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I`m Desiree

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i`m 17 years old

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my boyfriend michael and me had been dating on and off for the past 4 months,, well he was very jealous of all the guys i hung out with when we first went out but then he got better and he didnt care anymore well we were talking online one day and he told me he was gunna go walk to his neighbors house kyla (a girl he dated last year and is dating one of my best guy friends) so they get online an hour early and this is what she said to me:

kyla: umm i wanted to let you know before we figured out from someone else.. um yeah me and michael made out
kyla: is that fine with you..? im really sorry...
kyla: it just happened..
kyla: :-(

--well it was all this huge joke,, kyla's friend was typing it, so me and him were gunna go to a movie and he was going to apoligize,, i ended up not being able to go and i called him like 10 times leaving him messages saying i couldnt go well he went to the movies i wasnt there he got really mad at me bc he thought i stood him up,, we ended up breaking up but i cant get over him he always stares at me some of my friends say he still likes me too i just dont know what to do

Deff. talk to him.. explain to him what happened about the movie thing.. If he has caller I.D tell him to check it and that`ll be proof you called him.. Also Tell him how you feel about the whole thing.. and how you miss him and everything.. ♥ Dez

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does anyone know how to get rid of love handles =/

Side crunches..** ♥ Dez

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how come when u drink soda too fast it burns ur throat

Well if you drink it cold that could be it..
It has alot of Caffeine in it and sugar and it has acid so that also could be it.. ♥ Dez

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does anybody know how to put spaces in their about me to space it out?

< BR >
< p > this one is for paragraphs like tho..

Put it together without spaces tho.. ♥ Dez

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I'm dating this girl. I'm really happy, and I love her very much. but theres this other girl that likes me, and she happens to be a close friend. She has a b/f and she's wants to dump this b/f for me. But how do I tell her I don't wanna be with her? I don't want her to get mad and stop being my friend.....idk....

Well i`d just be like.. i like you as a friend and i don`t want anything more you should remain with your boyfriend and i want to remain with my girlfriend.. I`m happy to be with her as her girlfriend and happy to have you as a friend.. I wouldn`t want anything to come between my friendship we have and i don`t want anything to come between my relationship with my girlfriend.. So i hope you can respect that and continue to be friends with me and not mad.. ♥ Dez

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I've been having a sore throat for about 3 days now... Is there any ways to make it go away? It feels like I'm always trying to clear my throat but I can't. Should I just drink a lot of water? I can't sleep because it feels like I can't breathe.

Tea and honey should help that.. hot tea!! ♥ Dez

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my parents are gay and my friends are not my friends any more because of it what do i do?

Wow those aren`t good friends then.. os i`d forget them and find some friends that will except the way your parents lifestyle is.. ♥ Dez

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okay, well .. the other day my boyfriend was hanging out with my EX & they were talking about me .. ( even though my EX`s new girlfriend was there ) but they were talking about how thier other friend lost his virginety .. & all the stuff .. but then they were like " oh was she shaven " & then they asked me EX if i was .. even though he never got in my pants .. but claims he did ( & i`m not mad that he talks about it .. i actually find it kinda funnyy ..)
mmkay, well, anyways.. i really don`t know where to shave.

so, i guess what i am asking is, where do i shave if i want to shave " down there "

mm, thanks. i rate high =]

SOme girls just trim that area..
Some shave it all.. So if thats what they perfer thats what you`d do.. Shave completely bald.. Or you could nair that area.. Waxing will hurt but thats your decision on whether to do that or not..

Here are some tips for shaving that area..
1..Shave with a new razor..
2..Shave with shaving cream,soap or conditionor..
3..shave downwards*the way the hair grows..You don`t want ingrown hairs or razor burn..
4..take your time shaving..
5..Use a non scented lotion or baby oil so it stays smooth.. and helps pervent gettin razor burn..
♥ Dez

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is it natural to have random phases of depressioin. not serious depression, just feel down for a while, and then just get better for no reason.

Yes this is normal.. ♥ Dez

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how bad is weed fa real? no bullshit.

Ummm it does the same as cigerettes do to your lungs.. and i guess kill brian cells.. But thats all i know.. ♥ Dez

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Ok for starters, here is some brief beackground information:
New Girl= Katelyn Everyone likes her (almost everyone). She dresses like a hooker *lol*. She has all the guys tied around her finger. And The worst thing yet. She sat in MY Lap! :|

I was sitting in Gym and the girl comes up to me and wrappes her arms around my neck and sits in my lap! So I said "Kayelyn I'm Not That Way!!" and She said "I'm not either!". So she got off. Then About a couple of minutes later she did it again. What can I tell this girl? I'm a GIRL! I'm Not Bi, or Lesbian I am STRAIT!!!

