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i want to bleach my teeth..but i dont know how....do you litterly take bleach to your teeth? can someone explain this for me, thank you.
NO, absolutely not. When people 'bleach' their teeth they're talking about usually using
OPTION ONE: crest white strips which is the BEST tooth whitener you can get in the drugstores, such as wal-mar,walgreens, etc. They cost about $30 bucks each.
OPTION 2: you can get toothpaste that says 'tooth whitening' getting the white toothpaste works best. You can use this while using the crest white strips at best. http://www.whitestrips.com/en_US/home.jsp
OPTION 3: The costs may vary but this is a GAURANTEED and FASTEST way of your teeth being SUPER white in minutes. Is to get it professionally done by a dentist. They use special bleaches USED FOR TEETH ONLY to put on your teeth and it whitens your teeth in just minutes, which is what I'm getting in a few weeks.
Like the other person said before me, try to not drink, chew,or smoke anything that will stain your teeth like coffee especially. And smoking or anything like that.
Hope I helped.
I have been dating my girlfriend for two years in October. She is the most amazing girl i have ever met and about 7 months ago i gave her a promise ring and i know she is the girl i want to spend the rest of my life with. Sometimes we get into little fights and blow them way out of proportion. About a month ago we had one of these fights and she wouldn't come to a party with me that night. At that party, i got pretty drunk and slept with a girl from another school. I didn't tell her about it and everything seemed like it was fine until this girl i slept with showed up at my baseball game and just so happens to sit down next to my girl friend and her best friend without knowing it was them. They start talking and pretty soon Becca, the girl from the party, has to go so she asks my girl friend if she could give me a ring back that i had left at her house (the promise rings we gave each other) of course my girlfriend gets curious why this girl has my ring and so she asks becca about it and she told her the whole thing. After the game my girlfriend brought the ring up to me and said that my "little friend Becca" thought i would want it back and asked her to give it to me. I was totallly shocked and had no idea even what to say. She broke it off right then and there. I need to find some way to make it up to her. She is the love of my life and i totally regret what i did but she won't even talk to me which is really awkward since i am at her house all the time since her brothers are my best friends and her dad is my football coach. How can i get her back?
Well first off, she needs some time to cool off. If you're all up in her face after it happened, and ranting to her brothers about it she'll never give you a chance. So when you're at home and NOT at her house call her up, and leave a voice message for her. The best thing to do first is to admit you were wrong for doing that, & on a side note DON'T blame it all on drinking,you should know you're responsible for your own actions, she knows it and any girl would know it. Also,add in a little MORE emotion by saying that you're not the same without her, and how it would be like without her. And be COMPLETLEY HONEST, don't leave stuff out, (that still is considered lying) there is NOTHING a girl hates the most than to be lied to. And after that, take a breather and take a break from going to her house (even though her brothers are your best friends) for awhile until SHE comes to you.
During that time period, she IS thinking about you, not doubt about it and she still loves you. She just needs time to cool off from it all. While you're taking time from her, and waiting, try buying her a gift (it doesn't have to be expensive) just let it come straight from the heart. And leave it on her doorstep or have it delivered to her. Or to stay on her familys good side ESPECIALLY her dad try talking to her dad or send him a gift too and apologize (only if you mean it).
And when she does decide to talk to you (which I'm sure she will she can't just leave it after 2 yrs?!), be ready to communicate with her and be honest and let her know what has been on your mind the past couple days without her and ask her about her concerns about the situation. Let her talk, and just LISTEN thats the best thing you can do. Show her you care, but DON'T go overboard like on your knees like , she laugh in your face.
NEVER repeat what you did to her or cheat on her, you don't have to say blah and "I'll never do it again" your actions, NOT doing it, is the key. ACTIONS do speak LOUDER than words. So SHOW HER that you've changed and be the guy that shes always loved.
These are the BEST strategies you can do to win her back, but it's no gaurantee it will happen. Some girls when they get cheated on (esp. if you've slept with another girl) they're gonna move on. It'll take them awhile, cause they will still think about you but they will move on some faster than others. And some girls say "Once a cheater always a cheater" , try to prove these girls wrong. And if a relationship can go on for a good 2 yrs. maybe she'll give you some leeway and a 2nd chance, once that 2nd chance is granted STAY WITH IT, don't do it again. Everyone deserves 2nd chances but 3rd and 4ths are not possible. So prove you DESERVE this sexond chance to her. Sorry so long and hope this helps!
