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I'm dating this girl. I'm really happy, and I love her very much. but theres this other girl that likes me, and she happens to be a close friend. She has a b/f and she's wants to dump this b/f for me. But how do I tell her I don't wanna be with her? I don't want her to get mad and stop being my friend.....idk....
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just let her know. if she`s truly a close friend she`ll understand
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just tell her that she shouldn't dump him for you. tell her you like her as a friend right now and you really like your current girlfriend. just tell her the truth i guess. if she is a close friend she should understand. if she is a little mad or feels awkward..it will pass eventually.
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just tell her you like being her friend more! if she is a good friend she'll feel the same way.
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well, if she is really a good friend of yours she will understand how you feel and not get mad at you..tell her that it would be better as close friends and that you really like the girl you are going out with
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She shouldn't stop being your friend if you simply say you don't have those feelings for her. Definitely say it and make it be known so nothing bad gets back to your gf.
good luck ♥
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just tell her that you have the most wonderful girlfriend and you're sorry and all but right now is my time with my girl and i think that its best for us to just stay as friends ..
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
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Just sit her down and tell her that you do love her just not in the same way that she loves you. Tell her that she should stay with her boyfriend and you think that they can go far. She will be hurt and things may be akward at first but just keep reminding her you do love her, just more as a friend than anything else. You can also tell her that if you guys did go out, things could get really messy after the relationship. It will all work out fine. Good luck!
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Nicely talk to her and explain to her that you have a girlfriend that you are happy with and love. And that her breaking up with her boyfriend would not be right. If she gets upset with you it will prob only be for a little while if shes really a close and understanding friend.
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well you should just tell your friends nicely that you already like someone else. if she gets mad at you, it wiull probably pass over in a while. try to be really nice to her and talk to her, just dont give her any romantic hints. just be friends.
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Well you are going to have to tell her, or else you will be leading her on. Just tell her that you are in a very happy relationship right now and she doesn't need to dump her boyfriend. You can also tell her that you just want to be friends with her. I don't know how else to tell her without just telling her, good luck.
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Well i`d just be like.. i like you as a friend and i don`t want anything more you should remain with your boyfriend and i want to remain with my girlfriend.. I`m happy to be with her as her girlfriend and happy to have you as a friend.. I wouldn`t want anything to come between my friendship we have and i don`t want anything to come between my relationship with my girlfriend.. So i hope you can respect that and continue to be friends with me and not mad.. ♥ Dez
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Well, first off, let me applaud you on your decision. Do you know how many guys would dump their current girlfriend just for a change? That was very wise of you. If you have been leading the second girl on and making her feel like you'd dump your girlfriend for her, then no, she probably wont be your friend anymore. If you just acknowledged that she liked you and she took it into her own hands to point out she's going to dump her boyfriend, then she might understand why you feel the way you feel. Tell her that you love your girlfriend. That should be enough, but if this girl is persistent then let her know that you wouldn't be able to date someone else for a while after you dumped your current girlfriend. I mean, because in my mind dumping someone for someone else is as close to cheating besides cheating.
-tekcoreht
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Same thing is happening to me but just other way around being im the girl that likes the guy who is dating a girl and I have a boyfriend. Anyway just say "I really like you as a friend but Im seeing someone now I really hope you want to be my friend" easy as that. She will be sad (I was) but she will get over it
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u juss need to tell her how you feel. i don't think she'll get mad at you, because she likes you & plus she probably wants to be your friend, even if you guys can't date. i think that you definately need to tell her so that she knows & you don't want your gf getting upset over it, er mad because you won't tell the girl that likes you that you don't like her, that you like your gf. juss explain everything to her.
-hope that helped!♥
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