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hard to get
17/f
what are some ways to play hard to get? the only problem is, the guy that i like is going away to college so i can only text him or use the computer to talk to him...but when we hang out with our friends we're always right next to each other and cuddle and stuff. how do i play hard to get so that he sorta has to do the chasing? i guess it could sound mean but it's not supposed to be, i just don't want to seem like i'm that easy of a catch since i do already like him.. thanks!
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When you're together again, don't sit close to him. EX: A couch, sit on the FAR end of couch. He'll wonder whats up, and it makes him want you more.
Texting, IM ing: if you text him first and then he answers, then asks another question, don't reply back,or take some time to reply back this REALLY makes him wonder.
On the phone:If he calls you, then let it go straight to the voicemail see if he leaves a message. Or if you have his # he'll wonder why you haven't called. You've already have plenty of chances, but guys do like girls who don't look to availabe. "You always want what you can't have" Keep him guessing, don't tell him what your plans for the night are. When he comes close to you pull away, tease him a little.
most guys like the thrill of the chase, but don't play on it too much, some guys will get ticked off and move on if you play too much.he'll chase after you then you'll know for sure he likes you. Some guys like the thrill of
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I think it is a great idea that you want to play hard to get. I think the best thing to do is NOT text him and NOT IM him on the computer. Wait for him to contact you, then preceed each conversation with how busy you are but be sure and make time to talk to him. Believe me he is going to be busy when he starts college, and well you can just imagine that there are going to be girls all around. Also his friends are going to say, hey why bother with someone back home, dude, when we have all these girls here
And I know, I didn't help with that did I.
Well, it is the truth, and if you are the one who is always contacting him, he is going to get tired of hearing from you. College is just soooooo busy, and you would be smarter to wait until he is home again. It is nothing personal. The best way to play hard to get with this guy is for the looooonnnnnggg term. Just be sure you run into him when he is home from college. Some relationships are better when they start later in life. You'll see.
Michele
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