I'm 15 and I've had boyfriends,but all my realtionships turned out not so great.I have kind of bad anac and zero conidfence, but I do a really good job of not showing it to people which can be hard sometimes when I'm down.I never think I can get the popular,jock,smart guys that i like. When I do try they either look away or pay no attention to me, and I know it has to be because of my anac.why else would those type of guys act that way, unless they have a girlfriend of course. How can I get them to see that I'm a great girl worth dating.
Put yourself first. Learn how to love yourself first, and trust me, if you learn to love yourself first you're gaining self-confidence that way.
You're starting to sound like you don't have anything time for youself and sound desperate. Guys don't like girls who sound desperate. Make time for OTHER things. Be involved in a sport or activity. Don't make your life revolved around guys. So try taking a break from it ALL to get re-energized.
1) ALWAYS put yourself 1st (but God is 1st if you believe) so look to your inner spirituality. Do everthing just FOR YOU and ONLY YOU for once and not live up to what everybody else will thinks. Everybody has flwas but don't look ay your flaws ONLY YOU see them, and people only notice is if YOU point them out. So try not to pt. that out to everyone.
2)Hang with your girlfriends, usually you'll have something to talk about than JUST guys. Ther is other stuff thats happening in the world.
3)Don't look at EVERY guy as a guy to date, look to him as a friend. People have standards, but its better if you don't look at them, because if you do you're only limiting yourself available to the incredibly handsome to-good-to-be- true type guys. And MOST of those guys can be real snobs, so even if a guy isn't gorgeous and you don't like, don't be stuck-up and ignore him, talk to him he could end up being a really good guy friend to you that you can go to get guy advice for. If you can be that way to ANY guy, then I'm sure that guy will brag about you about what a great girl you are, and just being a friend makes him feel better.And before you know it guys will look to you, and asking for your number!
For EVERY PAST RELATIONSHIP: Just take a look at it this way, each relationship that you have been in (even though it turned out not so great) can prepare you for your next relationship. Whatever has happened in your previous relationships you can use that relationship to make any of your current relationship to make it better.
And if a guy can't see what a great girl you (w/ I'm sure you are) then its his loss and he's a jackass anyways. A guy who sees it should be the guy who wins your heart. Hope I helped, and sorry so long.
14/f
ok my parents are way too over protective!!
but anyway, they put parental controls on the tv and blocked MTV and VH1, even though im going in to highschool now!!
is this unreasonable? and does anyone else's parents do this??
i really wanna know so i can stop being so mad about it and stop feeling so annoyed about my parents cause its really getting on my last nerve lol.
thanks!!
When I was litte, I was not allowed to watch MTV. Even some the celebs that are in hollywood today said their parents wouldn't let them watch MTV as a kid because they simply thought that some of the behavior on MTV was crude and inappropiate for their kids to watch.
So just take a minute look at it from your parents perspective. On MTV or VH1 there is cussing, nudity, sexual content (that is blocked out for tv) but your parents are probably afraid that you'll pick up any of that behavior, so they block that. Most parents who do this block anything that has cussing even though it is bleated out, you can still read lips.
My parents put a block on any of the shows or movies on tv that have a rating MA or Rated R.
But I ask, and they unblocked it. So try reasoning with them and tell them you won't pick any of that behavior from the t.v.
Your parents will lose their trust in you if they figure you do pick of that behavior such as (cussing ) they would then blame themselves and the t.v. for letting you watch that. They DON'T want to blame themselves for your bad behavior. (Even though I'm sure you haven't had any) So thats the reason why the block it out.
Take it maturely when you talk to him, DON'T yell or show that you'r angry, if you do, you're just letting your parents know how immature you are, and they won't take you seriously. So try reasoning with them, see if that helps, hope I helped, and sorry so long!
well school is about to start, and everytime i think about it, i get all excited and i get this weird feeling in my sthomach, why do i always get that feelings?
You're just anxious. School is starting again, and you're usually anxious about how you being put in a new grade feels. You're anxious to see your friends that you haven't seen all summer and wonder if they changed, how they look, and their attitudes. You wonder, will it be the same or diffrent this time? It's usually diffrent, and it takes awhile to get used to (like a week or two) then you'll get used to it. Everybody has that feeling (even though some others won't admit it), even me, I'm anxious about starting school next week but I know I'll get over those feelings. Don't worry you're not the only one getting those feelings. :) Hope I helped. :)
well, the other night i was masturbating with this new dildo, but it was VERY thin. it went up a good 5-6 inches, and since im still a virgin, wouldn't i have felt my cherry being pop? how far up is your hymen, and does it always pop? i use tampons, but im not a very active person. thanks!
