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today in my honors science class, our teacher wasnt there; 2 men were. they told us that theres evidence of cheating on the easy test on wednesday of this week..and that theyre going to find out who cheated. basically an answer sheet for the test was found..and it had obviously been made my a kid. this is a high school class btw. now our teacher has to remake every test for the semester and theres a possibility of us having to retake a new test.. what do i do if they think it was me who cheated?

Well, was it you that cheated? If it wasn't you have nothing to worry about. Your knowledge wouldn't match the evidence. If it was you the best thing to do is come out with the truth. They will punish you but if you don't admit to it everyone will be punished.

Okay see i have pretty brown eyes right, but then at the same time i want to wear make up...but not too much..and i want to wear make up but i don't want to look like a goth...I mean what should i wear??

Wear a pale shade of brown or gold as eyeshadow. Then put on a bit of brown eyeliner on your bottom lid. Lastly, put some mascara on and you are good to go.

My power is out and Im SO bored!
I NEED something to do.
the way im doing this is on my lap top but I cant plug it in because there isnt power and it only has a little power left! So I cant use it for much longer.
Theres NO lights, fridge, TV, or anything.
Its also cloudy so its dark and theres not a lot of light to see.
Im home alone.
Please give me some ideas of what to do!!

Do you have a flashlight? If you do read or play cards (solitare of an alone game like that). If you have a battery CD player or iPod or something listen to that. Any homework you can do? If you have a cellphone or any working phone see if a friend can come over.

say it was 3 thin layers of clothing. He did ejaculate and I noticed that there was a wet spot on my shorts around the top of my private area, I am not sure if it went through my underwear or not, but my underwear was also wet, but that was probably my stuff. I am really scared that I will get pregnant. I will get my period approximately around Feb 9 so that is where I stand. I am really worried, what can I do?

It is highly unlikely the sperm can get through 3 layers of clothing. I doubt you're pregnant. Just be more careful next time.

i have to to go to a wedding in february.. does anyone know any stores where i can find cute dresses? um. preferably a little above the knee?

gojane.com and bebe.com. Also deb.com Yeah I like websites.

hey!
have you ever throught about opening up a chatroom where people can talk to other people directly? i think that this would really make a brilliant site to an awsome site. hope to hear from you soon? lucee xx

We already have one. Under the Get Advice heading the last link is for the chatroom. If you didn't mean for this site disregard this.

I recorded myself singing on a video recorder, which is pretty accurate, and it was really...well, different than I expected. It wasn't that bad, but it wasn't really good. But my dad and choir teacher say that I'm good. Does everyone think they don't sound too good for the first time, or is it just me? Am I not a good judge of this because it's hearing myself for the first time and all?

Everyone hatess their voice recorded. It's just a fact of life. If your dad and choir teacher say you sound good then you probably sound good. Don't worry about it you are probably better than you think.

all girls at my school have this really cool hairstyle its like wavy andit looks like its hard. (the hair looks hard i mean) but ehir hair isnt wavy! how do i make that style with the wavy crispy hair lol. sorry if i'm confusing!

It's called scrunching. You need either moose or gel to do it and it works best when your hair is wet. What you do is bring your ends up to your scalp and squeeze it. Do this until you havve your hair as wavey as you want it.

My really close friend Amanda is obsessing over this hot kid at school. Every conversation is spent talking about that he looked at her! I mean he just looked at ya! She claims she "loves" him. She doesn't even know what that means! She has talked to the guy ONCE and all it was was him asking her what period an assembly was!! She says that was the best moment of her life! In her profile she writes all this love crap...its pathetic. How can I tell her she should stop claiming she's in "love" and focuz on whats really important??

In all honesty, there's very little you can do. She'll eventually learn. Tell her that they never seem to talk and that's all you can do. Because you can't stop her from liking who she wants to like. The best thing to do is make her realize she's not in love. Tell her that she cannot understand love until someone truly loves her back. This is probably just a phase but keep the subject off him as much as possible.

Last night I fell down the stairs and landed pretty hard on my "big toe" on my right foot. This morning, when I woke up, it was swolen and slightly bruised. It's extremely painful. I went down the stairs to ask my dad about it, and I forgot to walk on the side of my foot; I took a normal step (foot flat on the ground) and it hurt so bad that I started crying. I have a ballroom dance class and a Jewish/Russian dance class this afternoon. Going to a doctor is not an option. My dad thinks I broke it. What I want to know is, what can I do to make it less painful to dance and walk on? I've already taken pain reliever, but should I tape two toes together?
Thanks.

