this whole year. you'be always been beneath me (he's a foot taller and literally means it. He feels bad cuz he's even told me he feels like he's got more authority just by being bigger) and youre mad because I never flet the same way about you. I'm not even trippin right now so you can say whatever you want and get lost."
He told everyone he knew that he scored...
I'm really trusting and wanted to believe everything he'd tell me because I really thought he cared. But apparently not.
He begged me to stay with him. He cried after randomly blowing up multiple times at me and apologizing. He did everything to make me believe he cared.
I'm naive and believed him.
Can guys really lie like this, this easily??? Should I not trust guys anymore??? because honestly, I'm scared....I know just saying straight out that I'm scared may seem a bit irrational but...really. I don't want to go through this ever again.
any advice will be greatly appreciated. really any, you have no idea. (link)
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That does not sound like a true boyfriend if you ask me, Not only is he extremely immature but manipulitive at the same time. You need to decide for yourself, Is this what you really want to deal with? You are only 14, He will not be the only one you date in your lifetime and I can guarrantee it. Any guy who lies in a relationship is not only dishonest but as time goes on and you fall into his lies it only gets worse. I think you need to get rid of this guy he doesn't sound worthwhile. Not only does he look down at you but he manipulates you. Don't let him do the whole sympathy story "Oh please take me back, I'm sorry I love you" stand your ground you are stronger than that. If you continue to stay with him not only will he continue to make you feel 2 feet tall but he might continue to manipulate you as well as he now knows he can get away with it. You need to stand up for yourself and let him know that you won't tolorate his shit.
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First of all sorry for the gross subject.
I got my navel pierced a couple months ago on vacation in Florida. I don't remember which day but it was around June 1st of this year. I know I was supposed to wait probably longer than I did but about 3 weeks after that I switched out the jewelry. It's a curved barbell, not a ring, if that makes any difference.
Now when I switched the piercing the first time I didn't have any problems, so I assumed it was fine even though I did it a little early. It went on being the same way it had been before I switched it. Now every couple of days since I got it pierced I notice a little build up of something around the piercing holes and on the ends of the barbell. Most of the time it's kind of hard sometimes I have to pick at it for it to come off. And sometimes if I move the jewelry a little out of the way it will push a little "goo" (for lack of a better term) out of the piercing hole. It's off white almost cream in color. I clean it almost every day before I shower using a Q-tip with Band-Aid brand antiseptic wound wash as directed by the piercing professional. My boyfriend was worried that this build-up meant it was infected, even though I thought it was fine...so he asked around and apparently every one he asked also said this is normal.
Then just now, I changed my jewelry again. I figured it was no big deal since it was fine the first time and the piercing has had even more time to heal since then. When I took the old jewelry out I cleaned the piercing, then cleaned the new jewelry and put it in. Now I'm pretty sure it was just because I moved it the wrong way or pushed something too hard but it started bleeding. Not a lot just a teeny bit but then I moved it like how I do when I clean it and the goo came out with some diluted blood color.
I'm not really worried that much that the bleeding area wont heal but I just have a couple questions for anyone that has their belly button pierced.
Is it really normal for the build up stuff to be there? and what about the occasional goo?
Now that I've somehow reopened the piercing, should I kind of start over in the piercing process and start cleaning it several times a day?
Should I be worried that the bloody goo stuff is some sort of infection? Or was it just the combination of the goo and reopening the piercing?
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If it is red and hurts a little bit than it is infected, If it is just a little bit of blood and pus than it should go away soon. When you first peirce anything it will bleed a little bit. Make sure you clean it as needed. If it doesn't go away in a few days it might need to be taken out.
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is it okay to not want people to go to your house?
cuz i always go to my friends houses.
do they want to come here? (link)
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Yes, It is okay. Your home is your privacy and your comfort zone. Sometimes people perfer to go over other's houses instead of having company at there home. I personally am the same way nothing wrong with it. :)
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I would prefer foreign names like Italian ones or Russian or even Hawaiian..annything unique. (link)
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Marcello
Romeo
Rocco
Aiden
Gianni
Jezebel
Chiara
Kialah (Ki-ya-lah)
Prima
Aloha
Bambalina
Nikolai
Averiy
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Ok
So my fiancé and I live in these apartments. We have lived here for about a year.
