im a 15 year old girl...i've been friends with this guy for almost a year, and me and my friends hang out with him and his friends a lot, so we're kinda like a little group. earlier this year we went out, but nothing happened (we didnt even kiss and it was hard cuz we went to different schools). while we were going out i heard shit all the time about how he liked another girl or w/e and i tried to ignore it all. well..after about a month we broke up cuz we agreed it wasnt really a relationship. ive liked him ever since we broke up and hes had 1 g/f since me, but they jsut recently broke up. i think he knows i like him and i really want to tal to him about how i feel, i just dont know how to do it or if we should just go on being friends and nothing more. im scared if we go out again things will be the same as they were(even tho we'll be going to the same school this year)
Additional info, added Wednesday July 28 2004, 10:49 am: this guy isnt the best of kids, he does drugs and stuff and it used to bother me but it doesnt anymore. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? orphans answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 11:41 pm: hey...i've had this with one of my guy friends as well...but one day we were sitting there, just hagning out and i just popped out with it and told him how i felt. i thinkn the best way to handle the situation would be to upfront and lay everything on the table that you feel about him...just lay it out there so you dont end up getting hurt in the long run nd plus it will usually make you feel better once it is off your chest!!!:)hope this helps!!!
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DrAnqel answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 11:10 pm: talk to him about it, if he doesnt think that you guys have a future together, then screw him, If you really want to make things work, talk to him, but you have to respect that if it wasn't meant to be, then it wasn't meant to be. sorry, hope i helped though -Dr.Anqel [ DrAnqel's advice column | Ask DrAnqel A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:52 pm: You're going to the same school? JUMP FOR JOY HUN. This is your big chance... the relationship will be soOOOo much better if you see him every single week day. I would say gooo for it. Why go on being friends when the whole reason you broke up is totally changed.. go for it girl! Tell him how you feel, be honest, and dont anticipate! good luck--blue eyes [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:51 pm: Just tell him, you still have feelings for him and want to give it another shot. He will never know what you want until you tell him. And maybe things will be different because you are going to the same school this time. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
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