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what does it mean?
he broke up 2 times in 6 months, first he broke up with me because he HEARD a rumor that i wanted to break up with him but she couldnt so he broke up with her, so when he found out it wasnt true that i wanted to brake up with him so wegot back together and 2nd time was he broke up with me again because he doesnt have feelings for me because he liked someone else when we were going out but he didnt wanna tell me because he was scared that im gonna hate him, but after that we still talk to each other a lot and he asked me if i had feelings for him and i said yes and he did too and he asked me out after that but then he said he wants to keep the relationship a secret because he didnt want people to know and its annoying when people asks about it so what does it mean if your boyfriend wants to keep the relationship a secret?
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If your boyfriend wants to keep the relationship secret he isn't really worth your time. Any relationship at all shouldn't be kept in the dark, if it is then he's most cerainly hiding something from you.
WHAT IT COULD BE: He wants to keep the relationship secret for any of these reasons.
A) He could be dating someone else behind you back.
B)He's actually ashamed of you, and thinks of how his friends or other people will react to with yall being together.
You may be head-over-heels but he really isn't worth your time. He's wasting your time. You already stated that he said: " He doesnt have feelings for me because he liked someone else".
Honey,he doesn't like you, he's using you.
Trying to keep this relationship quiet just for him, you're just setting yourself up to get hurt. Don't let him have his cake and eat it too. You don't want to be treated like that, he's using you, so he can get what he wants. You deserve better, anyone deserves better.
Relationships are not to be kept in the dark. If he really liked you he wouldn't mind with going out with you in public. If you keep this going, its only going to get bad for you. So I suggest you break up with him before he hurts your feelings again. You deserve a person, who will show you off in front of people, not hide you.
People deserve 2nd chances, but certainly not this guy. He's not worth your time. You'll find someone else, it just takes time.
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I think it may be time for YOU to break up with HIM. Any guy that breaks up with you twice in 6 months isn't worth your time. He is clearly not mature enough to be in a committed relationship. He is toying with your emotions whether he means to or not and eventually he will probably do it again. Plus, he wants to keep your relationship a secret? That's ridiculous. He should be proud of you and your relationship. It sounds like he is trying to leave his options open. You can do so much better! It may hurt, but you should ditch this guy and find someone who really wants to be with you and will tell the world!
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He's a jerk. Find someone better.
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