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well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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What is this "&hearts" thing everyone is saying? Is it from a movie or did one person just say it so now every other stupid girl has to go along and say it to.

it is supposed to turn into a heart but for some reason it hasnt been turnin into one on the advicenators page but in peoples column it shows a heart. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok i know this is bad but i just told my dad to burn in hell and hes REALLY MAD what do i do

first let the fire cool down before sayin anything.......let him calm down and then try talkin to him and tellin him how you feel.. apologize for what you said and tell him you said it not because you meant it but out of angree. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay, hmm.. there are 2 guys that i reallly like.. hmm John and Jon.. lol :) well john i see him sometimes at parties,and he flirts with me sooo much. and i donno, and jon.. me and him have history.. we went out from sept. to dec. and then i had 2 move because my dad passed away.. and i dont know what to do.. lol..hmm .. i donno.. i am just so confused. :-\

i cant help you out with this. you need to fallow your heart and do whatever you thuink is right. you need to think about who you truely like more. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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My friend says that blink-182 is a band which mainly girls listen to. I was like, no dude, blink-182 isn't like that. There are about the same of both. It's not a guys or girls band, kind of something which everyone listens to. Who would you say is correct?

i love blink-182 and i think you are right. it is a boy and girl band. all my friends boys and girls like them.
*~Stephanie~*

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So, my guy and I went ring shopping today and picked out rings.
The problem is gonna be my mom. He gave me an antique ring on valentine's day almost two years ago, and I've been wearing that one, but we picked one that will be sized to fit my left ring finger. Basically, we are engaged, but we're keeping it quiet until about halfway through college, when it'll be more acceptable to my parents.
This ring kind of looks like an engagement ring, but it's not a diamond. That's the only thing, though it is a single stone, which is symbolic enough. My mom is extremely against my getting married young (we're planning to get married in four or five years, so there's no rush at all, but my mom wouldn't understand that). I'm 17 and he's 19. I'll be 18 in October. Anyway, my mom's gonna freak out when she sees the ring on that finger, and essentially a wedding band on his.
What do I say to her?
Please, no smartass remarks. I'll just rate you down for stupidity.
Thanks in advance. =)

i think you should tell your mom how you feel about this guy. i mean it is your life and you cannt contol who you like and who you want to marry.. tell your mom she has nothin to worry about and that you guys are waiting a lil be4 getting married and that you arent rushing into things. it seems like you have been with this guy for a long time and that you truely love him and your mom needs to understand that what ur doing is fallowing you heart and that you love this guy and there isnt anything that will change your mind. you might also want to ad that your not a kid anymore and that you should be able to do anything you want. i hope this helps you out. and i hope you and your boyfriend(soon to be husband) have a wonderful life together. wish you the best of luck.
*~Stephanie~*

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How do guys feel about dating girls younger than them ? i know this guy who seems to like me , but i want to know if i should flirt more . I'm 13 , and he's 15 (: thanks !

well it all depends on the guy. some guys like younger girls and others dont.. it all depends but i think if you guys are flirting right now even if it is a lil bit to go and try flirtign a lil bit more. there would be no harm done if you try it.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I've been going with my boyfiend for almost 3 months mow and i really do like him..but sometimes i think he doesnt know me at all. see im a down to earth kinda gurl and the way he acts makes me think he doesnt know that.but im still falling for him.then theres my love. this boy i feel in love with and if i had to choose between him and my boyfriend i would choose him. but i dont no if he feels the same and i dont want to ask cause he has a girl and i have a boy. i went with this boy 3 years ago and now he's back in my life.before i got a bf me and my love would kiss and flirt and stuff.then all of a sudden he stoped and i have a bf now but i still want him....plz tell me what to do.

i ahve been in the smae situation as you are in. what i would do if i were you is fallow my heart if you love that guy that your not going out wit talk to him abotu it and tell him how you feel. mayeb he really isnt happy with his gf right now either.. i mean what is the point of going out with a guy if you dont love him you would be just wasting your time on nothing. hope this helps you out..
*~Stephanie~*

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Hi umm i need a little advice i like these to boys but they r best friends ther names r Jimmie and Elijah. Jimmie is cuter but Elijah is more my type which one should i go wit hwhen school starts because they both like me. what should i do

