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ok heres the story: my friend, lets call her becky, well she has had a boyfriend for about 2 months now, lets call him bob. becky really likes bob but then again she can't make up her mind who she likes. she flirts with other guys and like me and her sister and her ex-bf think that bob is using her. bob is younger than her by a couple of months. every time i am with becky and bob they hold each other and crap and i am tired of it.(i'm not jealous b/c i have a bf.) bob makes faces behind beckys back and talks about her and shit and it makes me laugh so when becks asks what is so funny i say bob and then like he totally denies it. something is fishy about him b/c he wouldn't let becky see his yearbook. (btw becky is homeschooled and bob goes to public school. i don't know how to confront becky about this. i tried asking her before but she doesn't listen. i don't know what to do! HELP! (link)
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you should tell becky what you think is up, when bob isn't around. if you're really her friend, then you should tell her, because friends aren't supposed to keep secrets from one another.  
 
hope i helped =) 
 
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When you sit on a guy's lap and fool around some, is it normal to feel something throbbing underneath? My friend says it happens all the time when guys get erections but I just wanted to make sure.. (link)
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he got a boner. it means his penis is hard and that he wants you to help him get off. 
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i really need new clothes but i don't have a lot of money. what are some good clothing stores with websites and i can order from? i need some really cheap ones with cute clothes!  also..are there any from other countries that ship in cheap?  i want clothes that not everyone has so i can be different..but still in style and cute.  tell me all you know! 
 
btw im 15. (link)
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i know walmart and target arent the best but they have cute clothes so those two( and maybe k-mart) would be your best bet....hope i helped...DiXiEPiXiE530
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Hey, I wanna buy one of those machines where you press a button and the thing starts moving (It's like where you run)..and you can control the speed and stuff. It's like a flat side that moves while you run..anyways, I wonder what it's called and how much it costs? Thanks, I rate mostely 5s!  (link)
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  A treadmill? It's really hard to find a good one for under 200, I suggest you spend that money on a membership to a good gym, and you use their treadmills (which are normally very nice) and get a full workout to go with it.
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ok i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 weeks but every1 says he is playing me so i am goin to break up with him. i dont know what to say to him though. i dont wanna break his heart! he says that he really like me! but he never calls me and he acts like he doesnt wanna be around me. what should i say to him when i break up with him?? please help me out!! (link)
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 Put your parents to good use. Tell him that your parents have decided you are too young to date. This way he can't really argue and you can act all sorry and if you can, start crying and say how unfair it is. Then just walk away from it. I used to do that to unwanted boyfriends, never failed me.
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i'm rele freaked out by this one techer cuz he always is like makin fun of kids in a funny way, but it's not funny...so yea. And well, he is rele loud and strict and likes to yell at u b/ he thinks it's funny and  cool. I was absent friday and needa make up a test, and i kno when i go to him tues. (when we get bac from school) afternoon...he'll try to be cool in front of his class and yell at me for being absent and try to make a fool outta me until my face turns red. What should I do so I can handle this with out being embaress and having my face turn red. (link)
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Ugh, I had a teacher like that, very very annoying. Go to a parent or the school counselor and tell them that the teacher makes you uncomfortable when doing this. They should help you address the problem correctly.
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i have a problem; I need to loose 10 pounds around my wiast, arms, and legs. does any one know any exercising routines besides doing sit-ups? 
 
(i'm a girl,13) (link)
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try pilates! you can buy dvds and tapes for like under $15 and it really helps. try to do it every morning, or when you get home from school, and try eating healthy food. try not to eat a lot of dairy though. but, never ever ever skip a day without eating something. even if you drink a bunch of water and don't eat, it's not good.  
 
