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I went to watch Gossip Girl on Wednesday, but it was the pilot for it again? Is it being cancelled or something? (link)
They decided to show the pilot because it was Halloween, and since most people are out on Halloween -- they didn't want to show a new episode that not a lot of people would get to see.


What are some diets that have proved to be effective for people?
I know everyone has a different body type, but I'm just wondering.

example.. southbeach,atkins.. etc (link)
I know someone on Weight Watchers, and she's lost over 30 pounds. So I recommend it. =)


Ok, i know this is a pretty stupid question but what does douschbag actually mean? i know its bad and stuff but i dont know what it actually means. thanks so much and i will rate you for answering my random question! haha :D

PS sry if its misspelled haha :P (link)
Here is the literal meaning...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Douchebag

But what you're referring to (I'm assuming) is what it means when people call others a "douchebag." It's the same as a jerk, just a different word.


I want to be a fashion model. I'm like 15, not anorexic or bulimic, not size 0, and have kinda weird shaped body. Like small boobs, narrow hips, small framed, kind of short torso, long legs, very pale, robin's egg blue eyes, light hair, large feet, long delicate hands and arms, and like a little indent right above my lady parts. Like size 4. My ears stick out a little bit, I have a sharp nose that people call "perfect", oval face, thin lips, huge eyes, medium length neck. Long hair, kind of physically weak. Are those good qualifications do you think? I was thinking like one of those British designers who hire those unique-looking models since I'm not the model stereotype, more like 1700s French lady stereotype, y'know? So what do you guys think? (link)
Everything about you sounds good, I think you should take a look at this and it should really help you out. =)

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=511390


this is a myspace question.
i know when you want a heart, you type in "alt" then "3" but is there any way to get an apple using this same system?
i know this is a random question, but i do need to know. thanks in advance. :] (link)
This is a complete list of special characters, unfortunately, an apple is not one of them.

http://webmonkey.com/webmonkey/reference/special_characters/


15/f

i really like this guy, his name's brett, and he's a total sweetheart, he always smiles at me, waves at me, and we've hugged a few times. however, it seems like we talk less and less each day. i honestly do want to be with him, but he's a major flirt and i know that he wouldn't be able to stick with a relationship because hes not a one woman man. but who am i to say? i really want to hang out with him, and i don't want to be the one to make all of the moves because i don't want to come off as desperate. he's definitely not shy.. he's athletic, cute, smart, sweet, and funny. our lockers are right next to each other and we always talk no matter what.

help me out please. :] thanks inadvance. (link)
This has some great info for you. =)

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294

Just some tips here: Since you don't want to make all the moves, I suggest only subtle flirting, rather than advanced. That way you can see if he plays along with it, and he may make more moves toward you.


I am a 15 year old high school student and I was just wondering what are some good conversation starters. I feel as though I lack alot in this area. I really just would like to know like what i can do to make more freinds.

(link)
This should help you out, there are TONS of results. =)

only search advicenators.com


ok, I have a b/f. He treats me pretty good and stuff but he get so mad about most the stuff i do and acts like he never does it, although he does. we argue alot and truthfully he's not exactly the cutest guy ever. But this guy that went to my school last year and i liked him and he liked me but we never got together, started back at our school. we talk alot now and he really likes me and he's cute and sweet and funny and can always make me smile some way and i'm starting to really like him. all of my freinds think i should leave my b/f for him but i kinda dont want to but i'm scared that if i don't something will happen and i will never get another chance to be with him. HELP PLEASE!!! (link)
I'll help you examine things, and it should be easier to choose. =)

Your Boyfriend
-Gets Mad About A Lot of Things
-He and You Argue A Lot
-Not Very Attractive

The Guy You Like
-Cute
-Sweet
-Funny
-Always Makes You Smile
-You'll More Than Likely Regret Not Dating Him, Or Seeing What Could Happen

Now that we've examined these two guys, I think the guy you like is a much better choice. He sounds like he treats you better than your boyfriend does.


did anyone have experience using this product? and what are your reviews? good/bad? works? (link)
I have not personally used it, but you can find so many reviews on this product on MakeupAlley. I'll give you the page link, all you have to do is make an account there real fast and then you can see all of the reviews and ratings. Also get reviews and ratings on other products too, so it's worth joining -- it's free and safe.

http://makeupalley.com/product/searching.asp?CategoryID=0&brandname=Neutrogena&Brand=308&title=Advanced+Solutions+Acne+Therapy+System&submit=Find+Products


hey guys.
***CAUTION: may be long****

so here is my problem:
this guy named "K" really likes me (I mean REALLY). But i do not like him at all, and like one of his best friends.

today i figured out that the person that i like "D" also has a secret crush on me. D is one of my best friends, and he is super sweet, kind, and thoughful...did i mention cute too???

the word spreads that D likes me, and soon everyone in school knows....even K.