You can't always tell your hymens steched just by looking at it or feeling it. Some girls feel the pain, some don't. Usually, (but it doesn't happen often) a girls cherry will pop during sexual intercourse, and there is bleeding involved but it doesn't always happen the first time. People who masturbate or use tampons,ride a bike, can stretch their hymens in any of these ways but some girls don't feel it and you can't always tell. Hope I helped.
okay. so i have a physical on Tuesday, tomorrow. and i smoked pot on Friday and Saturday day nights. and i have know effing clue waht to do. cuz they will like make me pee in a cup right? oh btw im 14 and a girl. im not a pothead. it was only my second and third time.. but neways please help i have no clue what to do. my friend is telling me to drink bleach cuz it'll clear my system but im scared! pleaseeeeeeeeee please please help :[
I've never smoked pot personally, but I've learned from my friends that weed, can stay in your system forever! But before they took a physical drinking LOTS of water said helped. When you smoke weed it can stay in your hair folicles for a lifetime. But rarely people do hair tests. If you are going in for a blood test your'e more than likely screwed cause they'll find anything known to man in your blood. If you are doing a urine test there are agents that work to trace the elements in the drugs you are taking.
Hope I helped.
15/f.
I have never made out. I know its sad, im old! :P But whenever I just peck a guy he tries to stick his damn toungue in my mouth. And I back away like noo! I would love to just go and makeout with the world, but I am worried I will make a complete fool of myself and then like the guys will be like wow what a loser haha. I know it comes natural, but when I'm about to makeout with someone I just get all weirded out and freaked, even with a guy I am seriously attracted to! It makes me sad when I can't just go out and have fun and kiss the cute guy I'm hanging with haha! Plus I want to actually have a boyfriend, and when guys ask me out I turn them out, because its weird to date someone without making out or doing anything. My last boyfriend all we did was hug and peck haha. What would help me not be so nervous and just do it already?! Also, after I get the hang of that, say I'm in a relationship..well I am NOT giving it up to some guy I'm dating, thats for marriage. But will the guy like leave me if the only thing we do it makeout, like not even bj or hj or any of that stuff? I would think most guys would at least want more than kissing.. :/
Thanks so much sorry its long I appreciate everyones answers and for reading all this!
Well usually when we're ready to kiss someone, people ARE nervous even though people say they aren't that's a lie. Theres not a thing you can do about that, you just have to settle for it, after you do it a couple times you'll get used to it, and those butterflies go away trust me. And sweetheart if a guy says he will leave you or leaves you just because you wouldn't give it up, he doesn't like you, he's just looking for a piece of a__.
If he doesn't respect you for what you stand for, then he's not worth your time. Don't EVER waste time on a guy like that. Always have respect for yourself, and let that be known. And if a guy says he'll respect you, and says he can wait, then that IS the type of guy ANY girl should go for. Some girls give in to pressure because that is the guy they like but just stand up for yourself, let him know you have respect for yourself.
Yes, MOST guys are like that, but not all. Theres some out there, it just takes time to find one. And if a guy tries to push you into more than kissing, let him know. But sometimes, some guys when you're kissing, they don't know how to push the brakes. So before you kiss a guy let him know where you stand, and see how he reacts and if he blows you off because of it, thats his issue. "You always want what you can't have". You'll feel better, at least you know you've saved yourself from heartbreak, and any thing you'll regret. You want a guy to get to know YOU NOT your body.
If you're making out, stop before you get all hot and heavy. Try this technique: Make an excuse, ex: "I have to go to the bathroom or " Sorry, but I have to meet a friend and I promised her, I would meet her" Or if you have a cell, have your friend call you. See if that helps.
Plus, you're a good role model for the girls your age out there. People are having sex younger and younger these days. And one person, you is a start of a diffrence. Also, think of this,girld who leave themselves open for any guy, guys actually think its sleazy. EVEN if they're the ones who ask for it. Guys look for a girl to hook-up with and see whos the easy target. But thats not the type of girl a guy would like to take home to meet his mommy. Or someone they would date. So you're a good example of a girl a guy WOULD like to date. Not someone who's easy.
