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He likes me...he likes me not...
There's this one guy I like, he's in 2 grades ahead of me but we have show choir together and I see him quite a bit for rehearsals. Well in choir we're doing this swing dancing/grease song and he's my partner. He's always really sweet...telling me I'm beatuful, hugging me, helping me up when we screw up on any of the moves (swing dancing is really hard. I'm a dancer but I've never done this before.) We had to car pool to Pope Joy hall for a concert and there weren't enough seats in the car so he let me sit on his lap and then he put his arm around my waste.
But what I don't get is one minute he acts like I'm the only girl in the world and when I'm not around or off somewhere else in the room he just flirts with other girls like crazy...I mean he doesn't act the same way around them as he does me...but still. I don't know if he likes me or not...and I don't want to assume that he does and make an idiot out of myself.
Do you think maybe he's just playing me? That I'm just a conquest? It's to the point where I honestly can't tell and I'm really good at reading people. I mean he always hugs me when he sees me and he always plays with my hair...
Today I walked into rehearsal and he was laying on the couch with this one girl just messing around with her, and then he caught my eye and I just walked out and he followed me but I was already out of his sight. I'm seriously tired of this...what do I do?
I really like him, but if he's going to keep going pi-polar on me then I need to move on...
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you might be wrong when you say "he's not like that to other girls".
but he's probably the type of guy that likes girls for who they are, but doesn't want just one. he wants a lot of them and no serious relationship so he can't say he's cheating.
if you really like him that much and think he could change in the future, then keep liking him, but don't put too much emotion into it. you shouldn't put too much emotion into a guy like that anyways because that just messes YOU up.
flirt with him when it feels right, take the compliments, but don't act like his girlfriend. appreciate what you have because some girls can't even get that far.
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It seems like he just craves attention. If so, and you guys went out (because it's completely apparent he likes you) you'll provide him that attention and he'll back off from other girls. But if he continues to flirt with other girls, drop the relationship, it can only get worse from there.
Hope I helped and best of luck!
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