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i have been hanging out with a new group of friends one of my friends said me and this guy would be a cute couple, im 14 and hes 16, one of my other friends said that i was too young for him but another one of his friends asked him and he said i thought i was pretty and he would think about it, and didnt even say anything about the age, so know i no i have a chance hes really cool but shy and i hardly no him, how can i get him to talk to me and get to know each other and to like me when i hang out with my group of friends again
14 & 16 is not a huge age difference. its only 2 years. plus, usually older guys go for younger girls & younger girls go for older guys, etc. just try it. hang out, be friends, see where things go. it's not like you guys are 5 years apart. its only 2 years apart. think of it this way. when he's 92, you'll be 90 haha =) not a big difference, right?? just talk to him about it. your friends shouldn't be involved with your relationship with him anyway.
-hope that helped!♥
i've been friends with this for like 3 years and we've always been close because we saw each other pretty much every day. now we're both in different classes and we never see each other i just feel like i wanna cry because i just miss her and all that we've been through together and i really just don't wanna lose her as my best friend. has anyone else been in this situation? if you have can you tell me about it. and how can i get my friend back. thank you soo much.
since my school is incredibly small, i haven't, but why don't you invite her to do things with you after school/weekends?? you can always hang out when you have off or on school breaks. just because you aren't in the same classes shouldn't change your relationship. my bf is in a totally different state than me & our relationship is fine. soo just try doing stuff together when you can. maybe talk online/on the phone too.
-hope that helped!♥
i went away to a wilderness camp in early june. and my first week there i got my period. and haven't gotten it since. we were outside 24/7 and had constant forms of excersize. i don't exactly know why i haven't gotten it yet since i've been back home for about a month. it's sort of scaring me and i'd like to know what it could be. and im not sexually active.
thank you. xx
hmm it could just be irregular. it wouldn't be a bad idea going to the gyno about it. since it is almost september, you might want to get checked out just to make sure. if you're at a younger age, your period being irregular is normal.
-hope that helped!♥
My girlfriends mother, well I don't really know how to explain it but she expects her to be perfect I guess. But, prefect when it comes to the way she looks. She lets her know when she's gaining weight, she doesn't let her eat past 8:30, she tells her if she looks like shit, etc.
The big thing her mom cares about though, is her weight. She's pretty thin (5'4 and WAS 118 lbs and she's a C cup so apparently those are heavier?) but her mom still constantly is on her case about it.
Well, I've recently noticed a drop in her weight. Clothes are getting bigger, she's buying smaller sizes, her waist is smaller, and her boobs (UGHHH!!). It seems like she's lost I don't know, 7 lbs? And I know the only reason she's losing the weight is because of her mother.
Don't get me wrong, I have the utmost respect for her mom and she's like a mom to me as well, I'm just concerned about my girlfriend. Should I bring up the subject, or what?
i think you should talk to your gf about it. yes you can't go against her mom & i wouldn't suggest trying to convince her mom not to. explain to your gf that she looks fine the way she is & that she should talk to her mom about it. it is their relationship. im not sure if her mom is overreacting about her weight, or just wants to make sure she's never overweight & unhealthy. i think she's being a bit extreme. ask your gf to talk to her about it. it would be the right thing to do, because its your gfs body. she should lose/gain weight as she wants.
-hope that helped!♥
How does straightening serum work? Do you have to blow dry your hair for it to work, or could you just put it in wet hair and let it air dry and it will help it straighten out? I don't really know what the best kind of straightening serum is, either. I would like to buy a good priced one from a drugstore. Any suggestions? Thank you.
the straightening serum i use is by John Frieda. you take a shower, make sure your hairs wet, & basically as soon as you step out of the shower, you put it in. each serum has their own instructions, so whatever type you decide to buy, it will tell you how/when to use it. i really don't know how it works, but it does work. you can't use it like a straightner though. you will still probably need to straighten your hair. you can blow dry it, i do, but for better results you might not want to. i just put it on after my shower, dry it & then straighten it. it's basically for keeping away frizz.
-hope that helped!♥
well ive always wanted to shop at abercrombie and i wanted to know if their jeans run smaller than other brands?
yes, i think abercrombie & fitch jeans run a bit smaller. it's basically the same as american eagle & hollister. i'd suggest going to the store & trying them on.
-hope that helped!♥
is it bad to suck in your stomach like all day? can it cause damage to your lungs or anything?
i never heard of that. i doubt it can damage your lungs. it might be painful after awhile i guess. it would also be a good idea not to do that so often.
-hope that helped!♥
what is the song call from the hills mtv show..its there theme song
it's called Unwritten by Natasha Bedingfield. it's actually my ringtone haha =) here are the lyrics-
http://www.stlyrics.com/lyrics/sisterhoodofthetravelingpants/unwritten.htm
oh & its also from The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants. it's a movie/book.
-hope that helped!♥
im 15/f about 5'5",around 130 lbs, and on a diet. what would be a reasonable amount of calories to consume per day? thank you :)
okay i used the information & put it in this chart. i put in your weight, height, sex, & age. i said you were moderately active, idk if you are, but it said you should need around 2149. you can try it yourself. heres a website-
http://walking.about.com/cs/calories/l/blcalcalc.htm
-hope that helped!♥
hey im a 13/f
what should i do for my birthday party??
i dont have a pool or a trampoline or anything and i just need some ah-mazing ideas please and thankyou!
part a! haha =) anyways, i think anything would be fun if you're with the right people. watch movies, eat good food, twister, make a fire & roast marshmellows, quates, truth or dare, spin the bottle, [only if guys are there], just talk, man-hunt, etc. since you are 13, its better if you guys talk & what not so it isn't too..idk kidish if you know what i mean, unless you want that.
