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I have a question for you
well i saw this question that u answered about myspace stuff
u said not to put yur sn on yur myspace and i was just woundering how can that be a concern
by the way you gave great advice and im gonna follow what you said cause i have a myspace
thanks (link)
because if your away message is like

"hanging around call my cell/home #"

they can mapquest or w.e it and find where you live

thnks for the nice feedback i love it ♥

♥kiss*me


Okay, this girl requested to be my friend on myspace, and I sort of know her as a friend, so I just added her back. Well, apparently she's new to the whole thing and gets freaked out by those weird Bulletins if anyone knows what I mean. (If you have a myspace, I'm talking about the bulletins people post saying you'll die if you dont repsost this and stuff) Well, someone on her friends list posted one of those..and she took it very seriously. She told her parents, and they have called the police. Then the police called everyone on her buddies to notify them not to go on myspace because apparently in the chain letter it said stuff that was personal about everyone on her buddies, and the last time this happened someone actually did get killed. Now, this girl happens to only have 10 ppl on her friends, so it was easy to contact everyone seeing how she only added people in her niehgborhood, ha. But I am one of the people on her buddies, and we've already been called.

Here's the thing, my mom answered the phone when the police called, and she doesn't really care about the whole thing, because this girl is known to be over dramatic. BUT, if my mom tells my dad he will FREAK. Not only because my picture is on the internet, but because there's someonE I don't know who knows all my personal information. WHAT am I supposed to do? If my dad finds out he will ban me from the computer for ages, and I'm going to be needing it a lot lately, so PLEASE any advice would help mE!

Thank you soo much! (link)
well first of all, i have a myspace. and my mom flipped when she heard something on the news that one guy just found someone with just a picture of a girl who was appartenly 10 years old.

and also, dont put any personal info on you like

where do you live: blahh blahh
where are you currently located: my room in blah
wheres your hometown: blah

in those surveys, dont put up any info

ask ur friends to give u a fake name, like

if your name is lisa- say your name is like leesa spell it differently

never say your state.

never tell your screenname

NEVER ACCEPT FRIEND REQUESTS OF SOMEONE WHOM YOU DONT KNOW

thats tthe number one rule for people who are like under 16 on myspace

just listen to what i said because my friends friend got raped over like info on her.

♥peace


okay.

13 f

and im starting to grow hair / down there \
and under my arms like armpits lol
and my chest are thickening

and also, i have a discharge.

should i wear pads just incase if it comes
any day now?
how long does it usually take
for your period to start?
yes i know every body has their own speed for ther puberty thing to start.

ill rate 5s if you can serisouly help!
(link)
You can start your period at any time, I know some one that started when they was 8, you never know when your period can come, it may be today, it may be tomarrow, you never know but if you feel like you gotta go to the bath room, dont think twice about going go then and there if you have to ask a teacher then if she says no tell her your going through girl problems. Well hope i helped,
~*Saylor*~


okay... i have a boyfriend named john. but like the thing is that he lives in cleveland and i am texas. well... the other night to be exact on friday night i made out with my ex and then fucked him. it was my first time so it was only like 5 minutes b/c we had to take a break b/c it hurt so bad but then as soon as my cherry was popped we were done b/c it freaked him out b/c he felt it. i love my ex and i THINK i love john but i'm not sure.i know i love my ex but john i just don't know. what should i do?? i want to still be with john but i also want to be with my ex. i want to talk with john about it b/c it was one of those spur of hte moment things. john has also started talking about getting realyl serious like marriage serious and i am only 14! he is 17. btw... both guys are 17. (link)
No offense but thats kinda whorish. You cant have both of them. You have to choose between them, if I were you I would go for the one that treats you with more respect, john souldnt be talking about marriage, your just 14, if i were you I would choose my ex because you and him went through so much. Im just saying though, its your life i hope you make the right descision. Thanks, and I hope I helped.
~*Saylor*~


what does dildo mean? cause these 2 girls were talking about it in the mall today (link)
a dildo is a sexual device used for perverted girls that are masturbating or going through their hormonial stage. Most girls get it to "DO" theirselves with it. (if you know what i mean) hope i helped



~*~SAYLOR~*~


JON JON JON JON JON JON JON!

