Question Posted Wednesday November 30 2005, 5:32 pm
i broke up with my boyfriend last week and now he is being really weird. he has asked me out like 3 times, he keeps IMing me the second i sign on, and he keeps telling my friends to tell me to go out with him..truth is. i don't like him any more and im not really sure if i liked him in the first place..he is really weird and clingy..what should i do?
iluvhim answered Thursday December 1 2005, 4:32 pm: he's probly just jealous that he had something great and now he doesnt. he odviously still wants you and i'd say it was just his hormones. give it a couple days and it'll blow over i bet. [ iluvhim's advice column | Ask iluvhim A Question ]
xshortxnxsweeetx answered Wednesday November 30 2005, 10:01 pm: You need to be straight forward and tell him how you feel. Let him know that you dont have feelings for him and that you'd rather be friends. Just be up front with him.
Mercy_x_Me answered Wednesday November 30 2005, 9:52 pm: You just need to lay it down flat very nicely that you no longer have feelings for him. Make sure you express that you need a little space right now. Just be like 'It's not you I'm just going through a phase in my life where I need some space, I need to be my own person' ... that'll atleast make him feel like it's not all his fault and then maybe he will respect that and give you space.
good luck && if you need anymore help let me know about it!!
xxoBriannax answered Wednesday November 30 2005, 6:45 pm: Tell him that he isn't making your relationship better by nagging you. You need your space. Make it clear to him that you don't like him. Tell your friends to tell him to leave you and them alone. [ xxoBriannax's advice column | Ask xxoBriannax A Question ]
tinydancer71591 answered Wednesday November 30 2005, 6:43 pm: just tell him that you're willing to be <b>friends</b> with him, but if he can't just be friends, and he keeps clinging, then there'll be nothing at all between the two of you. Tell him that you don't have anything for him and by sticking like flypaper he's just driving you away. I hope I helped and good luck. I had a b/f just like this. Turns out he was twisted and unstable so he more than leaned on me. So I gave him a "back off" warning. When he didn't listen, I told him that's it and I just ignored him completely. He missed me so he came back and said "okay, if i promise to be only your friend, will it work?" and i said "that's your choice." we're just casual friends now.
Nikkix3 answered Wednesday November 30 2005, 6:38 pm: If you really don't like him. tell him,okay we need to talk. i'm sorry but i don't like you like that..we can be friends..but you really need to stop! im sure it'll work! i hope it does.. hope i helped! [ Nikkix3's advice column | Ask Nikkix3 A Question ]
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