Signed Beautifulmamii05

ok first off looks shouldnt be everything... you should never go out wit a guy because of his looks.. i think you should go out wit elijah. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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This will probly sound stupid but what finger do you wear a promise ring on?? My boyfriend will probly get me one for our anniversary and I dont know? I appreciate and will rate answers.

ur right hand the one next to ur pinky. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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what do you do when you know your telling the truth but no one believes you? how do you get them to believe you?

you cant make them believe you unless you prove it to them. or give them evidence something to show they that what ur sayin is true. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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after you get your first period whens the next time you get it? some say 5 months? or will it be one month?i got mine for the first time July 1st and i was just wanted a heads up for when the next time i'll get it

actually you cant really now when your next period is..when i first got mine i didnt get my second one until 2 months later. so you really dont know.. you wont noe when you will get it for the next 2 years. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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13/m when i was like 5 me and my freind looked at each others dick and then when i was 7 this happened again i dont like boys at all i only like girls and there the only gender i want to have sex with does this mean iam gay or bi or none we were young i dont think it meant anything but lately ive been starting to think about it.

i dont think your gay or anything because i know some guys out there would/have compared there dicks to others guys. guys tend to do that to see if theres is bigger then other peoples. dont worry about it. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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OK I like this Boy and hes really nice we used to be boyfriend and girlfriend then someone came up and he didnt like me any more(this was a while ago)then two days a go i found somone else i like and now i cant deside who to like.Well schools starting soon so my qustion is should i like one of the two guys i was talking about befor or wait till school starts to meet new guys?



From,
Big Flirt

i dont think you should like your ex i think you should like the other guy but you should also try meeting new guys and see if you like any of them. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I'm thinking about getting side swept bangs. All of you that have them, are there disadvantages? Does it get in your face, and will it take quite a long time to grow out? I also do track, so will it annoy me when I'm running? THanks

i have side swept bangs.. i love it.. yes it does it get in your face most of the time.. but you can do is clip them to the side or even up wit the reast of your hair while your running.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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what dose it mean to ''give him a blow job''?

it means to suck on a guys dick...
*~Stephanie~*

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ok this might be kinda confusing and long..I understand the consequences and worries that come around when you have sex& all that. I love my boyfriend with all that I have, and he loves me. We both gave up our virginity to each other, but the thing is, we weren't safe about it, and we both regret that. We both know that we should've used a condom, but I guess we were too caught up in the moment to realize that not using a condom wasn't very smart. okay so here's the question. I was wondering- the first time we had sex, he pulled out right before he ejaculated, and it got all over the place, but I wasn't sure if it had gotten inside of me or not. after that I told him I wanted to make sure I got my period. I took a pregnancy test because he said it would make him feel more comfortable, even though it was too early to be accurate anyways, and like I figured..it came out negative because it was too early. but then a few days later we had sex again but he didn't cum. so if I get my period, that takes care of both times we had sex, right? I know you can't get pregnant if you get your period, but I wasn't sure if I could get my period for the 1st time we had sex, and still get pregnant because of the 2nd time or not. I'm planning on taking the 2nd pregnancy test today or tomorrow since that would make it 4-5 days before my period is supposed to come. please help! thanks in advance!

-confused

well i think from now on you should use a condum no matter what.. it is just to protect you... yes it took cover of both times... hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok. so my boyfriend just told me that he didn't want to have sex tell he is married but I really don't want to wait me and let's call him stuart have been dating a while and i'm in love with him so much but I really don't want to wait. What do I do?

you should respect what your boyfriend thinks... if you love him then you should wait...
*~Stephanie~*

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ok, my mom said no i couldnt go to the movies but i really really need to go. I mean, i haven't seen my boyfriend since the 22 of June. I really need to go to the movies to do SOMETHING with him. But my mom wont drive me, so i want somehow to get to the movies and back and then i want to get money to pay. I only need like 5.50. But i need to go at 7:20 (Eastern Time) Tonight! Please help!!!

tell your mom your goin somewhere with your friend and then you and your go to the movies and you meet up wit your boyfriend. and ask your friend to borrow some money from her. i am sure she wouldnt mind..hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok here i go, i'm 16, and my gf wants to have sex, i'm ready, but i don't know if "it" should be shaved. help please??!!

ummmm if you want to shave "it" then do it otherwise you should at least trim it..
*~Stephanie~*

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Is it possible to be drinking too much water???

i think it is possibly but it would be hard to do.
*~Stephanie~*

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