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Friend of My Boyfriend


Question Posted Thursday August 9 2007, 9:50 am

My boyfriend (who i loovee :D) his friend always gives me evils everytime he sees me and i dont know what his problem is with me i talked to my bf about and he said "Its ok ignore him" and smiled at me and i smiled back cuz i know he gives the right advice whenever i need it and i know that hes right but his friends been bugging me for ages and im not like a really nasty person when we get along were really good friends but when hes in a mood i feel like ive done something wrong...Anyway should i ignore it or get on with my life and take my bfs advice!
Confused_Friend_Situations xox


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Jeanne answered Thursday August 9 2007, 11:40 pm:
Hmmm... it could be that your boyfriend's friend is a little jealous of you. Maybe he resents you for taking your boyfriend's attention away from him. Or, maybe he has a little crush on you and is jealous of the attention you give your boyfriend! Whatever the reason, I think your boyfriend's advice is good... try to ignore it and don't let it bother you.

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phatdopelove answered Thursday August 9 2007, 4:49 pm:
Your dating you boyfriend not his friends, they're jealous. When a guy has a girlfriend, they're afraid of his time being with you is taking away time being with them. If some the guys are single, they don't like to reminded that they are. So if you want to savor this relationship you may want to set-up days where he can be alone with his boys.

Couples aren't supposed to around each other all the time, you'll both get tired of it. And when he has his night out with the boys you can plan a night with your girls, so it will be even. And make sure when you both go out on your own, make sure you set some ground rules between the two of you. Ex: No lap dancing, no kissing, hugging. Etc. those kind of things. But trust is always an important in a relationship. So if you really trust each other, you can can count on them not to do those things to destroy the relationship.

Usually when a couple divides they're time spent together, it will work out. There is less jealously issues, fights. Etc.

Or you can attempt to get to know the guys. See if they open up, and if they don't at least you tried. Or ask his friends, why they don't like you or is giving you dirty looks.

OR they see things outside of the relationship that you can't see when you are in the relationship. They may have found something about you, like a rumor, seek it.

All in all, its not your fault, yo seem like a nice person. It may be hard to ignore sometimes, but just do it. Soon they should leave you two alone and forget about it.

Sorry so long, hope I helped, if any, good luck! ♥

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brokenheart456 answered Thursday August 9 2007, 4:16 pm:
I would keep ignoring it. if it continues, try asking your bf if he knows why his friend is acting that way.

He's probably just jealous :) Unless he has a gf.

If all else fails, talk to your BFs Friend.

Hope i Helped,
Katie**

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