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a school girl ok...so there's this girl at school who is such a hypocrite!!! omg! she sed that we shouldn't b friends, but then the next day, she acted like nothing happened between us! i just wanna tell her to stay out of my life...but i can't do that because that's kinda mean. and she gossips about me, she is a HUGE tattletale 4 stupid things, and she can give u these really scary looks that say, "I hate u". what should i do about her?
~~~i'm so fustrated~~~
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well obviously if she's gossiping about you and stuff, then she's not a good friend so you shouldn't be her friend. just try to ignore her. if that doesn't work then talk to her. you don't have to say stay out of my life, but you can say something else in a nice way. just tell her that you know she gossips about you and that she's sort of being a hypocrite and that you don't really want to hang out with her. if you don't want to say that because you don't want to hurt her feelings, then you should do stuff to let her know that you don't really like her and don't want to hang out with her. when she tries to talk to you, act like you didn't hear her and stuff, and when she tells you things just say "ok.." to everything she says and stuff. just make sure she knows you don't like her, and maybe she'll back off a little. if you really don't like her though, then it shouldn't be hard to tell her that you don't want to hang out with her anymore. and also, next time she says you two shouldnt b friends, and then acts like nothing happened the next day, try reminding her of what she said the day before about you two not being friends anymore. hope i helped! ]
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