-hope that helped!♥
Okay, I've had my period for about a year or a little bit longer and it's still irregular. How long does it take for it to come regulary?
And are there any ways to get the cramps and backaches to go away without taking Advil or Midol or such? Is exercising (like running, pilates) helpful or harmful because I do those every other day
it could take a few years before it comes regular. some girls have it regularly & some girls have it irregularly. i know a few that never had it regular & a few that never had it irregularly. basically, it all depends. you can get rid of cramps by running, but it will take longer than using a pill or a heating pad.
-hope that helped!♥
i rolled my left ankle and it sort of hurts. I can walk on it, but it hurts when i turn my ankle in. I'm positive i didn't break anything or fracture it because it just feels a little sore. So i was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to make it heal pretty quickly because cross country starts soon and i don't want it to bother me. thanks =]
get it checked out, elevate it, ice it, & try staying off it. i did that to my left ankle too [weird right] in either june/july. i didn't get it checked out. its still really sore, hurts, swollen, discolored, etc. you do not want that to happen. i'd suggest getting an ace bandage or something for the mean time when you do xc if you don't get it checked. i really suggest you do though.
-hope that helped!♥
I've designed a couple of things online, but I want to be able to use Photoshop to make things look better and more unique.
Is there any way that I wouldn't have to pay for it?
And if so, are there any great tutorials that would help me understand photoshop better?
Thanks
here's a website-
www.download.com
just type in Photoshop in the searchbar & many things will come up. it's a free 30-day trial. after the 30 days, you can either delete it or start paying for it. also-- there are tutorials you could find on download.com. they'll either be under Photoshop or you can type in Photoshop Tutorials. if you really don't want to pay after the trial, you can find a program similar for free.
-hope that helped!♥
ok so i had glasses for 3 years now and i REALLY want to get contacts. i went to the eye person and then he tried to put the contact in my eye but i didnt let him. this was a while ago. people tell me it takes hours for them to put them in.
idk if i still want them cause i hate that feeling of putting them in your eye and idk if its worth it.
is it ??? help me
ugh, i know what you mean. it took me forever to learn, but once you get it, its so easy! its not a problem anymore & its totally worth it. just keep trying.
-hope that helped!♥
13/f
i really want to start straightening my hair. i already know which straughtener im getting..my friend has it. its a conair ceramic one with 30 heat settings on it. is that a good one to get?? would that damage my hair if i use it every day?? and if it would, how can i make it not?
depending on your hair type, i wouldn't suggest conair. it didn't do anything for me. i now use Revlon. whatever brand you do use, make sure it's a ceramic straightner. they do a lot better & won't damage your hair as much. here's a website-
http://www.nextag.com/Helen-of-Troy-2-63997970/prices-html
also-- any straighter will damage your hair if you use it everyday. some ways to prevent worse damage would be not straightening while its wet [if you would buy a waterproof straightner]. make sure your hair is completely dry.
-hope that helped!♥
i need help putting a picture on my collumn please HELP me!
ok, the browse button doesn't always work for me. what you should do is save your picture on your documents. then, go to-
www.tinypic.com
upload your picture & take the very last link & use that. put it in your column settings.
-hope that helped!♥
does anyone know any good sites that are good for making AIM profiles
there aren't sites you can use just to make AIM profiles. what you can do is get a buddy4u account. in the subpages section, there's a link above it that says 'easy edit'. there you can store your premade AIM profiles or make new ones. it has different fonts & colors you can use.
-hope that helped!♥
im looking for a black layout on myspace with the chanel symbol? websites would help. thanks a ton.
i don't have the exact link, but i have seen them before. i would suggest going to this site-
http://myspace.nuclearcentury.com/layoutlist.php
it says 'chanel layout'
or you can google what you're looking for.
next time, google it.
-hope that helped!♥
i have a razr phone from cingular and my dad cancelled the texting and i dont have the internet on my phone iether.. is there ANY way that i could do so i can get the pics from my phone onto the computer? like could i connect my phone to the computer??
i think it is possible, but there would be a cable you would have to buy. here's a website-
http://forums.mobiledia.com/topic41662.html
it sounds like its a USB cable. i'd suggest going to your local cingular store for details.
-hope that helped!♥
Me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex soon. Neither of us have ever done it before, so we have no idea what you are supposed to do without getting hurt. I am 13 and he is 14, do you think that it to early, even with protection?? Any advice would help.
i think if you don't love each other, aren't serious about each other, think it won't work, or feel you aren't ready, you shouldn't go through with it. i don't think it really goes by age, but how ready you are. protection is extremely important in this case. there's STDS, pregnancy, etc. if you really want to have sex [none of us can stop you] make sure you know exactly what you're doing & get protection that is needed. i think you guys don't seem ready. usually if there's any doubts [obviously in this case there is] then you aren't ready.
-hope that helped!♥