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well i like this girl she does know i like her from me telling her from a love letter and then from alot of people and now i think she hates me i never asked her should i ask her if she likes me or not and go for it no matter what any one else thinks cause i dont want her to miserable and all her friends hating her for me talking to her or her liking me but when i wait to talk to her she looks pissed off at me and like she doesnt want to talk to me but i mean we look at ecother alot im a runescape person and shes a book person i guess u could say i love her alot but her friend and lots of other girls are trying to talk to me but i hate them all cause b4 they new i liked her they all hated me after school should i go to her locker and talk to her and walk out with her to the buses or wait by a door to talk to her and she works as a lunch worker so she cleans dishes for school during lunch should i talk to her then to god i bet she or her friends think bad about me please help me find out what to do (link)
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As far as her liking you, question 2 in this link should help you out. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
I recommend trying to talk to her alone,and see what's going on. She may not have the same feelings as you, and doesn't know how to tell you. Or she may like you back, but is afraid of getting into a relationship.
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Umm, I bite my nails all the time. I want to stop but I can't. I've tried using nail polish, and band-aids won't work, they fall off. So is there anything else I can do that won't harm my nails in the process? (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://beauty.about.com/od/perfectnails/f/bitingnails.htm
http://www.deadprogrammer.com/wml-how-to-stop-biting-nails
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Heyy
Im 16/f and i was wondering what the best skincare products and routines would be best for my skinn:
I havee
-open pores on the skin either side of my nose
-combination skin
- - grease kinda forms on my forehead chin and either side of my nose
-get tha odd random spot lmao
- bumpy skin/forehead
but good skin on the edges of ma face loll
Jus want something that will improve texture and look of skin especially pores..
Not bothered by price butt available in the UK pleasee
brands and varietys and products
thankyou xxx =DD (link)
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Hello, please take a look at #4's link. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=519359
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23, F:
I wanted to know if there's a big difference between 1% and 2% milk. I know that adults do not need to have a large dairy intake in their diet, but I still love milk. I've heard that whole or 2% milk is high in saturated fat...but really, is it important for adults to stick to 1% or less?
I usually have 1% milk anyway..so I'm just curious.
If you have any nutrition facts, advice on dairy consumption, etc., please let me know. Thanks! (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://www.marieclaire.com/life/healthy/excercise-tips/milk-fat-percentage
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i have the "happy clinique lotion" and i really like the scent but its kind of too strong if i wear to wear it like i'd put on any other lotion. does anybody have this...or where should i use it? (link)
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I love the Happy Clinique Collection, it's amazing. I usually just apply it on my arms and around my neck. Since the scent is strong, it's enough just to apply it there.
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Alright, so my family makes getting each other christmas gifts every year a big thing. (We're a medium sized family and money isn't an issue.) Every year my aunt goes shopping the day after thanksgiving all day, and likes to get as many presents for everyone as she can.
Every year I seem to be able to come up with a few things here and there of small things people can get me, but I really don't need anything big. Plus, if it's THAT big, my parents were already planning on getting it.
So I decided to just make up a list of movies that I'd really want but just haven't gotten around to buying. So far I've come up with Beetlejuice, A Walk To Remember, and Clue.
Any other ideas of movies I can request? Thanks. (link)
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*Tristan & Isolde
*The Notebook
*The Lakehouse
*Miss Congeniality
*Devil Wears Prada
*Family Guy
*The Simpsons
*Legally Blonde
*Christmas Vacation
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I want a good welcome back present for my boyfriend's return from Asia! I haven't seen him in basically 6 months.
What should I do? (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=518322
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Im 14
When I Was 11 my Boyfriend and I broke up. He Wanted to have sex but I Said No So He Ripped my pannies and shoved his "dick" in. When he did that he took my virginty. I Called It Rape.Ever Since then I Have Been Having Sex. I Want To Tell My Mom But I Am Scared.Everytime I Have Sex,Afterwards I always feel like im going to get caught. The boy I am having sex with right now I Like Him But he just wants to be "sex buddys".I Just Found out one of my childhood friends has been liking or loving and talking to him for 2 years. She`s coming to fight me friday or saturday. My sister told me thar should stop talkin to him but I realy like him and I think i might be pregnant by him.
What should I do?
and how can i tell if im pregnant or not without having a pregnacy test or waiting for my period to come? (link)
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EDIT: Just incase you may read back over this, I do understand that you're scared and I'm sorry if I was a little harsh on you. But you need to here the truth and I only want the best for the people I give advice to, I really do care, and if I didn't feel what I've told you is the best for you, I wouldn't have told you it in the first place. I wish you nothing but the best of luck.
First off, I'm assuming that you didn't tell anyone that you were raped. There isn't much you can do now, but you really should have told someone. This guy, I mean, if he raped you, he'll rape another girl. I'm very concerned about that.
Second, I don't recommend being "sex buddies" with any guy, but that's my personal beliefs and because of your age. I don't want you to be used only for sex, and that's unfortunately, what's happening here. I would't suggest participating in a fight either, I'm not for that. No guy is worth literally fighting over, I don't care who he is. I would leave this guy alone, especially, if he only wants to sleep with you.
Third and most importantly, if you think you're pregnant -- I suggest finding out soon. Getting pregant and having a baby is no joke, it's a very difficult thing to go through and it takes a lot of responsiblility, etc. There isn't any other way to know if you're pregnant, other than getting a pregnancy test. I think it would best, even though it will be hard, to tell your mother about everything and go get a pregnancy test.
