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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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So there's this guy. I'm a 14 year old girl right now, going on 15, and he's 33, going on 34. I'm very mature for my age, mentally and physically, so naturally, I tend to like older men. Well, when I met him, I thought he was a really nice guy. We hung out, and in the course of a year, I began developing feelings for him. We hang out a lot. I've known his parents since I was small, and he comes from a very nice family. I kept having dreams of him, and cannot stop thinking of him, so soon I was going crazy. Just a week ago, I couldn't take it anymore so I nearly exploded with emotions, and blabbed out that I liked him. He took it very well, and I was surprised because he said that right now he likes me as a friend, but if I was 18 or 19, he would seriously like me as a girlfriend. He explained that obviously he cannot say he liked me back considering I'm only 15, but he would wait and see if I still had these feelings in a year, and he'd keep checking up on me and when I hit 18 or 19 he said that we'd definitely talk. I really like him, and I feel that he likes me back. He's very sweet, kind, a great listener, and fun to be around. I'm just a bit worried, because of the age difference, if it ever did work out, I'd probably lose him and be widowed. If you truly love someone, I've heard these marriages work. Can I get past the age difference if I truly love him?

This is a very dangerous situation.

The fact that you like this man, and hanging out with him regularly is bad. The fact that he put ideas about a future relationship into your head is bad. I think you should really, really quit while you're ahead.

This is going to get nothing but the both of you in trouble - more-so him though. This is illegal beyond belief, and you really should end this whole friendship. This guy is creepy, desperate and probably will turn out to be the opposite of what you thought.

I need a new email address and I was unsure which site offers the best free email. I know of a few like Yahoo, Hotmail, and Google's GMail but that doesn't tell me much, you know? I use to have a Hotmail account but I got spam a lot and so I didn't really like it. I mean, if that's the BEST there is then I'll just use it but I hope there is better!

Any suggestions?

I use both Yahoo and Gmail. I've never used Hotmail, and I don't ever really plan to.

I'm not really sure how much I'd recommend Yahoo to you though. It's an okay e-mail site, but I don't really like it too much. I personally like Gmail. You still get spam, but I think overall it's just a better e-mail system.

So I would probably say to go with Gmail if I were you.

is it considered cheating if i let my ex girlfriend shit and/or piss on my chest?
or sniff and lick their butthole?

I sure would definitely consider that cheating.

If my boyfriend did that with an ex, I would certainly not only be mad at him, but completely disgusted & I'd break up with him in a heartbeat.

Sorry, but letting someone use the bathroom on you isn't attractive, nor a turn on in the least!!

to a smashmouth concert that ill have laying in my closet. short 5'1 black hair brown skin...

We don't know what's in your closet, so we can't really tell you what to wear specifically.

Just wear some jeans & a t-shirt or something.

ok im 13 and i want to know if there are any good chatrooms to go on to like flirt and stuff so i dont care about oh it so dangerous i know that i dont give out any info not even my name so like i want to know any good chatrooms example like chatavenue.com so yah thx!!

www.omegle.com

Not necessarily a chat room, but everything is privately between you and another person. I usually go on there to mess around with people, but I guess it can be good for just having a nice chat too. Just be aware that you can disconnect with a person if they bore you (and you don't have to give reason). :)

i was just wondering if having a facebook is absolutely pivotal to have an active social life in college. i just have never liked the idea of social networking websites (i hate taking pictures and i think people get too engrossed in the "drama" of it all), and prefer to contact my friends via text message, e-mail, aim, or WOW! over the good ol' phone.

so... will i still be able to go to parties, hang out, whatever if i don't have one in college?

I don't think it's really all at that necessary. If you want to go to a party or someone wants to invite you, why do they need Facebook to do so? They should invite either by calls, texts, aim for e-mail. It's easier. Also, the stuff in an e-mail or anything of the sort would be between the two of you, and no one else like Facebook sometimes shows.

I don't think you need one. If you don't want one, then don't get one. But to have an active college social life, I don't find it necessary.

Hey,

I am trying to get my boyfriend to come but his penis is just so small.

How do i pleasure him

Not everyone can be built like a porn star, and you calling your boyfriend small doesn't help either.

Just blow him. Guys who are less than average can cum too. You probably just aren't doing enough to him.

I haven't heard about North Korea in a couple of weeks. Yeah, I don't have T.V. or anything and I'm gone a lot anyway. Last I heard, N. Korea was threatening to test bombs or something...IDK! It bothers me though and I didn't see any articles on my homepage today about them and wondered what happened. What's going on with North Korea now? Anybody know?

I doubt it. While they could probably take us out in 3 shots depending on their weapons, they probably won't do shit.

North Korea sucks anyway.

