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Well Hello everyone.My Name is Bridgette Martinez.i have not bee on this Website in a million years.But newayys.im 15 years old.living in a little town called c-town.im a freshmann at wnhs.i have a wonderfull boyfriend.his names is stephen.he is the most awesomestt boyfriend ever.i love him with my lifee.my familyy is the most awesome thing everr.i love my mom with my life.. : ).and then theres my hobbys.!i love to get on myspaceee. : )its addictingg.if you wanna add me on myspace my account is myspace.com/pinkroks
loveee you guyyysss.
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Hey. My boyfriend is my best friend as well as my boyfriend. He was my best friend first, 4 years prior. He is dissapointing me as a boyfriend, and though we usually talk everynight, I want to take a break from him for a while. I need advice on what to think about, what to focus on, instead of him. Thanks.

well you need to talk to him and tell him that you guys are better of friends..but it sounds like you do need a break from him..it sounds like your letting that whol dating with your best friend thing get to your head..but you might ruin you and his friend ship..so maybe you shouild break up with him..and tell him you miss being friends with him..just friends..but you no..you just got to get it off your chest..and its bad to keep it from him..but really dont think about it and you guys shouild just be friends like the past 4 years..but you no that it might take him awhile to recover if you break up with him..he isnt gonna say alright lets bee friends..im sure he'll be hurt..and he may not even want to be friends..but you halft to tell him staraihght up how you feel..tell him the truth!!do what you feel is right..listen to your heart!!
hope i helped..sorry if i didnt.
*love always*
Bridgette>iloepink101

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alright well my boyfriend && ii have been going out for a month and a half now.. and ive been out with him b4 but thats not the point. anyways.. the thing is .. he hates talking on the phone and like never wants to talk to me if its over the phone and i mean all of us girls love phone calls at night from our bfs or whatever and i mean my bf just for some reason doesnt like talking over the phone. anyone have any ideas on how maybe to get him to want to talk on the phone or open up more ? let me know.. i rate high =)

well thats how my x boyfriend use to be..when i first meat him he hated the phone..and ur right us girls love phone calls..we ove the phone period..but anyways..i moved aways from my boyfriend..so the only way to keep in touch was by phone..so he called me every day and now my x oves the phone..and i hte him..butt thats not the point.i no you cant move away..but you shouild talk to him and tell him that you wouild really like to start talking to him on the phone..does he even have a phone??maybe he doesnt..but n-e wayz thats kinda weird..but just sit down with him and tell him how you feel and tell him you still like him though..but who could not like the phone??O....yeah i no who..BOYS!! but you no its natural..but just try to do what you can do!!
hope i helped..sorry if i didnt!!
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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ok heres the deal, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 months, and in the past week, i havent talk to him, so i talked to this boy lets call him "john" and he called me everynight out of that week and we stayed on the phone till like 6 in the morning and hes so my type, and he likes me, and i know i like him back, last night he told me i love you, and i told him it back, and hes on vacation right now so i wolt talk to him till monday, and the two people i trust the most one told me, that i should leave my boyfriend and go out with john,the other one told me to follow my heart,i dont know what my hearts saying, i tried so hard to let him know how i feel, but all he wants is to be together becuase he said he likes me more then this one girl he went out with and he liked her ALOT, and hes not a very good boyfriend, he doesnt call me, i never see him, the last time i heard his voice was at least two weeks ago, and i feel like ive cheated on him cause i told john i love you back, but i tell alot of people i love you, but i think i really ment it when i told john, i seriously like love him,hes everything ive ever wanted, he tells me how pretty i am out of no where, he listens when i half soemthing to say, hes there for me when im upset, and hes so sweet,we've never gotten in a fight, he said dont break up with your boyfriend until your ready and ill get my chance, but the thing is, i dont know when the time is right how im going to break up with my boyfriend, he thinks we can work on everything, i feel so bad, did i really cheat on my boyfriend?, ive never cheated on my boyfriend before, please help me, i dont know where to turn, and i dont know what else to do, thanks so much

well this john boy sounds like the boy for you..and your friends are right..you need to listen to your heart..and i hope your heart is saying john..because your boyfriend has not called you in a week and for all you no hes cheating..but maybe not..but you no i wouild dump my boyfirned and so go with john..he just sounds like a prince charming..and your boyfriend sounds like a jerk..and people like john only come around once in a life time dont give up the chance..you usually find people like john rare..people like your boyfriend!!"EVERYWHERE" but i honesrley in my opion dont think your cheating..becasue i dont think you slept with john or kissed john whle you were going with your boyfriend..because i think cheating is only kissing and sleeping with another guy..but you might take cheating in another defeanition..and you need to tell your boyfriend that you cant work every thing out in life..and leave him and so go with john..
hope i helped..sorry if i didnt
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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can somebody please help me with ideas how to ask a girl out.