hope i helped =) 
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kay i have these friends that i meet in 6th grade ive known them for two years now and a short time ago they all got mad at me and started curseing me out. they wont leave me alone i want to for get them because they have mad my life a leaveing hell. they even got my best friend to curse me out and blow stuff of with me and go with them. we are goign to the same high school in a year and they wont stop. i dont kno what to do? im lost please help. thanx!! (link)
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they're being jerks and you don't need them. tell them to back off and leave you alone. you don't need jerks as friends, so go find new friends and stay away from them. 
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Okay so I met this guy (we are both 16) and we hit it off. spent like 10 hours together he was totally flirting holding hands cuddling and he would just stare at me and would always sit next to me and he tried to kiss me and such.. (it was a church retreat. We were helpers lol for the little kids) so at the end of the night when its time to leave he just left no good bye and didn’t ask for a number or anything! what does that mean? What happened? (link)
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the only thing i can say is he may have acted like he was in to you because he wanted to get some sugar lol. but just ask him whats up and see what he says. or maybe he doesnt feel like you are into him or he just doesnt like you.
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This boy & I have been flirting/messsing with eachother all school year now. Everyone can tell we like eachother but neither of us will make a serious move. I know he won't because his friends will tease and he's a little shy/immature. I'm afraid of rejection & being teased. It's the end of the year and this boy is one in a million, I like him very much. What can I do to let him know being friends isn't enough and over the summer I want to see him? (link)
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call him and tell him! someone has to make a move before the summer's over   this might be your only chance! ~hope it works out!~
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i cant tell u my name>>>im 14 years old, im not in a relationship right now..ther is this guy i haev known for along time n that i kind of have a crush on..he says he is getting married to a girl that loves him but he does not love her..he has ruined his life by doing a whole lot of stuff. he is in love with one of my close friends but she wants nothing to do with him..so he thinks gettign married n moving far away is a good idea. now i want him to knwo that i love him very much n care for, him but i just dont know hwat to do know..HELP (link)
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first, tell him NOT to marry a      that he doesn't even love! it'll turn out really bad. also, you can tell him that you like him, but if he's already getting married and you're still in highschool, then i think he might be a little too old for you... good luck! if you need any more advice just ask me!
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i want to be on the volleyball team next year... but i suck at volleyball. i have all summer and i want 2 get good, but i cant join a team because im going to be on vacation in july. how do i learn 2 play? (link)
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well if you have any siblings or anything, practice with them, so you can practice while your on vacation too. if you don't, then practice with your friends or something all you can before you go on vacation. you can also like surve the ball to the wall and then hit it back and forth against the wall.
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HELP! I"m breaking out on my chest, back, and face.  I have graduation coming up in less than 2 weeks and i'm wearin g a strapless dress.  i need something to get red of my acne that will do it fast with out alot of irritation. WHAT SHOULD I USE?! (link)
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hey don't stress because stress also causes breakouts too sometimes. for your face use an acne cleanser, then use Neutrogena Rapid Clear Acne Eliminating Gel. for your body try Phisoderm acne body wash. you can get all of these things at walmart for just like 5 or 6 dollars.  
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okay so this morning i found out a man that was always there for me and was with me growing up and used to watch me died .. he had cancer for a while and it took 80% of his body .. so i had something like r.i.p lenny (link)
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well maybe she didn't know who lenny was, and that you cared abut lenny that much. if she didn't, then you should just tell her but forgive her because she didn't know. but if she knew then you need to tell her how important he was to you. but even if she knew, you still need to forgive her because sometimes people just don't know what it's like to lose someone that important to you. just be glad that lenny is out of pain and resting in heaven. 
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This summer I have very few plans. I want to make some fast. Summer is in a few weeks when school gets out, and the pool opened today. I don't know how to get less shy and open up more, and to make more plans.  (link)
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just call your friends and ask them if they want to hang out. go to the mall or the pool with them and stuff. 
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okay well i have this sweatshirt... its my favorite, but my mom just washed and dryed it and it has shrunk like the sleevs are so much shorter now and the bottom part is like almost touching my belly button, is there anything i can do to make it streth back out>?? (link)
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sorry but you can't really make something un-shrink. once it's shrunk it can't like grow back or anything lol. next time if there's anything that's 100% cotton or something, then you should air dry it so that it doesn't shrink. 
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i have a bff that isnt that great of an influence. shes not coming back next year and im going to miss her to death. but wat if this new school she is going to makes her turnn bad again? b/c she has gotten back to her old self basically and i do NOT want her to be like she used to. i love her soo much and i dont want her to change at all bc when she was bad like that getting into stuff that  a 12 year old should NOT be getting into, it was like the dark ages for a teen b/c i ALWAYS had to be there for her, and i was a great friend 4 her, but it was alot of work, and i dont want to do it all over again. is that bad to think that? please help, keep being friends, or cut the string? (link)
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your friend is probably even more scared than you are. just call her often to see that she's doing ok and make sure that she's still doing good, and comfort her a lot. tell her that you really care for her and love her and she really matters to you, and you don't want her to get hurt, and it would break your heart to see her just give up everything she's worked for, and turn bad again. just make sure that you two don't lose contact. also, true friends are supposed to help each other no matter what and no matter how hard it is, so if she does start to turn bad again, then still help her out, and make sure she get's back to her old self. hope it works out!
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so i went to the movies with a group of my friends...my bffs and my other friends. we chose to go a c a movie but me and sum other ppl thought it wuz boring so we left and we went to another movie. one of my best friends later found out wut movie we went to and said it wuz "illegal." so she and another good friend 3 way called me and told me wut i had done. i realized wut i did and i said that and sorry and that i understood and i hung up on them cuz i really DIDNT want to talk to them any more. but i did care. now one of my bffs is really mad at me and she wont b my friend ne more. but i have 2 other bffs that r on both sides and they say she'll get over it but i have a feeling that she won't. and honestly i knew she didnt like me as much from the beginning. wut shuld i do?? 
 