My friend keeps saying that when we're about to get offline from chatting and it's bugging me. We will be talking a lot and then it'll be like:

Me: Well, I need to take a shower so...
Him: So, that's my cue!
Me: Uh...what?
Him: Goodnight! TTYL

What does that mean?!

That's my cue?!? What?

It just means that it's his time to leave or say goodbye.

i need a song to dedicate to a gurl i like but she has a boyfriend. What song should i dedicate

You shouldn't. She has a boyfriend. Leave her alone. She more than likely isn't interested.

Can I give you my screenname, then you send me the applesauce thing for AIM? I've been searching google, and can't find it. I'll rate extremely high if you help me. Thanks.

Funny. I searched Google too and it was the first thing that popped up.

http://fileforum.betanews.com/detail/Applesauce/987092859/1

Ok I am having a realy hard time finding a boyfriend and so do I need aboyfriend or not?

No. Do your own thing. You don't need a boy to complete you or bring happiness to your life.

I'm a female, and 15 years old. should I forgive my boyfriend, if he thinks he got another girl pregnant? because this only happened one time, and he says he loves me, and it wasn't he's fault that this happened, because the girl forced him to do it with her.

No. DO NOT FORGIVE HIM.

The whole deal he's telling about you her forcing him is bullshit. If he didn't want to, he would've pushed her off and told her no. But he went through with it, so he made a secondhand decision to sleep with her.

Also, if she's pregnant with his baby, that'll just cause drama for you if you stay with him. Tell him that he's a bullshit liar, and that he doesn't love you, and then tell him you don't want anything to do with him, and to fuck off. You don't need a scumbag like that in your life. You're 15 anyways. There's plenty of other guys out there who will actually love you and not cheat on you. :)

I forgot to feed my cat before I left today. Will he be fine without water for a day and a half? I'm at my Dad's house and I can't get back home for a day and a half. I got here and then suddenly remembered that I didn't water my kitty cat. Will he be okay or should I tell my dad that I NEED to go back home right now?

Is there a way you can contact your mother & have her give water to your cat? If she can do that for you, then that'd be cool.

If not, just tell your dad you need to go back home to give your cat water. I'm sure he'll understand. :)

What can i do to make my breast bigger naturally?

You can't.

Everyone grows at different paces. Just wait it out. Your boobs will grow, you just need to be patient.

I am pretty sure the Jonas Brothers sings the song. My friend is teaching me how to play "Give Love a Try" on guitar but I want to sing to it too. I don't want to look stupid and get the words wrong though. Where can I get reliable Jonas Brothers lyrics to this particular song?

Google.

is it legal to light a fire on the beach for cooking

As long as there's a designated cooking area, it is. If there isn't & you wanna do a bonfire type thing, I'd say no. It could be dangerous and you really don't need to take a chance.

14/f

hey i am going into high school in september and i am kinda scared. everyone says it is awesome but others say theirs drugs (especially at our school) and that since i am new to the school they dont really care about you. i also dont wanna take the bus to school. And i am kinda scared of the gr. 11 and 12's. any tips or guidance would be GREATLY appreciated thnxs!!

Kids who do drugs will do their drugs. Kids who're older than you don't care for you, and that's pretty much it. You're there to learn, not for people to like you. It's high school.

18/f.

my boyfriend is a somewhat famous singer, & we have been dating for a while now. i'm on tour with him right now & i keep getting really jealous, because all these girls throw themselves at him & he like kisses their hands & cheeks, and i know he doesn't actually like them, but you never.. some of the girls are so pretty, & you never what could happen, when my back is turned. Also, i kind of did something really bad. well i was really jealous because he kissed this girl on the cheek & then she grabbed his dick & i was like freaking out on the side of the stage. & so, i got really mad and i stormed off & his best friend was back in the tour bus, so.. me & h is best friend kind of had sex. & his best friend said he doesn't want to tell him, but i feel guiltly, but i don't want to tell him either, because it might ruin our relationship. he told me this was his first honest relationship in a long time, because he has gotten lied to alot in the past. we have been dating since last november. & i love him soooo much, but i just don't know if i can deal with all the jealousy and stuff. & he just recently signed a really big record deal soo.. another good reason not to break up with him. i love him with all my heart, & i know i made a mistake.

what should i do?
i can't break up with him.

You love him so much but you had sex with his best friend? Are you kidding me?

He's better off without you. You get jealous because girls are coming up and that's normal, but to cheat on him because you're lonely and an attention whore isn't.

You can break up with him. Let him do his own thing. You seem like a huge waste of time. Let's stop playing victim and own up to what we've done, hmm?

What's the best brand of peanut butter?

I like the Peter Pan brand. :)

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