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hello! i am 13. im having my second child (i had my first when i was 11, her name is Amy). For my first baby, i told my parents and they were so happy! They felt stupid because they are going to be GRANDparents at 26 but i told them its not a big deal! So when i had Amy, it was totally natural! I felt so good and proud. The two of us have been living at my parents house for 2 years now. The father of my Amy, is now the father of Tommy, my bun in the oven! ;) I love him so much and he loves me. My parents love him too. He doesnt have any parents really. Well he does, but he runs away and stays away for a really long time. He is 11 right now. I think he should come live with me, amy and tommy! i havent brought it up with my parents yet though.
i thought it was the coolest thing that amy and her dad were so close in age, because they would probably be really close. Amys 2 and she can talk really well. She LOVES her dad and me.
my problem is, will Amy feel left out? will tommy not like his daddy or me? tommy's due date is tomorrow so for moms out there, you kno that my stomach is rubbing agenst the keyboard right now. but it feels good, i love pregnancy!
anyway, me and my boyfriend are geting married in one year. im so excited!
so just please answer my questions. thank you. sorry for the lenght. oh, tommy says thank you as well (he just kicked. . .twice!). oh and amy says hi as well! ;)
thanks again, bye!
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this isnt real, now way man your bf would of had to have been like 9 when he got ya knocked up the first time! most guys havent even begun peuberty! so this has to be a joke, convince me that its real! please i would love to know, now Im really curious.
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA YOURE SO STUPID!!!!!
This story made me crack-up real or fake. It just makes me laugh. You're such an idiot. You're going to live in a toy house for the rest of your life, youre going to have 9 kids & LIVE IN A TOY HOUSE HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH! Your boyfriend is 11 lmmmmmmmmfao!!!!!!!!!!
HHHHHHHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
Can this even be fucking possible? Your boyfriend must've been 8 whenever you had your first kid. DUMBASS!
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Is this a joke?
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I am going to try and answer as best as I can, although this is one of the questions that I am a bit shocked about, as it is really rare...
First, he definately should take up full time residence with you. He is the responsible father, and for any good parentage, he must constantly be there. Ask your parents.
Amy will feel left out, as all firstborn do. I felt left out when my sister was born, and it ALWAYS happens. To deal with this, you need to work on them both, making sure that they get close to equal attention. Naturally, give what's necassary to the second, but try to spend as much time as possible with Amy. If the child hates Tommy, it happens. Just let it be, as siblings do hate each other.
I don't like the idea of living in a playhouse because the children NEED a good enviorment. It may not supply the best enviorment in a playhouse, like it would be missing heat, quality of life, etc. It would be more like living in a Teepee...
And my advice on birth and the last days of pregnancy is to just remember that you should go on the medication to aide you, and any offered, as people have died without it.
-Steven
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i hate to sound rude, but i hope this is a joke.
if not, the best to you and mark and amy and tommy. i cant say i know what pregnancy is like so i cant help you there, no i dont think amy will feel left out. just make sure not to neglect or ignore her.
but yes i think it would be a good idea to have mark living with you and the kids, a baby shouldnt grow up barely seeing his/her daddy. so how does marks parents feel about this. as for the playhouse idea. if its big enough, its a good plan. it gives you a little independence, but still you have the option of going to your parents if something happens
best of luck to you during your pregnancy
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oh so you are 13 and had a baby? thats AWESOMEEE! yeah you should be buying a near by house lol
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