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I'm 15 and I've had boyfriends,but all my realtionships turned out not so great.I have kind of bad anac and zero conidfence, but I do a really good job of not showing it to people which can be hard sometimes when I'm down.I never think I can get the popular,jock,smart guys that i like. When I do try they either look away or pay no attention to me, and I know it has to be because of my anac.why else would those type of guys act that way, unless they have a girlfriend of course. How can I get them to see that I'm a great girl worth dating.
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Put yourself first. Learn how to love yourself first, and trust me, if you learn to love yourself first you're gaining self-confidence that way.
You're starting to sound like you don't have anything time for youself and sound desperate. Guys don't like girls who sound desperate. Make time for OTHER things. Be involved in a sport or activity. Don't make your life revolved around guys. So try taking a break from it ALL to get re-energized.
1) ALWAYS put yourself 1st (but God is 1st if you believe) so look to your inner spirituality. Do everthing just FOR YOU and ONLY YOU for once and not live up to what everybody else will thinks. Everybody has flwas but don't look ay your flaws ONLY YOU see them, and people only notice is if YOU point them out. So try not to pt. that out to everyone.
2)Hang with your girlfriends, usually you'll have something to talk about than JUST guys. Ther is other stuff thats happening in the world.
3)Don't look at EVERY guy as a guy to date, look to him as a friend. People have standards, but its better if you don't look at them, because if you do you're only limiting yourself available to the incredibly handsome to-good-to-be- true type guys. And MOST of those guys can be real snobs, so even if a guy isn't gorgeous and you don't like, don't be stuck-up and ignore him, talk to him he could end up being a really good guy friend to you that you can go to get guy advice for. If you can be that way to ANY guy, then I'm sure that guy will brag about you about what a great girl you are, and just being a friend makes him feel better.And before you know it guys will look to you, and asking for your number!
For EVERY PAST RELATIONSHIP: Just take a look at it this way, each relationship that you have been in (even though it turned out not so great) can prepare you for your next relationship. Whatever has happened in your previous relationships you can use that relationship to make any of your current relationship to make it better.
And if a guy can't see what a great girl you (w/ I'm sure you are) then its his loss and he's a jackass anyways. A guy who sees it should be the guy who wins your heart. Hope I helped, and sorry so long.
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