The office management advertises a "year round" swming pool, however, it's been open maybe 1 or 2 months total this whole year.
For the past month, the pool has not been touched. It is severely green and puts off a rotten smell. We have to walk by it to check the mail.
I was mad that we haven't ever gotten to swim, but I got over it.
It fiancé and I were talking about it to his parents and they said that a pool in that condition is hazardous to you Health because or airborne toxin and suggested that we call the health department right away.
Are they right? Is this somehong that needs to be acted upon??
Thanks in advance for your advice. (link)
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If it is so bad it is putting off a foul smell than yes I would say it is a health hazard. I would also be ticked off it they were falsely advertizing a pool. It is the apartment complex's job to keep the building safe and clean to all residents and children living in the area. I would personally call the health department and have it checked out it certainly wouldn't hurt.
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We are expecting our first child and need baby name help. My husband and I have chosen not to find out the sex of our baby until he/she has been born. We have some names we like, but we aren't 100% sure on any of them. We thought maybe someone could suggest some that they really enjoy and let us know what they thought about some of ours.
Baby names we like so far...
Baby boy names:
Michael David
John Patrick
James Paul
David Austin
Baby girl names:
Grace Anne
Madison Faith
Anna-Claire
Elisa Grace
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
We like sweet, old-fashioned names, and traditional names mainly.
Thank you. (link)
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I've always like Jezebellah for a female
Adam for a boy
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17/f my family doesn't really support me being vegetarian so I basically have to cook for myself. I don't really know what to make. I don't eat any kind of meat and I dont ever plan on it, it grosses me out. So what's good that I can make? I've been living on yogurt and noodles. Ha any suggestions? By the way, I've never had tofu, I don't know where to find it, and also I don't like the taste of meat so yeah don't think I'd want it:)
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Hello there!
Well tofu is good and can be found in the refridgerated section at a grocery store near the cheese department or dairy. Also, Seitan is a great subsitute for meat here is an example of what I mean... Seitan; (pronounced say-tan), wheat meat, gluten meat, or simply gluten, is a food made from the gluten of wheat. Also, vegetables are good too eat and if you like beans that would be good to subsitute for protein. TVP is also a good meat subsitute as well and is good in soup, chili or stir frys. You can find that on a website called bulkfoods.com which many serves a large varity of vegetarian foods as well as other foods too. I myself was a vegetarian for 5 years. :)
If you need anything eles please send me a message!
BahaiMa22
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15/F
I want to get ear gauges. However, my parents think it's a dumb idea and I won't ever be able to get a job with them. They believe that they won't heal back if I decide to take them out. They say I can have them when I move out, but I know I won't want them then.
How do I convince my parents to let me get them? (link)
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Depending on how big you want them they can do permanent stretching to your ear. The chances of them healing and going back to normal are very slim only because the lower ear is cartilage. I don't think there is really anyway to convince your parents to get them, Trying to get them by sneaking is also not possible because anyone under the age of 18 is required to have a parent sign papers also your parents must be there and yes they do check ID's. Also, most jobs do not hire people with visible tattoos or unattractive peircings as it draws attention and costumers complain.
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Do guys like find it a turn off when there is hair down there. My boyfriend wants to finger me but i don't want him to think its gross or something. any advice helps.
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Ask him what he perfers all guys are different. If he truely loves you he won't care what you look like and that is what it is about.
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16/f
I eat when I'm bored or depressed even when I'm not hungry, and when I do I eat until I can't fit any more food in me. Whenever I'm doing something, I'm also always thinking about what I'm going to eat when I get home.
I think these are signs of being a binge eater.
So my question is: What are some ways that I can get this under control? I've gained some weight and while I'm not overweight yet, I'd like to have this under control now. It's making me even sadder, which of course makes me want to eat more.
I feel gross and disgusting all the time, but I can't stop thinking about food.
Help? (link)
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When you think about food and you are not hungry try and go for a walk or do something you like to do. If you have an urge for food you could also try going to a glass of water instead. Also, When you are hungry you could try drinking a glass of water first before eatting it will fill you up faster and prevent you from eatting as much.
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