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Question Posted Sunday September 18 2005, 9:27 am

JON JON JON JON JON JON JON!

I can't get him out of my head!
I'm going to ask him out online.
But I dont know when to like do it.
Like the second I IM him I know Im not going to say,
"will you go out with me??"
So how deep into the convo should I get to ask
him out? or I'll ask a friend for me too do it?

should I ask for him?
or should a friend ask for me?

and do guys like it when friends ask for you?

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x0xVivaLaJeniix0x answered Tuesday September 20 2005, 5:51 pm:
no i personally think that if you ask a friend to ask for you it shows the boy your not confident enough to go up to him. which is kind of bad....so i suggest have a long conversation with him and then mention it but slowly
hope it helps

Jen<3

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Dakmor answered Sunday September 18 2005, 2:42 pm:
Haha, I was in the same exact situation! Except for I'm a guy. Thinking about the girl. What I did, was after she knew that I loved her for about a month, I started dreaming about her, and after I dreamt about asking her out, I knew it was time to ask her out in real life. So I e-mailed her =P Turned out, she just liked me as a friend, but that's not the point. Ask him out ASAP! Hope I helped, good luck!

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BumbleBee035 answered Sunday September 18 2005, 2:33 pm:
I'm not excatly sure if guys like it when your friends ask him out for you. My guess is it looks like you don't really like him if your friends ask him out for you. I'd ask him out after you have a good conversation with him. Make sure he's not distracted or busy or has any friends over. Sound as serious as can be.

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hollywoodpink answered Sunday September 18 2005, 1:35 pm:
From what i know guys hate it when girls have there friends ask them out for them.... I think you should ask him out online and just tell yourself that your going to regret it if you dont ask him.... Good luck!

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ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday September 18 2005, 1:16 pm:
Well im not a guy but i have plenty of male friends.. from what i can tell my male friends dont like it when a girl is really shy to come up and ask him out.. i think you should ask him out in person but if askin him over line is better then do that.. um start out with askin how relationships are going and ask if he likes anybody and then i would probably say that you like him more then friends and see what he says.. i wouldnt be too shy about this just be real with this guy.. &hearts; Dez

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orphans answered Sunday September 18 2005, 11:51 am:
you definently shouldn't get your friend to ask him out for you, because then that means that you're just scared to ask him yourself, and how would you like it if he got his friend to ask you out for him? if you do, then he might think of you as a coward, so you shoud ask him yourself. and it's better if you ask him face to face. just go up to him, start a conversation, then ask him out. but you should sorta be on that topic, because you don't wana just randomly ask him out. and if you're too scared to ask him out in person, then you should probably get to know him a little more and talk to him more until you're ready, because if you can't even ask him out in person, then how are you supposed to go out with him and not feel uncomfortable around him?
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xOxMaNdEex3 answered Sunday September 18 2005, 11:34 am:
umm definatley DO NOT have a friend ask for you... i would hate to have a guy have to have his friend ask for me... loll so don't do that! but also doing it online isnt the best either... he might take it the wrong way or think that its like a joke because people can joke a lot on the internet... so you probably should ask him face to face because its a lot sweeter and nicer and he'll think more of you if you ask him to his face... and if you get nervous just be cool and talk to him and flirt with him and then ask him! --hope i helped!

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shake answered Sunday September 18 2005, 11:28 am:
No. When a friend asks for them it means the person is a pussie and cant confront you face to face. Now how many guys want to go out with someone like that?

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LittlePip answered Sunday September 18 2005, 11:25 am:
"How did you guys get together?"

"Over the internet."

You don't want that to be you, do you? You should definately speak to him face to face.

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TexasChick1104 answered Sunday September 18 2005, 11:21 am:
First, no guys do not like it when friends ask. If you can't go up to him and ask him now then how will you guys talk in a relationship? Second, you shouldn't do it online. He might take it the wrong way, seeing it as a joke or something. Also, it is not personal enough. Trust me...if you ask him face to face it will go a lot better.

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