well you shouild flirt with her..and let her no that you like her first..but you no if your one of hose shy gus then it aint all that easy..well yo shuild ask her if she wants to go to the movies..and ask her if she wants to hang out one night..and maybe ya'll will get close..and before you no it..ya'll are hooked up and going at it!!not like sexually..i mean like boyfriend girlfriend..never mind..just do what you feel is right..you know..nbut just try to let her no that you like her..you never no maybe she likes you to..
hope i helped...dorry if i didnt..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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okay,me and my boyfriend loves each other but in a relationship there is always problems.when we talk on thephone he always talks to me like im his daughter or somethin,like he would tell me to shut up ,or say i always be lyin ,then he we would say he love me wat do i do??

umm..hes walking all over you..and you shouildnt let him..you dont let any boy walk over you..your the imporant one..you dont let any guy tell you what to do..but you need to talk to him and tell him that your not his daughter..your his girlfriend..and you need to tell him that you hate it when he tells you shut up..and tell him that you really dont appreciate it..but really no boy shouild be doing that!!and hes your future husband!???i hope not!! well you do what you feels right but you really need to talk to him and tell him how you feel!!
hope i helped..sorry if i didnt..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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I'm thinking about getting the top of my ear periced does anyone know how much it hurts? and if it is worth getting it done?

well my 14 year old sister got it done..she said it doesnt hurt..she said only when the put the earring in you just feel a little sting..then it itches a little..and i think its worth getting it done..my sis got a rip off though..she got hers done for like 65$..at claires located in the mall..well in jacksonville atleast..well she took hers out and let it close up..ony because she didnt listen to the people and she never cleaned it..around the pearcing you need to clean it like 3 times a day..and you halft to for like 6-12 weeks..so she got the top of the ear inffected and it look nsty..but you no hopefully youll take care of yours unlike she did.
hope i helped.sorry if i didnt..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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-- this might be long so sorry im goin to try to put in all details.. wel my bf's birthday is 6 days away and it will also be our 17 months together.. for birthdays and stuff like this he always goes all out for me and i want to do the same for him.. its not easy planning stuff for a guy bc they rnt into the whole cutesy lovey dovey stuff like all the girls are.. well i know i already hve him cologne and i am PLANNING on gettin him a north carolina championship basketball also.. [bc he loves NC] well idk what to DO.. i mean ive thought of a few things but i dont want it to be too lovey dovey u know? well i think im goin to make a collage card with pix of us in it and right a note on the inside.. but i need ideas on things to DO.. like where to take him what to do and all that.. nothing sexual.. he is turning 15 and now im 14.. not tryin to be bragging but i hve money to spend on him.. i just want to make him feel special and hve a great birthday.. so if someone could PLEASE give me some good answers i would GREATLY appreciate it! if you need anymore info just ask

well you sound like a good person who loives her boyfriend..but you no maybe he is into the lovey dovey whole thing..not like gay though..maybe he likes that kinda thin..maybe you shouild take him out for dinner..but you now your only 14..and you no that you really ccant do much at that age for your boyfriend..maybe you shouild buy him some jelerwy..maybe like a necklace or a braclet..i dont know.i always buy my boyfriend colonge, a shirt a necklace a hat and jeans..not much but you no it comes from the heart..it doesnt matter what you get him it atleast comes from the girl he loves heart.and i think your idea with a colage card is a great idea..and its just sounds awesome..you just do what you need to do and what you feel is right..
hope i helped..sorry if i didnt..
*love always8
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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my gf is really shy and its hard to talk to her cause she changes the subject i know she loves me cause she tells me ALL! the time......which i like to hear.....and i want to know wut i can do to make her not as shy....and to tell me how she feels and stuff.....and a question for other girls what can i say to her to let her know i love her with out saying it.....lik to prove it i want her to be blown away so what can i say to her that she will love?