Sorry so long, and take care!
ok...this is kinda lame...but whatever...I really like this kid that has been my friend for a while...and I haven't had my first kiss yet...I really want it with him...but its like he doesnt notice that I like him...how do I get him to notice that I really do like him?? and what do I do after he notices this??Thanks for the help...
For the guys answering...What would make you notice a girl that has been your friend for a long time??
Some guys don't pick up the hint that you like them. So even if you are shy, if you really want him to notice, you're going to have to take the initiative to go up to him first. Having confidence is key on getting noticed, also being outgoing.
SHY MOVE: Make eye contact with the guy, and smile. That's the #1 initial start to get the guy to notice you. And there's nothing a guy likes better than to see you smile at him. That may break the ice and get yall talking.
Get to know him first, its best if you start as friends cause you may never know, he may not turn out to be the guy you'd thought he would be.
When yall get to know each other, give it a go.
Ask him where would yall stand at this moment.
Try to find out what he loves to do.
BOLD MOVE: Sit next to him, (but don't go up to him when he's talking with his boys thats #1 rule!), introduce yourself, and ask what's up. (Don't come on too strong, or he'll stray away from you!) Take that to start a conversation.
Talk about something you know he likes, but make sure you like it too (you don't want to be fake) . Act natural, be yourself.
But NEVER let a guy know how much you really like him by telling your friends and telling him, because that can kind of scare him and it leaves you to only look really desperate for him.
If a guy notices you, then he deserves you. If he rejects you, then move on, or accept him as a friend, maybe he'd be better off as a friend anyway.
You'll never know how this is going to turn out until you try, and its NO GAURANTEE that he'll be your 1st kiss. There IS other guys out there, even if this guy SEEMS like hes "THE ONE". Yo don't know if he's a jerk off. So get to know a guy for he really is before you think about kissing them.
Sometimes, a girls 1st kiss doesn't always end up with the person they REALLY wanted to kiss in the 1st place. It just happened cause you wanted it. But usually a persons 1st time for anything in romance should be special.
If a guy wants to kiss you, you'll know, he'll sit next to you, leans in close. Kissing comes naturally and you'll get better at it. Or you can ask him for it, guys always like girls who make the 1st move, so don't be afraid. (Be sure you know he likes you though).
Hope I helped ,and sorry so long! I just wanted to help you out! ♥
17/f
what are some ways to play hard to get? the only problem is, the guy that i like is going away to college so i can only text him or use the computer to talk to him...but when we hang out with our friends we're always right next to each other and cuddle and stuff. how do i play hard to get so that he sorta has to do the chasing? i guess it could sound mean but it's not supposed to be, i just don't want to seem like i'm that easy of a catch since i do already like him.. thanks!
When you're together again, don't sit close to him. EX: A couch, sit on the FAR end of couch. He'll wonder whats up, and it makes him want you more.
Texting, IM ing: if you text him first and then he answers, then asks another question, don't reply back,or take some time to reply back this REALLY makes him wonder.
On the phone:If he calls you, then let it go straight to the voicemail see if he leaves a message. Or if you have his # he'll wonder why you haven't called. You've already have plenty of chances, but guys do like girls who don't look to availabe. "You always want what you can't have" Keep him guessing, don't tell him what your plans for the night are. When he comes close to you pull away, tease him a little.
most guys like the thrill of the chase, but don't play on it too much, some guys will get ticked off and move on if you play too much.he'll chase after you then you'll know for sure he likes you. Some guys like the thrill of
Hope I helped. ♥
What is diamond from crime mobs real name?
Brittany Nicole
Hope I helped.
is tyra completely black? why is her skin color so light?
She is 100% black. Her skin color is light by one of two reasons:
Make-up- that is light that makes her appear lighter.
She got her skin lightened. Some african-american stars have gotten they're skin lightened. Ex: Michael Jackson. Hope I helped.
14f.
i'm leaving for vacation in a couple hours, so anyone who can answer, i'd really appreciate it.
but, i just got my period today and we're going to the beach so.. i was just wondering.. whenever i put a tampon in, it feels like it's going to fall out. is it even possible for it to fall out?
thankss.