K and D are no longer friends, and K is really mad at him for liking me too. because D knows that K REALLY REALLY likes me.

Now get this....K and i are kinda friends. and K gets mad real easy and starts throwing fights. i know... he did one not to long ago because he saw one of his other best friends and me at the mall. i want to go out with D. and am really afraid of drama and that stuff occuring.

So what im asking is... what should i do.

Did that make any sense to you???

love... DaAdvicePerson. did i mention i am 13? (link)
Yes, that made perfect sense. I wouldn't worry about "K" because you don't have feelings for him, so he shouldn't matter. Though if you do date "D," then you have to be able to handle the drama that may unfold by "K." If you and "D" can handle that, I wouldn't worry too much about it.


At the beginning of the school year this kid would always do creepy things like stare at me during class and occasionally drop these mockingly flirtatious remarks.I let it off as just messing around,but it seems like its progressive.Like he'll say and do these weird things (he's said things like "hey sexy" before)and then say "just kidding",and then move on to something else...almost as if hes trying to test his limits or something.

Other things to note are:
-hes always struck me as sort of gay
-he doesn't seem to do this with his friends or anyone else
-I'm not gay but I sometimes give off the impression that I could be.

What do you think,and what should I do? (link)
I've seen this happen before with one of my guy friends actually, turns out the other guy was gay. My friend wasn't though, so nothing happened there. But the other guy did finally come out and say he was gay, and that's why he treated my guy friend the way he did. So I believe it's a good possibilty that this guy is gay, and if he is or even if he isn't -- there isn't much you can do about it. As far as I know, unfortunately.


What are some interesting and fun ways to kiss your significant other? any unique tricks or tips you know of? share 'em (link)
This should help you out. =)

only search advicenators.com


Anyone know good ways to releave stress? (link)
These should help you out. =)

http://www.bodybuildingforyou.com/articles-submit/ghf/21-ways-relief-stress.htm
http://www.optimalhealth.org.uk/10_ways_to_relieve_stress.htm
http://confidencecenter.com/art25.htm


I just made a peoject out of jello and now I realized that it will melt in school! what do i do? i can't do it over :[ and it is due tommorow! ahh! help :( (link)
You can put it in the freezer until you have to take it to class.

EDIT: Oops, sorry about that -- didn't notice the date was yesterday.


how can u tell when someone is flirting with you? (link)
This should help you out. =)

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294


today in dance we stretched to a song, and it was a pretty slow song, sung by a female singer. the chorus was just a bunch of "why" repeated, about like a relationship gone bad.
it might have been on So You Think You Can Dance because I thought I heard someone say that.
if anyone knows what im talking about thatd be cool haha. (link)
*"Why" by Annie Lennox.


so theres this guy that i like, but he has a girlfriend. well, we talk everynight and he tells me how he wants me and how he doesn't like the other girl. well , we have talked a lot about doing stuff with each other. so i just wanted to get an honest opinion on what people feel about this .. and he says he would date me if he wasn't taken so what are some ways i can step up my game a little ?? thankss. (link)
Short & Sweet: Don't date this guy, don't do anything with this guy -- dating or not dating him. He only wants you for sexual reasons, not for who you really are. So I don't think you should step your game up, you would actaully be stepping it down for this guy, he doesn't deserve you.


i need a quote for drinkin w the girlss ! thankss ;] haha. anything w college is ok too bc were in collegee ~ thankss ♥ (link)
Here are some with men and women, I couldn't find only women.

http://www.after5catalog.com/article_details.php/articles_id/18



okay so i know herpes is very obvious when you get it.. but not around your mouth. other than the dumb red pimple looking things on your lips, are there any other symptoms.. i.e: swollen/hurting throat, change in voice, etc..

[bc right now im still convinced its just a pimple that got too close to my lip!] (link)
This should help you out. =)

http://www.epigee.org/guide/herpes.html


ok the problem i wrote before bout a picture abd all..well at the rec. department tonight he came.. and i think he knows i know..so what do i do...cause it looks like he is made at me..and when i left i huged a guy in front of him and said nothing..so please help....and basketball season is starting and im cheering and he is playin so mabey we could talk then?? (link)
Here's my problem about answering your question here, and probably some others are having trouble too. I don't know what happened before you seen this guy, so I recommend adding aditional information about what happened prior to this situation.




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