I can't get him out of my head!
I'm going to ask him out online.
But I dont know when to like do it.
Like the second I IM him I know Im not going to say,
"will you go out with me??"
So how deep into the convo should I get to ask
him out? or I'll ask a friend for me too do it?

should I ask for him?
or should a friend ask for me?

and do guys like it when friends ask for you?

=) I'll rate (= (link)
you definently shouldn't get your friend to ask him out for you, because then that means that you're just scared to ask him yourself, and how would you like it if he got his friend to ask you out for him? if you do, then he might think of you as a coward, so you shoud ask him yourself. and it's better if you ask him face to face. just go up to him, start a conversation, then ask him out. but you should sorta be on that topic, because you don't wana just randomly ask him out. and if you're too scared to ask him out in person, then you should probably get to know him a little more and talk to him more until you're ready, because if you can't even ask him out in person, then how are you supposed to go out with him and not feel uncomfortable around him?
hope i helped! please rate me!


Hey, I was wondering where I might find a black nano ipod (4 gb) for a great price. I know that best buy has it for $250, but can i find it for cheaper? And how many songs does the 4gb hold? thanks in advance. (link)
nano holds 1000 songs like the regualr ipod

it said on TV it costed 150....

best buy wants it for 100 bucks more? wtf

look at;;

amazon
circut city
ebay
ipod.com
your local apple store

etc...

peace ♥


What type of questions on this website annoy you the most?

I hate every question that begins with the words, "There's this boy I like...". (link)
yeah

i especially hate this one question that keeps comming up about the same guy and the girl is upsessed with him

its VERY annoying



How long into a relationship would you wait to kiss [peck & make out] with your boyfriend/girlfriend? Thanks. (link)
well me and my boyfriend kissed the 1st day which it all depends on you when your ready do ur thing



hope i helped

~*~SAYLOR~*~
im not a whore thank u very much i just love my boyfriend and i trust him if u wanna know the truth a whore is some one that wants something but never gets it


I'm just curious, how can you make yourself smell like something? Like smell like soap, and not have it wear off as soon as you dry yourself? (link)
purfume, lotion, creame. and air freshners!! lol

bath and body works has a lotion that smells like soap for a *just came out of the shower* smell lol

its about 23 bucks tho

good luck

♥ kiss me


Okay I'm just wondering is there anyway or technique that you guys know of for like when you get embarrassed or something to make your face not get as red? Because it is so annoying, I'm not a shy person or anything I'm actually quite outgoing, but even when attention gets called to me sometimes my face gets red, or when I make speeches, things like that. Anyone know of any techniques or anything?! Please help. I'll rate high... (link)
just breath in and out peacefully...

innn


and out


innnn

and out


when a guy asks you to a dance..how do you nicely turn him down? (link)
just say "thanks, but no thanks"


what size does abercrombie go up to for jeans? do they run smaller than hollister cus i get mine from hollister cus theres a hollister in my mall no af. (link)
they go up to 16

and the lowest is 10 slim

*-----* adding *-----*
ohh

a&f is womansss...

so yeah go to abercrombie.com

and order from abercrombie and fitch

because yeahh

*-----* end *------*


hello! i am 13. im having my second child (i had my first when i was 11, her name is Amy). For my first baby, i told my parents and they were so happy! They felt stupid because they are going to be GRANDparents at 26 but i told them its not a big deal! So when i had Amy, it was totally natural! I felt so good and proud. The two of us have been living at my parents house for 2 years now. The father of my Amy, is now the father of Tommy, my bun in the oven! ;) I love him so much and he loves me. My parents love him too. He doesnt have any parents really. Well he does, but he runs away and stays away for a really long time. He is 11 right now. I think he should come live with me, amy and tommy! i havent brought it up with my parents yet though.

i thought it was the coolest thing that amy and her dad were so close in age, because they would probably be really close. Amys 2 and she can talk really well. She LOVES her dad and me.

my problem is, will Amy feel left out? will tommy not like his daddy or me? tommy's due date is tomorrow so for moms out there, you kno that my stomach is rubbing agenst the keyboard right now. but it feels good, i love pregnancy!

anyway, me and my boyfriend are geting married in one year. im so excited!

