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help?!?!
okay... i have a boyfriend named john. but like the thing is that he lives in cleveland and i am texas. well... the other night to be exact on friday night i made out with my ex and then fucked him. it was my first time so it was only like 5 minutes b/c we had to take a break b/c it hurt so bad but then as soon as my cherry was popped we were done b/c it freaked him out b/c he felt it. i love my ex and i THINK i love john but i'm not sure.i know i love my ex but john i just don't know. what should i do?? i want to still be with john but i also want to be with my ex. i want to talk with john about it b/c it was one of those spur of hte moment things. john has also started talking about getting realyl serious like marriage serious and i am only 14! he is 17. btw... both guys are 17.
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Maybe you shouldnt've fucked a guy if you weren't ready.
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Right now- i think your desperate for love. i bet if you SAW john again and talked to him in reality- you would totally love him again.. [ thats what happened to me anyways :) ]
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No offense but thats kinda whorish. You cant have both of them. You have to choose between them, if I were you I would go for the one that treats you with more respect, john souldnt be talking about marriage, your just 14, if i were you I would choose my ex because you and him went through so much. Im just saying though, its your life i hope you make the right descision. Thanks, and I hope I helped.
~*Saylor*~
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Well you cant be with both of them you slut. And now that you boned your ex he's yours. If not you're 5x the slut you already are. If you ditch your ex now you're just a dirty little hooker. Not that you most likely arent to him now. He's probably just using you.
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first off your 14 (just like me) lol.. you got a lot of years to go be4 thinkin about marriage. you need to clear your head up. you need to sit down alone and think. (serious) you got to think of the positives and negatives about both of them. you got think of who treats you better?? who you want to be with. because if you think about it when you have a boyfriend it is basically sayin "do you see yourself with this guy in the future??" hope this advice helps you and good luck..
*~Stephanie~*
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