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ok i live in st.louis and like i don't live in the city i live like a half hour away and i was wondering if i live this far from the city why do the girls here only like guys that do drugs and flunk outta school and do just really stupid stuff like that? and is it like this every where else or did i just get screwed into livein here? (link)
You got screwed big time. All the girls round here love intelligent geeky guys, who know Perl and aren't afraid to use it.


Hi. My name is Shawn. I'm a pretty shy person, so I have trouble just coming out and telling people how I feel about them. My best friend is a girl named Sara. She's been my best friend since we were both like 10. I've never noticed having any feelings for her before, but a few weeks ago I caught myself thinking about her for no reason. The next time I saw her, it felt different too. I thought "She's really pretty...", and I don't think I've ever thought of her that way before. Now I find myself thinking of her all the time. I feel funny whenever I'm around her, like my body is getting lighter and I sometimes start to feel hot. I know I've never been in love before, but I also don't know how it's supposed to feel. Is it possible that I love Sara and I didn't even realize it?? And if I do love her, should I risk our friendship by telling her? I can't tell if she really likes me that way or not. She's always nice to me, and likes spending time with me, but it could just be as friends... I'd appreciate any feedback you can give me. Thanks. (link)
well shawn...it seems that you have all the key aspects of love down but there's one problem...have you talked to sara? you might wanna ask her sometime but dont just come out with it and be like sara i love u...take it slow and ket her think...let it process through her head for awhile and then ask her a few days later...make sure that you dont make it obvious...make sure that u dont rush her either...it'll make her nervous and she mioght push you away...but in the long run...it'll help i promise...it'll let you know if you really do love her or if it is just a teenage crush!!! lemme know if this helps...i love feed back!!! helps alot...email me back ASAP!!! thanx...
love always...
_XkelseyX_


Hi I am 16 f and i was raped and the guy who did it told me not to tell anyone.so i havent said a word to anyone until now but the thing is my bf wants me to have sex with him but im not ready cuz it was just recently that i was raped. should i tell someone what happend or just not say a thing and try having sex with my bf? I rate.

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personally if i were you i would tell someone about the rape...he cant threaten you...it's against the law and he could go to jail...i had a friend that was raped and she didnt tell anyone except for me...it was hard for me because i knew she needed to tell someone but i couldnt tell anyone because it didnt happen to me...you should tell someone soon...the sooner the better...if you wait you will lose all of your evidence in your body of him entering it...it also helps to talk about it as well...helps you to get things off your chest...if i were you i would go to your mom or a guidance teaacher in your school...i promise...it'll help you(get over it) and it will also help prevent this from happening to someone else...hope this helps...lemme know if it does!!!
love always...
_XkelseyX_

p/s you should also have a talkw ith you're boyfreiend and tell him you had just gone through...let him no the facts and tell him you're not ready...doing iot so soon after being raped could hurt you in the long run...and another thing is it could mess up the evidence that you have with the rapist because they will say that you hve had sex several times before...and u dont want to do that...and one more thing!!!! never ever ever ever blame yourself for what he did to you!!! it wasnt you're fault it was his...you said no and no means no!!!! just remember it's not your fault


I wanted to know if you could do like rhyming quotes for me or something about 2010? Cuz i cant find anywhere on websites ..quotes about 2010... ok well thanx! (link)
hey there's quotes for like every class except 2010..but i'll make one or find one!..not today tho cuz it's late here..check for one tomorrow or thurs. xO`lexi


hey ok..i found tons for every class except 2010..but i got one for 2009 and changed the last couple lines a bit so it ryhmes with 10..haha i tried..hope u like ..xO` lexi..plz rate me

Girls Tease Til You Cry, The Guys Are, Oh So Fly
Got the hottest style, the latest trends.
Easy to jock but impossible to rock
we do what we want, how we went...
you cant tell us when..
Cause were the CLASS of 2010!


Should I have sex with my boyfriend even though he's 20 and I'm 16? (link)
personally if i were you...i would wait until i was at least 2 years older then you are now...this is just for legal rights...and only do it if you love him and he loves you...so if you wait and he waits with you...you will know that he wants to be with you and not some other girl...
i hope this helps...lemme know if it does!!
-xkelseyx-


this is my fourth time having my period. it keep starting then stopping. this is the first time it has ever done that. can u pleez tell me why?
(i rate!) thanx (link)
hey...i reason why this is happening is because ur body is learning how to become used to having a period once a month for the rest of your life until u turn about 50...but there is nothing wrong with it...everything will fall into play and it will become a regualr thing for you...promise!!!
-xkelseyx-


Hello I was just wondering what qualities a gurl around 16-17 looks for in a guy. Anyone who can help me i'll rate ya good. (link)
hey!!!
aight well since i'm 18 i think i would know what a girl around those ages would look for.
in my opinion, the girl has to hve something in common with the guy...usually we like to have fun..we lso like it when you guys tell us we're cute and we always say no we're not...umm someone that she could just talk to...and hey guys if you want a girl to really like you, you have to put out some effort...like calling her...or doing sweet things for her...honesty is always a plus... respect is anopther biggie...and i think the last thing would be show affection...girls love that...hope this all helps!!1 lemme know if it does!!!
-xkelseyx-


I'm 14 goin on 15 here soon and the same with this guy I like. We've been best friends ever since I've moved to Texas which is about a year. Our relationship didn't really take off until spring break of 2004. He was the first guy I met in Texas that I had a crush on him and he told me the first time he saw me he wanted me. So we finally told each other this spring break. Since, spring break we've been keep the fire goin, but we haven't kissed or anything like that. The most we've done is flirt big time and hug tons. What should I do to really get this relationship off?? (link)
just give it time...it will all play out and everything will be awesome the first time you guys kiss!!! promise!!! you just dont need to rush into anything to soon that the 2 of you arent ready for...so if you guys are still having fun with each other...just wait until it feels right for the both of you!!
-xkelseyx-


