Every time I wake up, my throat is really really dry and kind of hurts [in an annoying way] and I can't figure out if maybe i didn't drink enough water before I went to bed? It didnt start till a week or so ago. I think it might have something to do with the temperature or something? Does anyone know and if so, how to make it not dry?
Well if its cold outside and you have the heat up pretty high then it could be makin it hard for you to breath and then you breathe with your mouth open so that could cause your throat to hurt.. Or if you can`t breathe too well out your nose/snore then that could cause your throat to hurt.. this happens to me sometimes but it doesn`t hurt for really anymore of the day.. Just drink water when you wake up maybe even ice water..DOn`t drink orange juice or something similar cuz that might bother it.. ♥ Dez
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oh and to all those people with the ? when is the right time to have sex? its when you are ready.
no body can tell you when to have sex.
and ways my ? is..
how long into the relationship do you have sex.
i rate high for nice people
Thats up to you.. You make that decison on when your ready and when you know the guy/girl is ready.. ♥ Dez
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I'm 25 shes 19, known each other for 3yrs. Get on really well always laughing and flifting etc, lately shes split with her ex. We've done stuff before but no sex which is fine thats not the initial aim here, spent fair bit of time together recently, few kisses etc but then thats it. I'm sure she knows I really like her and she must like me too, but I fear if I lay it on the line with her she may clam up but if not then she'l certainly find someone eles soon, annoying thing is I'm a great guy and definately have qualities her ex's didn't she knows that too. (not meant to sound big headed). Which way should I go? We also work together so I always know when she's seeing someone and I think thats gonna start to do my head in, and if she isn't interested why is she leading me on!? Help please!
This sounds like something my friend went through.. He was like a last resort when she had nobody around and he is a good guy and everything.. I`d ask her out and if she rejects you then move on hun.. But don`t let her play games with you either and lead you on and get your hopes all up for nothing.. ♥ Dez
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I am writing this because I don't know what to do. I am really scared that my use of alcohol is out of control. I feel pressured by my friends to be part of the drinking scene. I see people in the media using drugs for pleasure. When I'm drunk, I forget alll my problems and school is unimportant. I've dropped out of sports and I o what I can to get money for my alcohol. I bring little bottles of it to school because I can't going the day without it. Can you help me?
You need find a rehab to help yourself.. Before it get more out of control.. Rehab will help you and it will be hard and its going to take time.. Just don`t give up on yourself hun.. ♥ Dez
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i broke up with my boyfriend last week and now he is being really weird. he has asked me out like 3 times, he keeps IMing me the second i sign on, and he keeps telling my friends to tell me to go out with him..truth is. i don't like him any more and im not really sure if i liked him in the first place..he is really weird and clingy..what should i do?
i rate high
Ignore it!! he`ll eventually get over it and leave you alone.. ♥ Dez
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Okay, 15/f him 16. This guy and me like always hang out in this one spot between classes. And like sometimes we hold hands and crap. And i said i didn't wanna go out with him, and he got all hurt. but then today he was sitting on the ground n he like tried 2 pull me into his lap but i jsut sat next to him n held his hand. n he was like i looove you. n i was jk n like u better. (cause i dont wanna say it if i dont mean it) and like so when we had to go we hugged and crap n i had given him a note saying i really liked him but i didnt kno what he wanted n he should wait 4 me or like write me back. so today i looked for him n it didnt look like he was there. so wtf? like did i just not see him? or what is with him???
Theres probably an explaination i`m sure.. ask what happened tomorrow when you see him.. ♥ Dez
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my period is late by a few days which is really weird for me because i usually get it right on time. basketball season started up this month & i was wondering if it was because of that. my mom said that if you exercise a lot & you haven't exercised that much in awhile, that could be the reason. what are some other reasons?? idk if i should worry er not. i guess i should wait a few days & go to the doctor if i dont get it?? any ideas??
thanks!!
Okay well your not sexually active so pregnancy isn`t the answer duh!.. But yes exercise could be why you aren`t having it.. I really wouldn`t worry cuz thats normal hun.. ♥ Dez
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so i have this mole. its all red around the area where the mole is... whats with that? and could there be something wrong with the mole?
I`d see a doctor about it..Cuz most moles i`ve seen aren`t red around it.. ♥ Dez
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what do 13 and 14 year old guys look for in a girl and relationship? i am fairly pretty, good at sports, smart, and friendly, but i can't seem to get a boyfriend! what do you guys look for?
well the guys are 13 and 14 so they probably aren`t lookin for much.. Give yourself time your still young don`t rush into boyfriends since your young it might just lead to a brokenheart and every girl hates those.. ♥ Dez
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how do u make sweat pants look sexy? any advice *i rate 5 for any try that isnt just random*
Just make sure they are a little bit baggy um a low waistline so they are on your hips.. i think those victoria secret PINK! sweatpants are cute.. ♥ Dez
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ok so i shaved "down there" the whole thing but after words i got this really itches rash and it hurts so bad i dont understand what i did wrong. i used conditioner to make it softer and after words i put lotion on it
..do you think it could be from the lotion??
ill rate high.
thanks
Hey..
