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Is it normal for a straight guy to act like this?
At the beginning of the school year this kid would always do creepy things like stare at me during class and occasionally drop these mockingly flirtatious remarks.I let it off as just messing around,but it seems like its progressive.Like he'll say and do these weird things (he's said things like "hey sexy" before)and then say "just kidding",and then move on to something else...almost as if hes trying to test his limits or something.
Other things to note are:
-hes always struck me as sort of gay
-he doesn't seem to do this with his friends or anyone else
-I'm not gay but I sometimes give off the impression that I could be.
What do you think,and what should I do?
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It's none of your business if he is gay. Seriously. Stop worrying about it. All this watching and examining him is a little bit mean.
If YOU are uncomfortable, say something, give him the cold shoulder, ignore him, or otherwise let him know you don't appreciate his behavior.
It's okay if he is gay. It is even okay if he has a crush on you. Neither of those things are your business or your problem. Just be clear about where you stand and tell him to cut it out if you don't like something.
EDIT: What I was pointing out is that you are wrong. Just because he has a crush on you doesn't really make it your bussiness. You ARE sitting around and trying to 'catch' him in being gay, and that implies you view it negatively, and well, it's not nice either. His sexuality is his own bussiness untill he talks to you about it.
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I've seen this happen before with one of my guy friends actually, turns out the other guy was gay. My friend wasn't though, so nothing happened there. But the other guy did finally come out and say he was gay, and that's why he treated my guy friend the way he did. So I believe it's a good possibilty that this guy is gay, and if he is or even if he isn't -- there isn't much you can do about it. As far as I know, unfortunately.
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It seems to me like you are dealing with your own sexuality confusion. Relax about this guy. He may or may not be gay; just ignore it. Try thinking about your own feelings instead.
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