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SHOULD I TELL HER??
HI,,
I really really like this guy, and he says he likes me too,, but he likes my friend,, and my friend doesnt know i like him. We have been getting on really well, and i love him, and he says he does too, but because he likes the friend of mine aswel, and my friend like him, i am stuck in the middle, and i have no idea how to sort it! I would love to be with him more than anything, but how do i tell my friend i like him??
PLEASE HELP!!
ANNA =]]
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This guy seems immature and indecisive.
Be careful he may be playing you too both.
Some guys like it when two girls fight over them. They're living a fantasy.
So ask yourself these questions:
Do you really like this guy if he likes my friend too?
What's more important, trying to achieve a relationship with this guy, or your relationship between you and your friend?
Let him take intiative, see who he comes to first. He can't have you both thats crazy.
But in my opinion this guy doesn't fit in for both of yalls time. Look at it this way, if he takes initiative and decides to go with ONE of you. Then likely this "romance" is gonna burn out like a candle in the wind. It's gonna burn rather quickly. So there is a pretty slim chance that a relationship with him will be long lasting. Its a love vs. lust. kind of thing, and in this situation, it seems that lust is the only thing thats taking the role on all of you.
Friendships can last a lifetime. Whats more important to you?
I say savor the friendship and drop the guy. You both don't need a guy that favors you both. You'll both find someone thats worth while, it'll come when you least expect it. Hope I helped.
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This guy needs to make up his mind who he wants to be with. Either he likes you or your friend. Good friends are hard to come by; if she's worth saving the relationsip find another object to love. He doesn't seem worth it if he can't decide who he wants to be with. I know it's hard and we don't choose who we fall in love with, but speaking from experience if he is undecided now, he will always be and it's easier to get out now than later when your feelings have grown to something much deeper. Get out girl!
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Tell her, you would want to know. maybe he could find someone for her. brie
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Tell Your Friend.
Simple As That.
If she is a true friend, she'll understand, and plus, if the guy finds out she likes him too, he might go out with her and if he is going to do that, that neither of him are worth it.
<3L.
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