It could be the lotion like if its scented that could of irratated it a little bit..Um try using something like baby oil or a lotion for sensitive skin..
Maybe try getting a new razor..Don`t ever use the same razor you use for your legs/under arms..
Don`t ever shave that area dry so make sure you use plenty of conditioner/soap/shaving cream..
Wait awhile til shaving again so it won`t bleed or hurt when you shave again..
You can also try Nair it works GRRREAT in that area.. ♥ Dez
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My boyfriend has been feeling sick... You know the feeling when you get nervous and your stomach aches a little. Well it happened about a week ago...and now he's throwing up. He's been feeling like this a lot. Do you have any idea what it is? He's going to see a doctor tomorrow but I'm really worried. His parents thought it was food poisioning...but would you feel sick for days for that?
Yes you can be sick for awhile if you get food posioning..But there could be something else wrong with him.. He`ll be fine after he gets some medicine from the doctor.. Let the doctor take care of it and try to relax.. ♥ Dez
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okay so my boyfreidn of a year and 2 months reallly likes snowmobiles n plays hockey and i wanna get hime somoething dealing wiht that for chiristmas... im filling a stocking with like a gas card(for hsi snowmobile)candy n idk wut else to put in there? any ideas plllllease help!!
Well since its going to be cold i`d get him things that will keep him warm.. You don`t want him cold and sick i`m sure..
I`d get him stuff like this..
..Gloves
..Longsleeve shirts
..Hats
..Blanket
..Maybe put hot chocolate in it so afterwards he can drink it and be warm
..If he`d use bubble bath to take a hot bath after bein out in the cold i`m not sure if he`s that kind of guy
..Googles so snow don`t fly in his eyes
♥ Dez
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My "c" key on my keyboard always sticks. It's so annoying!! I'm on a laptop. It is okay to try to take the key off or will I break it?
Maybe it needs cleaned out.. Try dusting it first. then take the key off and put it back on.. Blow it out if you can`t dust it.. ♥ Dez
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whats considered sex?
anal? oral? vaginal? when do you really consider you've "lost your virginity"
thanks =)
Vaginal is considered losing your virginty.. But Oral and Anal are considered SEX!! Only a different kind.. ♥ Dez
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okay so thers this sorta old rap/hip-hop old song. i need the name and the artist plz.here are the lyrics that i remember:
"yall gunna make me lose my mind up in hur up in hur. yall gunna make me act a fool up in hur up in hur. yall gunna make me go all out up in hur up in hur" i rate 5's for any correct answers.
Artist**DMX..Song**Party up.. ♥ Dez
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okay well like any normal person i wear deoderant =) but the thing is whenever i get to school i've started sweating immeadiately. i have NO CLUE why and its happened just recently. what should i do or whats wrong with me???
Use the deodorant Certain dry that should help you alot.. ♥ Dez
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Whenever I shave my armpit, I get red bumps in there and the hair still looks like I didn't shave it. Like there is still "stubble" (kinda i guess) left there. I only use water to shave, so is it that? My razor is a pretty good razor. It's not disposable. Is it that I need a new blade? Please help, the red bumps look really weird/ugly, I want to get of rid of them ASAP! (and prevent them from appearing again!) THANKS!
You shouldn`t ever shave with just water.. use soap/shaving cream.. and yes buy a new balde and afterwards use Dove deoderant to help pervent the redness and bumps.. ♥ Dez
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Hello
i really need an answer by wednesday night becuase i am very scared. im 15/F and i am going to the gyno for the first time and i am not a virgin anymore and i was just owndering if when they ask do i have to tell them and if i tell them will they tell my mom or can i ask the doctor to not tell my mom. or can i jsut say i use tampons? im reaslly scared becuase i do not want my mom to know! PLease help me..i rate high!
thanks
If you don`t want your mom to know they can`t mention anything to her.. Just tell them you don`t want them mention anything to your mom.. Don`t lie and say you use tampon cause i highly doubt they`d believe you.. ♥ Dez
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is it possibly to get pregnant if you have sex without a condom but the guy didnt cum
Yes this is possible.. Especially if the guy pre*cums before having sex with you.. and your aren`t 100% he didn`t cum a little bit inside or near the vagina.. ♥ Dez
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