so just please answer my questions. thank you. sorry for the lenght. oh, tommy says thank you as well (he just kicked. . .twice!). oh and amy says hi as well! ;)

thanks again, bye! (link)
oh so you are 13 and had a baby? thats AWESOMEEE! yeah you should be buying a near by house lol



I have been talking to this guy on the internet for three months now and we both really like each other. I am a sixteen year old female. My parents don't know about him because they would completely freak out if they found out that I have given this guy my cell phone numberand the state in which I live. I want to tell them but I don't want to have to break up my relationship with him just because they don't trust people. What should I do? (link)
you say you know him over the web. but all he is concered he could be some rapist or physco trying to get you to like him and meet him. people put up fronts over the web to seem like something they are not, he could be fat, ugly, mean, racist etc. so dont be a fool and give him too much info because you can get hurt over these type of stuff. hey im only 15 but i know where danger lurks and that one of them.


okay

13/f

this is going to be pretty long.. so embrase your self for a long ride.

okay i like this boy, lets call him jon ♥ and we have all of the same classes, same tachers, same everything togeather. and he is like... MY LIFE! i cant live without him!

all of my friends say "oh he likes you" pointing to him. then i go "oh" then continue what i was doing. but saying to myself (i wish he can acually TELL me or SHOW me that he does like me)

so i like get in trouble like atleast 7 times a day like just like late for classes, wasnt listening, those little things.

so when i was at lmmy locker on friday(yesterday) he was like "okay noow you have to get in touble atleast 8 times today but nothing major okay?" and i was like "okay yeah whatever"

and i was thinking to myself (wow he doesnt want me to get in to deep trouble does he?) and i think that was ONE sign there.

whenever hes online, he like talkks to me the most out of everyone. and like my friend was like "omg jon isnt talking to me is he talking to you?" and "im like yeah he is"

and heres one problem;; my friend LIKES HIM ALSO! and iwas like "i saw him first you know that?" she was like "yeah you two have like puppy love going on there" and i was like "we do?" with a discusted face to hide my exitiment "ehh.."

she said "you didnt know?! its like all around school!!" and i was like "oh" hiding what i really felt i went to the bathroom and screamed...

you probally heard all of the other ones tht i said in gym he would be liike "RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN!"

and yeah... its cute and everyone says me make a cute couple.. but i think it would be wierd if eather of us asked eachother out.. and well then yeah i like just loving him to death but i want to go out with him! any help? sorry it was so long

thanks in advance

and ill rate 5's for good advice.. (link)
well on your up coming birthday, tell him that you dont want any gifts from him just tell him that you would like to go with him for a birthday present. it would really be a good idea since he is trying to make you exta happy that day. meanwhile hang on tight to him dont let one of your best friends steal him from you!

--hope it works--


NOT TRUE what you said about harming sexual organs or anything like that. Go find real info, then answer. (link)
it is true, i was watching "SEX TALK" late at night with this old lady on it, she was discussing on how starting masturbation at an early age CAN be harmful! So DONT come up to me and tell me to get "real info" because I CHECK MY FACTS BEFORE I USE THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


There is this white wiger at my school and friday the dance he kept bumping in to me and when he did he would say what punk u want to fight. i want fight him but there is cameras and teachers so i dont know where i should fight him??? (link)
if you fight him thats an all time low for you, i mean thats dumb if your going to fght him for something stupet as getting bumped into. dont listen to the first guy who responded, there is WAY TOO MUCH violence in the world, if you call yourself a christian then let it go, because at the very end of the road, he is going to wined up in hell not you. remeber that.

-dont do anything you'll regret-


Has anybody masturbated when they were 12? If so, what did you do? (link)
when i was 12 i had no clue about that kinda thing, until i was 13 at summer camp. but i think 12 year olds shouldnt be doing that at such an early age, it could cause harm to the reproductive system at such an early age.


What is your opinion on PDA? Does it bother you when couples at school kiss? (I'm not talking about making out and getting all over eachother.) What do you consider acceptable to do in public and what should be saved for behind doors? (link)
I think couples can kiss each other in public but not making out, like monkeys. but i have no problem with it because i dont consider it to be a bad thing, if someone is in love then they just cant help themselves.




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