Love, 
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just call her again and tell her that you're really really really sorry and that you won't do it again. say that you want to stay friends because she means the world to you, and hopefully she'll forgive you. if she's a good friend, then even if she doesn't forgive you when you call her, then she'll forgive you later on. don't worry too much about it, she'll probably forgive you soon, just keep telling her sorry whenever you can, and be really nice to her. hope it works out!
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ok...so there's this girl at school who is such a hypocrite!!! omg! she sed that we shouldn't b friends, but then the next day, she acted like nothing happened between us! i just wanna tell her to stay out of my life...but i can't do that because that's kinda mean. and she gossips about me, she is a HUGE tattletale 4 stupid things, and she can give u these really scary looks that say, "I hate u". what should i do about her? 
 
~~~i'm so fustrated~~~ (link)
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well obviously if she's gossiping about you and stuff, then she's not a good friend so you shouldn't be her friend. just try to ignore her. if that doesn't work then talk to her. you don't have to say stay out of my life, but you can say something else in a nice way. just tell her that you know she gossips about you and that she's sort of being a hypocrite and that you don't really want to hang out with her. if you don't want to say that because you don't want to hurt her feelings, then you should do stuff to let her know that you don't really like her and don't want to hang out with her. when she tries to talk to you, act like you didn't hear her and stuff, and when she tells you things just say "ok.." to everything she says and stuff. just make sure she knows you don't like her, and maybe she'll back off a little. if you really don't like her though, then it shouldn't be hard to tell her that you don't want to hang out with her anymore. and also, next time she says you two shouldnt b friends, and then acts like nothing happened the next day, try reminding her of what she said the day before about you two not being friends anymore. hope i helped!
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i need to loose a little bit of weight for the summer! i am not really all that fat! i just have a little belly! i could stand to loose a few pounds! what are some good workouts that will work fast?  (link)
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well, try not to eat so much snacks. you don't exactly have to go on a diet, just try to avoid like chips and      ers and all that stuff. a good workout that i do is 150 situps a day. start out with just like 50 or something, and as you build up more indurance, you can do more situps every day.once you get to being able to do like 150 situps, you should've lost some wait, and maybe you might even have a 6 pack. it works for me!
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