It could be it has to do with the size of the tampon. Make sure you use the correct tampon based on your absorbancy. There is Super,Regular, & Lite. If your blood flow is heavy use tampons that is SUPER. If it is regular, use regular. But other than that, your tampon shouldn't fall out if you did put it in correctly. Make sure you put it in correctly, that maybe the problem. Hope I helped :)
Okay so I've read that the guy MUST wear a condom while receiving a blow job... WHY??
aRnt condoms to prevent pregnancy??
f\15
To prevent from infected with any other diseases or viruses. There is other diseases even when performing oral sex. The diseases include, genital warts, syphillus,STI (sexually transmitted infections, giving or recieving oral sex, Chlamydia. Those diseases you can recieve if you don't use a condom having oral sex.
Warning: explicit but true.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genital_wart
So wear a condom, itll do you some good. :)
Hope I helped.
My boyfriend (who i loovee :D) his friend always gives me evils everytime he sees me and i dont know what his problem is with me i talked to my bf about and he said "Its ok ignore him" and smiled at me and i smiled back cuz i know he gives the right advice whenever i need it and i know that hes right but his friends been bugging me for ages and im not like a really nasty person when we get along were really good friends but when hes in a mood i feel like ive done something wrong...Anyway should i ignore it or get on with my life and take my bfs advice!
Confused_Friend_Situations xox
Your dating you boyfriend not his friends, they're jealous. When a guy has a girlfriend, they're afraid of his time being with you is taking away time being with them. If some the guys are single, they don't like to reminded that they are. So if you want to savor this relationship you may want to set-up days where he can be alone with his boys.
Couples aren't supposed to around each other all the time, you'll both get tired of it. And when he has his night out with the boys you can plan a night with your girls, so it will be even. And make sure when you both go out on your own, make sure you set some ground rules between the two of you. Ex: No lap dancing, no kissing, hugging. Etc. those kind of things. But trust is always an important in a relationship. So if you really trust each other, you can can count on them not to do those things to destroy the relationship.
Usually when a couple divides they're time spent together, it will work out. There is less jealously issues, fights. Etc.
Or you can attempt to get to know the guys. See if they open up, and if they don't at least you tried. Or ask his friends, why they don't like you or is giving you dirty looks.
OR they see things outside of the relationship that you can't see when you are in the relationship. They may have found something about you, like a rumor, seek it.
All in all, its not your fault, yo seem like a nice person. It may be hard to ignore sometimes, but just do it. Soon they should leave you two alone and forget about it.
Sorry so long, hope I helped, if any, good luck! ♥
i just got braces and my question isss..can i french kiss my boyfriend with them?! tips would be appreciated haha.
thx :)
Yes you can. The kissing with braces and it getting caught in his mouth is a total myth.
I had braces myself, and made out with a guy.
It does not interfere with kissing at all.
So put on some lip gloss and pucker up for a kiss! :) Hope I helped.
HI,,
I really really like this guy, and he says he likes me too,, but he likes my friend,, and my friend doesnt know i like him. We have been getting on really well, and i love him, and he says he does too, but because he likes the friend of mine aswel, and my friend like him, i am stuck in the middle, and i have no idea how to sort it! I would love to be with him more than anything, but how do i tell my friend i like him??
PLEASE HELP!!
ANNA =]]
This guy seems immature and indecisive.
Be careful he may be playing you too both.
Some guys like it when two girls fight over them. They're living a fantasy.
So ask yourself these questions:
Do you really like this guy if he likes my friend too?
What's more important, trying to achieve a relationship with this guy, or your relationship between you and your friend?
Let him take intiative, see who he comes to first. He can't have you both thats crazy.
But in my opinion this guy doesn't fit in for both of yalls time. Look at it this way, if he takes initiative and decides to go with ONE of you. Then likely this "romance" is gonna burn out like a candle in the wind. It's gonna burn rather quickly. So there is a pretty slim chance that a relationship with him will be long lasting. Its a love vs. lust. kind of thing, and in this situation, it seems that lust is the only thing thats taking the role on all of you.
Friendships can last a lifetime. Whats more important to you?
I say savor the friendship and drop the guy. You both don't need a guy that favors you both. You'll both find someone thats worth while, it'll come when you least expect it. Hope I helped.
he broke up 2 times in 6 months, first he broke up with me because he HEARD a rumor that i wanted to break up with him but she couldnt so he broke up with her, so when he found out it wasnt true that i wanted to brake up with him so wegot back together and 2nd time was he broke up with me again because he doesnt have feelings for me because he liked someone else when we were going out but he didnt wanna tell me because he was scared that im gonna hate him, but after that we still talk to each other a lot and he asked me if i had feelings for him and i said yes and he did too and he asked me out after that but then he said he wants to keep the relationship a secret because he didnt want people to know and its annoying when people asks about it so what does it mean if your boyfriend wants to keep the relationship a secret?