You can't do much sbout a broken toe. Taping them together is how they heel so do that and use a lot of ice. You cannot dance. Dancing will upset it greatly and if you dance it will take longer to heel. Stay off it as much as possible.

i just got my period, but the thing is, i got it 2 weeks ago, too. im really worried, im not expecting it for another 2 weeks! whats wrong?

If you haven't had your period for more than a year you're fine. It's normal to be irregular when you first start. If you have had your period for 18+ monthes talk to your doctor.

ok,so,here is the deal,im going to the movies with my friends,there bfs,and this kid i like.my friends know him but i've never seen him in person,only talked on aim.im afraid he wont like (pretty wise)but i've seen a picture of him,and hes realllyyy cute.Im not confident around guys really,but i already know how to solve that. What i need to know is what should i wear for make up? (i have beige-yellow skin,brown eyes,black,long eyelashes and black eyebrowns,brown hair,pink-rosy lips.I look really itlian)I need something that makes me look soo awesome!! I have an ok complextion,some pimples.Would it be smart to go to the spa the day befor for a facial (to get rid of black heads) Thanks a bunch!!

I don't think a facial at the spa will really be worth it. Too expensive for what you're looking for. Anyway, start with a yellow tinted powder foundation because it looks more natural and will go better with your skin tone. For tough pimples blend some liquid foundation on it. Next, go to the eyes. For shadow wear something kinda natural but still pops out. Wear colors like pinks, golds, and brown that is 1-2 shades lighter than your hair color. Put on a brown or back mascara and some brown pencil liner. For you lips use a gloss. Anyt color would work but use something not too shiny. That's all you really need. Drop one in my inbox if you need anything else.

Okay, well I'm not that good of a singer, and I know that. But, I have a beauty pageant coming up, and you have to have a talent, and singing is all I can come up with. I can also tumble pretty well, so idk if I should do that or not. I have a round-off back-handspring, standing back-handspring, round-off back-handspring series, and standing back-handspring series.
So I have 3 questions:
-Should I sing, or should I tumble?
-If I choose to sing, what are some tips to help an amature?

and BTW, the talent has to be 2:30 seconds long.

Thank you so much if you can help!

If you can't sing then don't sing. I think you have something very good with the gymnastics. Make up a floor routine showing all you cn do- even cartwheels and such if you need to take up more time.

I want to know why people always talk such trash about mormans. Yea I am morman but that has nothing to do with it. Just because people arnt in a certain religion doesnt mean they have the right to talk trash about it. So my question is why do people do it? and why is it mostly mormans they talk about? Thanks.

It's because in the old days (I do not know if this is still the belif today) they believed in having several spouses. People are aganist that and most religions are too. Therefore, they sterotype. My opinon? That is so predjudice. You believe in something different then them- so what? They have different beliefs than the majority of people in this world so they should back of.

EDIT: What are you talking about? Oh I guess you think I'm someone else that just changed their answer. No, this is my first and only answer.

ok i have a question... does anyone know how to put pictures under like heroes and people you want to meet on your myspace page? please help me! thanks~ i rate

You need to get an account at photobucket.com. Then get the URL of the picture once you upload it to photobucket and copy and paste it into the section you want.

in myspace..how can you set it so only your friends can see it.like "you must be a friend in order to see it" if you get what im saying? like a privacy thing..

& if your gonna diss on myspace..
dont even bother answering!!

You have to change your age. Go to edit profile and to basic info. Click edit and make your birthday so you are under 15.

what is a pegan or wiggan?

They are religions revolving around witchcraft. Pegan is basicly the name that 100s of years ago Christians called non-believers. Wiggan actually practices the witch-craft. Some pagen religions do too.

Hey, this may be an odd question, but healthwise, is Iced Tea bad/good for you? I really like it and I was hoping it was better than drinking soda because I got too used to drinking that. So, I know it's only like 70 calories, but can anyone give me an idea here??

Yes, iced tea is very good for you. Just make sure when you drink it don't put a lot of sugar in.

when you answer a question here, and the person who asked it gives you like a one or something, and you change your advice or say say something by editing your answer, will it still say 1 new answer by their question thing so that they know you edited your answer?

No. I wish it did. I also wish that people can see when you changed your feedback. It sucks but hopefully DN will try to change it.

i am a 14 yr old girl in the 8th grade. this guy wants me to have sex with him. i really want to cause i love him alot. but i dont want to get pregnant and have kids. any suggestions???

First off, make sure you are completely ready. You may think you are but you really may not be. Just think this through first. If you are sure you are ready then use a condom. It's the best protection. If it breaks, which it sometimes does pull out immedeatley. If you can find a way to ask your parents to get it, get some birth control pills. Be safe and use protection.

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