Sounds like she just wants you sexy ass.. Not really i mean my friends sit on my lap all the time that doesn`t mean she is bi.. and you probably added the she looks at porn thing so you can hear what she wants.. Just leave the girl alone and tell her not to sit on you if you don`t want her too.. ♥ Dez

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i weigh 200 pounds...and i'm 15 and a girl is that fat? ((this is serious))
please help♄

i dont want advice on how to lose the wieght, cause i didnt ask for that advice.i just want to know if that is seriously overweight.

Yea this serious.. ♥ Dez

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Hi my parents found out I look at porn and they said they knew it was normal and stuff. Does this mean I should stop watching it?

Well they didn`t tell you to stop.. So if you like watching it then i`d say no watch it.. ♥ Dez

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my friend just broke up with her boyfriend and me and him are really close but i do not know if i like him more than a friend he likes me and he wants to go out with me but i don;t know what to do please help me thanx confuse.

Well if you do like him more then just a friend i don`t think you should go with him.. I mean your friend just broke up with him that wouldn`t be very good to do to her.. You wouldn`t want her to go runnin to one of your ex boyfriends.. Just remain friends with him that way you don`t have drama.. And if later in the future you guys still like eachother then try to have something.. ♥ Dez

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ok im 13/f and i dont know if im bi or not cuz like sometime si catch myself wanting to "do" things with girls and like i think gurls bodies are cute or "hot" and when i was 12 a girl hit on me went to kiss me and i DIDNT back away...please i dont know if im a lesbien or if girls are just like this please help me i rate REALLY high..thanks so much!

this doesn`t mean your a lesbian..You might be bisexual hun..It sounds to me you are.. Since you find them attractive and you`d do sexual things with them.. If you only like girls and not attracted to guys in the way you are girls then Yea you might be a lesbian.. But experiment before makin that decison hun.. this can be normal also for girls to look at other girls like compare themselfs and kinda figure out whats wrong with our own bodies you could catch yourself doing that too.. ♥ Dez

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A few days ago I broke my dominant arm. Therefore, it is hard to dress. I can hardly button my pants buttons and it is annoy and somewhat painful to dress and undress as a whole. So does anyone know any *specific* items of clothing that will make life easier for me? Websites would be good too. Also, any jean skirts that dont have buttons? Thanks.

How about elastic pants so you can just pull them up No worries about buttons.. ♥ Dez

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Heres my proble im female and im 16 I hope you can help,so to make a long story short i fell for my best guy friend and he lead me on for like 6 months im crazy about him it got to the point where he has become me security blanket. i've been going through a really tough time in my life right now and hes been there for me i'd tell him i loved him and hed say i love too but he wouldnt date me and i asked if him it was okay that im so dependant on him, and he told me yes its fine im here for you etc. and just recently out of the blue he was like you call me too much, I cant be your security balnket anymore plus he met someone and basically he was like here ill give you some space get over me and like now we dont really talk hes ina erlationship with this new girl of his , im so hurt cause he just like left and he promise he'd always be there for me and he promised me alot of things but he did lead me ona nd now hes basically doesnt want anything to do with me and he told me left like he did because he got sick of being my friend and i know that, thats not really the main reason why its because of this new girl and i dont know im still in love with hima nd hes my best guy friend and im so confused and hes said oh im sorry a million times but i just cant forgive him a part of me wants to hate him so much but i jsut cant because i love him and he was the first guy ive ever fallen for and ive cried so much overhim and i just cant let go of him and accpet that he did what he did out of all the people i truey care about he walked out me just like my parents did, How can I get over him i need to so bad all he does is hurt me

I can`t tell you how to get over this guy.. But i think you guys both deff. need space.. Not to be mean but maybe your too dependant on this guy.. You should of gave him more space.. Just give him space ofr a couple weeks i know its hard but then give him a call and ask whats up maybe set a date to chill and hang out *maybe be even nice and let him bring his girlfriend* to get to know her and stuff not to be mean and have hate towards her.. You need to except that he doesn`t want more then friends and maybe he felt like he was on the spot when you told him that you loved him.. Yea he might of ment it as maybe friendly i don`t know but he wouldn`t of moved on so quick if he loved you more.. tryin to keep a bit busy might get your problems and this guy off your mind.. Sorry if i didn`t help much.. ♥ Dez

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easy 5's people!~~

does anyone know any good sites that have clothes. i want really different ones, sorta punk-ish. and if you know the name of a catalouge, that would be great too.
thx :D

Hot topic.. Journeys.. ♥ Dez

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if you get an ingrown hair can you pull it out yourself or do you have to go to a doctor

Just let it grow in some before actually shaing again.. ♥ Dez

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Recently I got my haircoloured (5 days ago) I opted for permanent dye. I got it coloured black btw. However, everytime I wash my hair the colour comes out. I wash my hair each day, and don't think this can be right. Should the colour be coming out 5 days after I got it done? Am I doing something wrong? Should I head back to the salon?

Thanks.

If the color doesn`t look lighter after it drys then your fine.. Usually after dyin your hair color comes out of it for a few days.. if it lightnes or something then Yes go to the salon.. ♥ Dez

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