If your boyfriend wants to keep the relationship secret he isn't really worth your time. Any relationship at all shouldn't be kept in the dark, if it is then he's most cerainly hiding something from you.
WHAT IT COULD BE: He wants to keep the relationship secret for any of these reasons.
A) He could be dating someone else behind you back.
B)He's actually ashamed of you, and thinks of how his friends or other people will react to with yall being together.
You may be head-over-heels but he really isn't worth your time. He's wasting your time. You already stated that he said: " He doesnt have feelings for me because he liked someone else".
Honey,he doesn't like you, he's using you.
Trying to keep this relationship quiet just for him, you're just setting yourself up to get hurt. Don't let him have his cake and eat it too. You don't want to be treated like that, he's using you, so he can get what he wants. You deserve better, anyone deserves better.
Relationships are not to be kept in the dark. If he really liked you he wouldn't mind with going out with you in public. If you keep this going, its only going to get bad for you. So I suggest you break up with him before he hurts your feelings again. You deserve a person, who will show you off in front of people, not hide you.
People deserve 2nd chances, but certainly not this guy. He's not worth your time. You'll find someone else, it just takes time.
Hope I helped.
15\f
okay, so whats FOREPLAY?
and whats INTERCOURSE?
thanks :)
Foreplay is a sexual act that doesn't involve the a guys' penis going into a girls' vagina.
This is called outercourse.
Types of foreplay:
Kissing: Just kissing is a type of foreplay, it can people sexaully stimulated, its an act of sex.
Oral sex: Sucking on someones genitals guys por girls.
Masterbation: Touching your own genitals. Vagina or Penis.
Cyber-sex, (talking about sex on the computer), Phone-sex (talking about sex on the phone)
Anything sexual stimulating is a form of outercourse or what you call foreplay.
Outercourse, can USUALLY lead to INTERCOURSE.
INTERCOURSE= insertion of a guys penis into girls vagina.
Although, outercourse orr foreplay is not considered sex, some have consequences. Like oral sex, make sure the guy uses condoms while giving or recieving oral sex.
Intercourse is when a guys pernis enters a girls vagina. That is Sexual Intercourse = sex.
Any of these should be used during intercourse.
When used correctly, using condoms helps prevent stds/ infections/ pregnancey. Even though its not 100% effective. Absistence (Not having sex at all) is only 100% effective.
Birth Control, the girl takes a pill that can keep you from getting pregnant.
I have a friend (we'll call her) Tammy. So Tammy texts me the other day saying there are rumors going on about her being pregnant (but she's not). She said that people have come uo to her saying that i told them she was pregnant. And i haven't so i don't know why they would tell her that. I don't even talk to the people that have asked her. So main point is she is believing them over me, someone who has always been there for her. its really bothering me because we were good friends and she's letting rumors (that i didn't even start and aren't true) ruin it. she won't respond to a myspace message i sent her. and i can't convince her i never said it. what else can i do??
If yall are really good friends like you said you are then I would think she would believe you regardless, of what everybody else says.
The people who are telling this to her is either trying to pick a fight, or they don't like you and is trying to pick a fight between you and your friend. And if she is a good friend, she wouldn't let this come in-between you and her.
You're the only one who knows its true, and you've already let her know that it isn't true, so the best thing to do is to leave it up to her. And if she doesn't come around, thats her issue. Its her lost, friendships/relationships are all about trust. And if you can't have that, there is no real friendship/relationship between either of you. Give her some space, and give her some time to think it over. I'm sure she'll come to reality that she does need a friend like you. When she's down & out, who else is she going to go to? She'll look and suddenly realize that you're the friend she needs. Friendships are about trust and reliability. If she's a real friend she'll let you come to her for help. The other people, I'm sure she HARDLY eve knows, she shouldn't trust thier words over yours. Ask her, "Who would you trust more?, Some people you hardly even know or someone who has been there for you no matter what? Ask her something like that, she how she will react. If she doesn't come to her senses soon, then you should drop her as a friend, she obviously can't be trusted herself. It's her loss, she's lost a friend in you. Hope I helped.