well you can tell her that you really care for her..and she is the icing on the cake..i no its corny but you no..well you need to let her feel, comftable around you so she will talk to you..maybe she doesnt feel that cmoftable around you..and she wont talk to you..and you need to be talking to her and telling her how you feel..and you ask her how she really feels in the realationship..well maybe she is just really shy..but you never know..you just telll her what you feels right!!and ask her how she really feels..and just try to not let her change the conversation..and if she does point it out to her..and tell her you really kinda dont like it when she does that..
hope i helped!!..sorry if i didnt..
*love always*
bridgette>ilovepink101

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ok i am in love with a guy that is black... i honestly dont care about what color his skin is but my parents DO! they dont want me to go out wit a black guy... they can be really messed up like that and i have tryed talking to them about and they always said NO! and i always get mad about it... me and this guy are going out but my mom only knows we are friend but i still cant stand the fact she can be so racest..i love this guy i am wit he respects me and never would make me do soemthing i dont want to do..like yesterday we were at the mall and she say a black guy wit a whtie girl and she was like "omg look stephanie look how pretty that girl is with that black.. i can believe people can do that" i got really mad i thought to myself what if she say me like that... i need some advice on what to do i am 14/f and my bf is a 15/m.. someone please help me!!

well my mom always raised me to have balack friends!!but never a black boyfriend..but honestley i have never looked a at a black person like that..but if you like colored people thats fine..thats you!!but you do have to respect your parents..my brother had a colored girlfriend and my mom kiked him out of my house..and he was also 19 so he left.. and stayed with the girl..now you cant do that..but i still love my brothers now x girlfriend..when i go see my brother i always see his x..there bestf friends now..and they stiull kiss and stuff..but my brother is 23 now..so my mom cant stop him..and my mom loves my brothers x girlfriend..wel i understand what you mean that your parents are racist..because mmine are to..theyll go crazy if we even say usher or p.diddys hot..you no..but there are somethings that parents are right and wrong about..and its not right being racist..but god did make a white person and a black person..he didnt make them to mix..so you need to talk to your parents and this boy of yours..so maybe your parents will you no get over it..e-mail me and tel me if i gave you enough advice..and tell me what happens!!e-mail me at bridgettelovesyou5000@yahoo.com
hope i helped...sorry if i didnt./
*love always*
bridgette..ilovepink101

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I'm 15/f. Last year I really liked this guy, but we rarely talked and stuff. In like April I stopped liking him. Well, now I think like him again. It's summer now and I haven't seen him since the end of May. I'm going to see him again in a few weeks. I want to be able to talk with him, but I don't want to freak him out or anything. What should I do?

you shouild go fot it..and do what you want to do..but if you dont like him then theres no problem being friends is there?? maybe he likes you then maybe youll fall for him again!!!but if he doesnt like you then like i said then yall can be friends..but maybe you shouild tell him how you use to feel.and maybe hell tell you how he feels..well you do what you feel is right..
hope i helped...
*love always*
ilovepink101

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omg i like him a lot! i just wanna ask him out! okay well lets start from the beginning-this kid moved to town and i hung out with him cuz he lived across the st from my best friend..and we talked and laughed and joked and flirted and i told him i liked him but he said he was confused cuz he liked a girl from where he used to live but then he told me he would possibly go out with me in the future? do i believe that or is that something hes saying so he doesnt have to put me down and be mean and i jsut wanna ask him out but i dont want him to just be like no! what do i say to him to let him know that i like him a lot and i care for him and i wanna be his girlfriend!!

well i think you shouild go for it!!
you shouild ask him out if you want to..who cares if he says no..all it is is "no"..its just a word..but you no that word is oretty harsh..it couild hurt many..well if you think he likes you then i dont see why you wouildnt do it..i wouild totally do it..well obviously he lives by you..and he may for get about the other girl if you to go out..or you can wait some more time and let him for get about that other girl by him self..but if you dont ask this boy out then your giving up someething proably really good to you..and i no its suppost to be boy ask girl out..but obviously hes not getting the clue that you want him and you want him "bad"
wel do what you feel is right..
and tell me what you did..e-mail me anytime at bridgettelovesyou500@yahoo.com.
hope you get what you want!!the boy!!
hope i helped..
*love always*
ilovepink101

