There's no "right time" to have sex in a relationship. I guess whenever you're comfortable with the person and love the person. That'll probably be the right time. If you think it's the right time, then it probably is. Just make sure you're comfortable with the person, before you do anything. ♥ [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
Kristen03 answered Thursday December 1 2005, 8:22 pm: It doesn't really matter when you have sex. I have friends who waited a week, a month, a year. It varies depending on your feelings for the person. If you think you're ready, then go for it. But make sure he truly likes you and isn't just using you for sex. [ Kristen03's advice column | Ask Kristen03 A Question ]
HOPLESSxROMNTC answered Thursday December 1 2005, 8:20 pm: It is different for everyone. Just MAKE SURE you are very close to the person and not using you. Don't fall for those stupid liars and say they love and then use you.
Back to the point, I'd say about a year or so. Hope I Helped! [ HOPLESSxROMNTC's advice column | Ask HOPLESSxROMNTC A Question ]
xxoBriannax answered Thursday December 1 2005, 6:54 pm: When you are ready. It depends on if you are a virgin or not. People that aren't virgins aren't going to wait a year to have sex with their boyfriend or girlfriend. But, if the person is a virgin, they would most likely wait until they really felt ready and comfortable. It depends though it could be 3 months into the relationship or 3 years. [ xxoBriannax's advice column | Ask xxoBriannax A Question ]
xO_Hollister_xO answered Thursday December 1 2005, 6:30 pm: Exactly what you said. When you're ready :) When both of you guys are ready and responsible enough.
MELiixMARiiE answered Thursday December 1 2005, 6:18 pm: Well there really is no length into the relationship as to when to have sex you just said yourself: its when you are ready. If you feel you two love eachother enough and are responsible and mature enough to make a decision like that and you've thought of everything and all the consequences and everything, then you can have sex. [ MELiixMARiiE's advice column | Ask MELiixMARiiE A Question ]
XO_LiZ_69_0X answered Thursday December 1 2005, 5:17 pm: you just answered your own friggen question, and leave the answers to the actual advicenators. And if you are one, try answering them on your own page. Sorry
and no1 can tell you when ur ready or how far in , its about trust && love
OMFGitsRC answered Thursday December 1 2005, 4:59 pm: i personally think that you shouldnt have sex when you are just in a "relationship". i think you that you should wait until you are married, and you have planned to spend the rest of your life with this person. but if you are ready, then u do it....when your ready, lol. but dont let any guy talk you into something you are not ready for.
Dakmor answered Thursday December 1 2005, 4:40 pm: . . . You just answered your own question, mate. When you feel ready. Some people think 2 weeks is a long time. Others feel that it should be like 2 years. Personally, I feel that any pre-marital sex is wrong.
In addition, it has to be a good relationship. You wouldn't want to lose your virginity to some jerk, would you? Your virginity is important and special.
It also depends on where you are. It sounds weird, but it's true. Where I live, nobody under the age of like 16 has sex. But my 13-year-old cousin in NY, all her friends have lost their virginity.
Supermanlover45 answered Thursday December 1 2005, 3:47 pm: It's different for everybody it's always how long it takes you to get comfortable when you AND him feel like yes, I'm very ready to make love to you and just please wait until your in love* with him if you aren't already trust me if you aren't and you guys break up it will hurt you so much. [ Supermanlover45's advice column | Ask Supermanlover45 A Question ]
MFS answered Thursday December 1 2005, 10:09 am: You've answered your own question.
There is no duration a relationship needs to determine that.
The time for that level of intimace should be based on the ability to handle the responisibility, since having sex acknowledges the chance of pregnancy. It should be based on the maturity, as sex should require emotional stability, trust, and a strong relationship. Hell, sometimes having sex is based on money - if you can afford birth control, if you could afford to have a baby should that happen, if you can afford doctors bills should sexually transmitted infections be involved (which again goes back to having a solid, trusting relationship).
I sadly know people who think "oh yeah, after 2 months, you can have sex!" To which I think, "why are you even dating people?" [ MFS's advice column | Ask MFS A Question ]
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