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Q: How can you get rid of a sore throat by Saturday? Or at least some methods to make it feel better for that day.

I woke up with one today, and I am going to Six Flags with my class.

Thank you in advance.

Drink lots of hot tea, and gargle warm salt water.
It helps a real lot!

Q: does anyone know a hard rock song with the lyrics that go something like "does your body move with your eyes, because youd walk straight through me" or something like that? it sounded like hard rock aah and i can't think of the exact lyrics but it was something like that

yep, it's Paralyzer by Finger Eleven.
Good song! =)

Q: I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and I thought it was what I really wanted to do. But now today I missed him sooo much and I wanted to get back together with him. This was my first realy boyfriend. Will the feeling pass? What should I do to get rid of it?

Well, I just want to let you know that this is all perfectly normal. You're going to feel like this, but the only thing that can real heal the, "pain" is time. What you should do is try to be friends with him, but start hanging out with your girl friends now. Try flirting with some boys, but just in a friendly way to keep your mind off of him. Maybe try a new sport out, or find something to do that interests you.

Good luck.

Q: Well When we came home from shcool my brother went into hsi room and when he came back out he asked who broke his MP3.

It has huge cracks on it on the clear glass part but still works.

I was wondering, can an MP3 player just maybe explode on its own if you use it too many times?

Or was it maybe my mom while she was cleaning or something and lied when my brother asked her?

No, it can't just explode on it's own. Someone probably accidentally dropped it, and it broke.

Q: ok, so, im 13/f and i have dark brown hair. i also have bangs that i wanna dye bright red, but i cant seem to find a good brand of hair bleach to start off with, and i know that if i dont bleach my bangs first, then the color wont look right. Does anyone know where i can get a good brand of hair bleach thats not too expensive??? like, around $20-$25ish? thanks for whoever replies. ^_^

Sally's has good bleach kits for like 7 dollars.

Q: Alright, so I started stretching my ears just this past sunday. I started at a 20 and bought 16 and 14 gauge earrings from spencers. The 16's went it like nothing, so I tried to put in the 14's. They went in a little tighter, but it didn't hurt at all, bleed,or anything. It's been a couple of days now, and I know normally you're supossed to wait like a week or two before you put new ones in, but I can move it around freely cause i play with the ring a lot. Is it alright if I gauge up another size like today or tomorrow? Oh yeah and what size is it once you go past your ears don't close up anymore?

I gauge myself, and have 2's.

I recommend waiting a few more days. Let your ears get used to it. Plus, if you don't let them heal, (which is why they say wait a week or so) they'll smell REALLY bad, and believe me, you don't want them to smell.

Q: I just got a first base mit for fastpitch. i put mit oil on it and rapped a ball inside it to get the shape. but it's not doing anything. i can't get it broke in. any other suggestions??

Try putting the ball in it, and put it under your mattress for a couple nights.

Q: How do you get rid of a bulge or lump or whatever its called in your stomach??

And how do we even get them anyways??

Thankss

I have it too! If you mean like a "tumor" kinda thing! Mines like cylinder shaped. i hate ittt. Don't rate, i just wanted you to know you're not the only one!

Q: what is friends with benefits?? and also what is a dildo??
thanks

Search both words on www.urbandictionary.com, so we don't have any inappropriate answers.

If you need to know what any other words of that sort mean, always use Urban Dictionary.

Hope I helped.

Q: how can you tell your pregnant are there any early early signs?

http://coolnurse.com/pregnancy.htm

Q: My boyfriend and I have been going together for 8 months now, and we have had our 1st fight. He wouldn't go to a party with me which I really wanted him to go to, and he still hasn't called or emailed me. What do you think I should do?

I think you should just give him his space for a little bit. Don't crowd him. Talk to him later or tomorrow and let him know you're sorry. Don't be afraid to have fights though, it'll only make your relationship stronger. =)

Q: He is just not good in bed anymore. He doesn't do foreplay anymore, and he cums in nearly a minute and then he is done. I need help and quick! How can I get him to take more time and get more intimate. I am sick of the quickies!

http://www.infosex.com/

This site has lots and lots of info on sex, and how to keep it going longer!

Q: What's a comeback I can say to someone who said YOUR MOM? And if it's a comeback that I won't get in trouble by the teacher, could you write it in captials? thanks

Just be like

"Ok what about her?"

then wait a couple seconds and just be like, "Mhm, that's what I thought."

Or, you can kill the joke, saying "YEAH, WELL YOUR DADS LITTLE SISTERS COUSINS DOG" or something like that, then laugh after it.

Q: Can anyone thats spanish please translate this to me
Tengo los sentimientos para usted, en los días que hablamos, tengo thought acerca de usted

usted ganga??

If you need future help with translating, try http://www.freetranslation.com

Q: I found this thing on fastpitchsoftball.com. It says it's a "Power Pad." It is made by Easton. I wanna know if it is a training thing or is it a thing you use in a game? What exactly is it used for? I have read it, but I still want to know more about it and I have never heard of them. But are they legal to use in a game?

Here's the link:
http://www.fastpitchsoftball.com/store/fastpitch-softball-details-a162767.html

Hmm, I don't think that it's illegal, just tell people it's for the sting you get when you hit the ball. I mean, it's pretty much to help you keep control of the bat; so I think it's harmless, and if they tell you to take it off, then it won't be a big deal.

Q: I heard from someone that If You are 15 or 16 years of Age Then your breasts will probably not grow more or They might stay the same size..Is that trueE?? i do not belive its true because i think its the age where they Just start to develope and i dont belive it cuts off at those ages..I hope not because i think my need growing lol

That's not true at all. I think girls stop growing between 18-21, but I'm not 100% positive on that.

Q: what are the pregnancy syntoms ? QUICK !

http://coolnurse.com/pregnancy.htm

Q: When giving a blow job, and then your partner cums in your mouth. Is it normal to feel crappy after that? Is there any way you can get sick from that? Is there a chance to get and STD? Is the cum any good for you and your body? Jus kinda cerious! thanks! :)

To add to both responses, sperm is a good source of protein. So in a sense, it's good for you.

Q: How does it work like how much do they usually pay for a clothing item? I have a lot of clothes I can't fit into anymore because I lost a lot of weight and they are all from Aeropostale. If you have ever been there, what brands did you bring, how many did you bring, and how much you got for them. Thanks in advance.

I don't know about Platos, but if they don't pay well like the person below me stated, try Goodwill.

Q: my boyfriend and i have been having sex for over six months now, but it doesn't seem as pleasant when he uses a condom. Does anyone have any solutions as to other things we could use for protection instead?

There's nothing else you can use really. Unless you use the female condom, but it won't be so pleasant for you.

I mean, you can just not use one, but then possibly get an STD or get pregnant.

I can guarantee you rather it not be as pleasant rather than get an STD or have a baby.

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