Or if you don't want to do that, find another trusted adult and have them take you to get a pregnancy test. Then, I would still suggest telling your mother.
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What is the name/artist of the song that goes...
"You've got me trippin, stumbilin, flippin, mumbulin..." or something like that...
PLEASE HELP!
Thanks! (link)
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*Fergie - Clumsy
EDIT: I'm sorry to the previous columnist, I wasn't paying attention and didn't notice your answer there.
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ok well im 14 and 4 months i havent started my period but my boobs are quite big not huge but are a reasonable size and i have a lot of pubic hair on my vagina and armpits. My sister started when she was 13 she doesnt masturebate i do with carrots and randoms stuff and pens does this affect my period im so scared i think something is wrong with me please help thanks a lot in advance.
xxx
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Fortunately, that will not affect your period. Some people start later than others, there isn't anything wrong with that. Though I do have to say, sticking random things up your vagina is not the healthiest thing. And it can cause future health problems.
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Hi, I am 16 years old, I am 5'5" and i weigh about 117 pounds. I want to weigh at least 125 pounds and this calculator said that I should be eating at least 2000 calories a day and i should gain one pound a week. I figured I should write down tomorrow what I eat and calculate how many calories I have had in the day to see how much I eat in the first place and adjust accordingly. What sorts of stuff should I do to create a list of things to eat everyday, because thats a lot of calories. Any tips or suggestions are welcome. (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=52231
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why is running in the cold better than running in hot weather? (link)
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I found this link that may help you. =)
http://www.bikeradar.com/road/fitness/article/training-running-hot-and-cold-198
In my personal opinion, the only thing I can come up with is that when it's hot, you're more at risk for a heat stroke, and other conditions.
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does any one know what the name of the theme song for south of nowhere?
Thank you advance! (link)
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*The Donnas - Wasted
EDIT: Sorry to previous columnist, didn't notice your answer there.
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14/f so ive had my period for about a year. and this month i am more than a week late.... i havent had sex or anything. what could cause this? it isnt possible that i still have a tampon in from last month is it? (link)
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I'm no doctor, but I've had this problem and in my experience, it's because my periods are still irregular. And especially, since you have only had your period for about a year -- you'll probably have more irregular periods.
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At school, I have heard people talking about me and saying I stink. I'm really embarassed and don't know how I could stink. I take a shower every morning and use lots of deodorant, and my feet don't stink either. What is wrong with me? I am scared to tell my mom about it to. (link)
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I would talk to your friend, if you really would rather not talk to your mom about it. One that goes to your school, and ask her what she's heard and what they mean by it. Chances are, she's heard something. It may not be meant the way you interpreted it, even though any meaning of the word is not nice to say. But they could have meant that your attitude, or personality stinks, etc.
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There's this one guy I like, he's in 2 grades ahead of me but we have show choir together and I see him quite a bit for rehearsals. Well in choir we're doing this swing dancing/grease song and he's my partner. He's always really sweet...telling me I'm beatuful, hugging me, helping me up when we screw up on any of the moves (swing dancing is really hard. I'm a dancer but I've never done this before.) We had to car pool to Pope Joy hall for a concert and there weren't enough seats in the car so he let me sit on his lap and then he put his arm around my waste.
But what I don't get is one minute he acts like I'm the only girl in the world and when I'm not around or off somewhere else in the room he just flirts with other girls like crazy...I mean he doesn't act the same way around them as he does me...but still. I don't know if he likes me or not...and I don't want to assume that he does and make an idiot out of myself.
Do you think maybe he's just playing me? That I'm just a conquest? It's to the point where I honestly can't tell and I'm really good at reading people. I mean he always hugs me when he sees me and he always plays with my hair...
Today I walked into rehearsal and he was laying on the couch with this one girl just messing around with her, and then he caught my eye and I just walked out and he followed me but I was already out of his sight. I'm seriously tired of this...what do I do?
I really like him, but if he's going to keep going pi-polar on me then I need to move on... (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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I'm on my friends myspace pg and I just noticed right near where it says "view all of bla bla blas friends" there is a button that says "mutual" what does mutual mean? And how come I don't have it? (link)
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"Common to or shared by two or more parties; "a common friend"
So in other words, it's the friends that the two of you have in common.
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I have a problem making friends. Whenever I think I found a group of friends that like me and I could be friends with for a while, it turns out they none of them like me. I try SO hard to be nice to everyone. I don't like it when anyone hates me, so I try to not cause anything. I had a group of best friends over the summer, but most of them went to college, and we all hardly talk anymore. I want that one friend that I can go to for anything and trust, but I can NEVER trust anyone because once I think I can, they turn around and tell someone else. I already try and be nice to people, and I try to hang out with people that have the same interests in me. I had people from my Cross Country team, but now that Cross Country is over, we don't really talk. I have 3 friends that I've been trying to go out to eat with for about 2 weeks, but it never happens. It really upsets me that I cannot find at least one person who wants to be a good friend of mine, just someone to bashtalk when I leave.
My question is, how can I get friends that actually LIKE me, and want to hang out with me? (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://www.gogirlsonly.org/aboutme/make_new_friends.asp
http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/familyandfriends/friendships/makingnewfriends
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if you eat too many skittles...like eat them everyday all the time could something bad happen to you? like in the future or something (link)
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I hope not either, I love me some skittles! =) The only thing as far as I can see, is you may gain weight from it. But I don't think any other issues would come up.
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How many hours does a high school football game last? (link)
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It's different with different schools, but mine lasts 3 hours, sometimes longer.
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