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Question Posted Saturday December 10 2005, 2:33 pm

my parents are gay and my friends are not my friends any more because of it what do i do?

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ilovetohelp answered Tuesday December 13 2005, 4:39 pm:
well they are abviously not your friends if they dont except you for you and not for your parents actions.

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TWEETY_4LIFE answered Monday December 12 2005, 4:02 pm:
Well if they were your real friends they would except you and your family no matter what. I do not think there is anything wrong with them being gay it is there personal choice.You just move on and find better friends they do not deserve your wonderful friendship you deserve better!
Love Lisa

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MELiixMARiiE answered Sunday December 11 2005, 7:35 pm:
That is really dumb. I mean, if they're going to stop being your friend because your parents are gay, then they're really not being your friends at all because they'd like you no matter what and they'd like you for who you are. I would suggest finding some new friends who'll like you for you, and like your parents. Trust me, you don't want friends like that. I hope I helped.




Love,
Mel <3

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EvilCheshire answered Sunday December 11 2005, 12:41 am:
If your friends abandon you for that reason I'd forget about them. Someone who is that closed minded doesn't deserve to be in your life or deserve your friendship.

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MummuM answered Saturday December 10 2005, 5:42 pm:
Just because your parents are gay, doesn't give your friends the right to stop talking to you. Your friends should be friends with you because they like you. They shouldn't just ditch you because of your parents.


If they were your true friends, they'd still be by your side. But this shows, that they aren't good friends, at all. I suggest finding better friends, sweetie. Ones that will like you for who you are, not for who your parents are. &hearts;

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lesbian answered Saturday December 10 2005, 5:34 pm:
Trust me, they are not worth it. Don't do anything but pity them for being so closed minded.

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icey0990 answered Saturday December 10 2005, 5:19 pm:
honestly there is nothing for you to do sweetie. if your friends ditcheed you just because you have gay parents, then they werent true friends at all. Nothing worse than fake friends ..so what you do is just hold your head up high and find true friends. true friends are priceless

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AimeeAnn92 answered Saturday December 10 2005, 5:16 pm:
friends arent real if they do that.
thats the stupidest effing thing.
if yer parents are gay.. then yer friends need to be there for you.. not NOT be yer friend.
thats juss stupid.

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KiSSxMYxPEARLS answered Saturday December 10 2005, 5:03 pm:
Find better friends. You shouldn't care what your friends think of your parents. Who gives a crap if they're gay. They are happy. So i really do suggest finding some new friends. Those friends of yours are so stupid for leaving you just because of that.



&hearts;

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sizzlinmandolin answered Saturday December 10 2005, 4:57 pm:
I think that your friends were just surprised and a little scared when they found out. A lot of people don't understand homosexuality. Your friends probably think that your parent's homosexuality rubbed off on you or something silly like that. I think what you should do is give them a little time. People that weren't reaised around gay or lesbian people just don't understand and they often have a hard time accepting it. If they don't come around after a few weeks you should try talking to them about it. Tell them you miss them and that just because they know that your parents are gay doesn't change who you are, and the great memories that you've had with your friends. This is a really hard situation to go through, but I think your friends will come around in the end. I hope everything works out for you and good luck! <3

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ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday December 10 2005, 3:48 pm:
Wow those aren`t good friends then.. os i`d forget them and find some friends that will except the way your parents lifestyle is.. &hearts; Dez

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xxoBriannax answered Saturday December 10 2005, 3:46 pm:
Wow, that's really shallow of them. You don't need people like that in your life anyway. Try to make new friends. Or, if you really want those friends back, talk to them. Tell them it's not your fault your parents are gay.

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iiloveyou answered Saturday December 10 2005, 2:52 pm:
obviously your friends are not the type of friends that people want around . so go get some new ones and start with a clean slate !!

xoo hope this helps !! &hearts;

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karenR answered Saturday December 10 2005, 2:50 pm:
Find new friends.

Sorry to say the ones you have now aren't very good friends. True friends wouldn't give 2 hoots about what your parents do.

It is to bad that people have to be such morons, but there are still some simple minded people out there.

There are also some out there who are smart. Go find those people and make friends with them. :)

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