i am a 14 yr old girl in the 8th grade. this guy wants me to have sex with him. i really want to cause i love him alot. but i dont want to get pregnant and have kids. any suggestions???
Basketball3846 answered Monday January 16 2006, 4:16 pm: personally, i think that 14 is an extrememly young age to have sex. then again, if you truly honestly do feel that you are ready and you think that this guy is special enough for you to give him your virginity then go right ahead. As long as you do it, make sure it's safe and use a condom. You can never be too safe. [ Basketball3846's advice column | Ask Basketball3846 A Question ]
Erinn_the_bamf answered Monday January 16 2006, 4:15 pm: First off, make sure you are completely ready. You may think you are but you really may not be. Just think this through first. If you are sure you are ready then use a condom. It's the best protection. If it breaks, which it sometimes does pull out immedeatley. If you can find a way to ask your parents to get it, get some birth control pills. Be safe and use protection. [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
Teza answered Monday January 16 2006, 4:15 pm: I think it's just your emotions saying that you love him. Does he "love" you or are you guys even going out or what?? Anyways, if you really love him and you're ready to have sex with him, then go ahead. It's good that you're thinking of the outcome. If you don't want to get pregnant then wear a condom or even birth control? Just be careful and do it when you're ready, not when he is. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
livingLIKEloversxx answered Monday January 16 2006, 4:14 pm: sweetite, you're 14 years old. slow down. dont have sex just because some guy [i know he may not be justs some guy to you but..] is pressuring you into it. but hey, im not you. you need to answer this uestion yourself. because this is a pretty big dedsocion. [ livingLIKEloversxx's advice column | Ask livingLIKEloversxx A Question ]
DeadMemories answered Monday January 16 2006, 4:12 pm: Hey,
Here is a good web site I searched on Google. It could help you:
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