IM MIKE! Im a nice guy and alot of girls like me. i have a pretty good life except ONE THING..puberty. my voice is still a little high and there is no sign of cracking. im 13 years old and i turn 14 in the begging of january! Is there something wrong with me?! (link)
hey mike!!!
buddy i promise nothing is wrong with you...iot's just that some guys bodies are alittle bit more advance then others...but i promise one day you'll hit it!!! ***and no there is nothing wrong with you...my little brother didnt hit it until his freshman year...and usually if it happens later in life...it's not as noticable...which is good!!!***
lemme mknow if i helped you!!!
-xkelseyx-


im a 15 year old girl...i've been friends with this guy for almost a year, and me and my friends hang out with him and his friends a lot, so we're kinda like a little group. earlier this year we went out, but nothing happened (we didnt even kiss and it was hard cuz we went to different schools). while we were going out i heard shit all the time about how he liked another girl or w/e and i tried to ignore it all. well..after about a month we broke up cuz we agreed it wasnt really a relationship. ive liked him ever since we broke up and hes had 1 g/f since me, but they jsut recently broke up. i think he knows i like him and i really want to tal to him about how i feel, i just dont know how to do it or if we should just go on being friends and nothing more. im scared if we go out again things will be the same as they were(even tho we'll be going to the same school this year) (link)
hey...i've had this with one of my guy friends as well...but one day we were sitting there, just hagning out and i just popped out with it and told him how i felt. i thinkn the best way to handle the situation would be to upfront and lay everything on the table that you feel about him...just lay it out there so you dont end up getting hurt in the long run nd plus it will usually make you feel better once it is off your chest!!!:)hope this helps!!!
-xkelseyx-


I had sex about 6 days ago, and i didnt use a condom! im supposed to start my period sometime this week, or at the end of the month! WHat do i do if i dont have my period, i wouldnt kno what to do because i dont talk to my parents about this stuff..pleez help me!!! (link)
i didnt use a condom! im supposed to start my period


Hi I am a 26 yearold lady and my husband has been beating me eversince we got married he even beats are adopded child and she is only 2 I am always trying to keep me and Shauna (my daughter) away from the house when people call for me he says im not there and hangs up and then throws the phone at me this may sound wierd about me asking a 15 year old for advice but any advice will help thank you (link)
well, first of all, im really terribly sorry to hear that a bastard like him is destroying your life. Since your husband is abusive then don't try anything slick in front of him because then he'll just hurt you more...so wait until he leaves the house and when he does, take your daughter and go straight to the police. i know this might be hard for you but if not for yourself then do this for our daughter. Be a strong women and send that prick straight 2 jail. hope i helped out :)


i got this huge pimple that just showed up overnight, does anyone know how to get rid of it fast? (link)
use acne medicine or like get some of ur moms conseler till it goes away


Well I know this is kinda sick and all but im gonna ask neways..when I shave down there its gets all red like a rash and then sometimes it bleed and i really dont know what to do.. (link)
i kno some ppl that happened to and they said that using like warm water in the shower and not pushing hard helps keep it smooth but it might itch


I dated this person 4 almost 4 yrs... I loved them soo much n then we went down hill. I don't know if I'm still "inlove" with them, but I always think about them. It's starting to get better and fade away, but they seem to already have moved on. It's only been a year!! What should I do?? Do you think they've moved on?We were eachothers first loves, and I thought first loves don't end!!!Plz Help!! (link)
okayy... it`s totally, completely normal tp feel this way. it will take a long while to get over you special someone. and no they are not over you yet. im almost 99 out of 100% sure of that. first loves never die. its normal. hope i helped! =) xox
-Jess


Well I know this is kinda sick and all but im gonna ask neways..when I shave down there its gets all red like a rash and then sometimes it bleed and i really dont know what to do.. (link)
okay. if this irritates it. then you need to stop doing this. talk to you mom or if your a dude.. your dad .. but i dont see why this would be a guy. lol well babe if this doesnt help see your doctor. hope i helped! =) xox
-Jess


whats the best way to get over a guy that ur stuck on? (link)
do not do anything that reminds you of him. try to find someone new .. itll take time tho. =) hope i helped! xox
-Jess


hello okay umm i need a huge list of ideas what i could do if i threw apartie in the summer...im only 14 (link)
*music
*movies
*truth or dare
*dancing(if your into that)
*lots of food
*a quiet, darkish place ... for .. "talking" (?)
*umm...if you have a pool or hot tub .. use those.
...sorry babe thats all i got... hope i helped!
-Jess


ok..theres a gurl iv known for like 8 months and im pretty dure she has no intrest in me but i cant get her off my mind and shes like totally perfect. like anytime i hear a song or nething i think of her i cant get her outta my head.and iv tryed to forget about her but evertime i talk to her or see her it starts all over agian. idk if i should just keep trying to forget her or keep likeing her and see if sumething will happen. (link)
well i think yu should talk to her about it. i know is i was in her position i would love to hear about a dude liking me. hope i helped! xox
-Jess


hmm summers fun but doing the same thing over and over bores me... hmm does ne1 have some fun things to do..gimme some unique ideas..

-blu- (link)
depends where you live. six flags and navy pier is always good. or just to get out with your friends for awhile. hope i helped! xox
-Jess




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