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Ok, me and my boyfriend Cory have been going out for 9 months. Well, there is this girl named Stephanie who has been hitting and flirting with my boyfriend ever since we started going out. I have always hated this girl, so it makes the situation worse. She'd do it in my face, wherever.. she doesnt care. Once, i saw her, her friend, and Cory at this baseball field playing baseball with some younger kids and i got pretty mad about it. I forgave him and we went on with our relationship. He always compares me with her, like ill do something, and hell say, "Stephanie wouldnt do that!" then i get pissy, and he goes im sorry baby, im sorry blah blah blah... well, yesterday he was here, and i havent seen him for about a week, so i was talkin 2 him and he jus wanted to watch tv. Then left 20 minutes after he got here because I was being annoying. Well, now, i just learned that him, Stephanie, another girl, and another boy are at this other boys house. It really pisses me off because he is controlling, and I wasnt allowed to go to my friends house (a boys house), because he doesnt like the boy. So i said fine, i wont go. I really think hes cheating because he lets her flirt in my face and hes been acting really strange around me. So, do you think hes cheating? SHould i give him another chance? Should i call him? idk what to do because i dont want to overreact and i dont want to throw away a 9 month relationship! I would want to sit and talk with him but im scared he will hurt me physically and i dont want to lose him, im 14 and hes 15... what should i do??

wow..well you might have to do the sitting down with him thing..but why do you think he'll hit you..??and if he does that means that you need to leave him..but you know if he doesnt even get worked up then you stay with him..but about that stephanie gurl!!
from the way it sounds,shes trying to ruin you guyz realationship!!but you no..thats how it sounds..and your right,its not cool if he doesnt let you go to a boys house..and hes gettin all up on stephanie..maybe you to just need a break..and you need to tell him to cool it that stephanie gurl if you guys are going to stay together..and he shouildnt even be telling you what to do..honey your 14.. live your life..dont let your life be around a guy that might be cheating on you..so you go where you want..and you do what you do..but dont sink down to his level..and start flirting with other guys and stuff..just live your life and have fun doing it..dont let that boy get in the way of you and your firnds!!
hope i helped..
*love always*,
ilovepink101

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I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 9 months. His ex-wife was always calling and telling him that she missed him and wanted him back. She doesn't respect our relationship at all. Now she wants to pretend to be nice and he doesn't understand why I question her sencereity. I have a lot of anger towards her and I don't like feeling the way I do when I hear her voice or her name mentioned. I was never aloud to say anything to her or he would of been upset with me. How can In deal with the feeling I have for her. I don't like that she gets to me. Please help I'm at the end of my rope and I'm trying really hard to make this relationship work.

wow..well it sounds like you have it pretty hard..well what you gotta do it try to work with your man..i know if you try to talk to him and say shes interrfearing with or realationship then he may think that your jealous of her..which i hope your not because you got the man and she dont..well you just going to halft to do something about it..tell him you just dont thinl its right..having your x hanging around here..and im sure she thinks she going to get him back..but you dont let her..well just try to get along with her is the only thing you can do..really dont let her even get to you like she does..all she is, is a person to you.you have the guy not her..so be happy..you know..when she comes over or whatever just dont be worked up over nothing!!litterally!!well you try your hardest on keeping that steam level down..and just be kind..and atleast try to get aklong with the girl..
hope i helped...
*love always*,
ilovepink101

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There are these two boys and they came to live with us they are getting on my nerves hitting my sister yelling in the house and being mean to the animals I need some help any one that answers this question I will give you a five please help me

well you need to set that boy straight..you need to show him whos boss..and you shouild discipline him..no i dont mean hit him..but like ground him or put them in there room if there bad...and when they hit your sister you shouild tell them to stop and send them to there room..and when you send them tho there room tell them to think about what they have done..and leave them in there..lets say the boys 6, you live him in his room for 6 minutes..if hes 9 ,you leave him in his room for 9 minutes..depends how old he is to stay in his room..every year counts as 1 minute..then you go in t here and tell him what he did wrong and tell him not ot do it again..and you dont let him hurt your animals..i wanna be a vet when im older..so it hurts when i hear there hurting an animal!!
hope i helped!!
*love always*
ilovepink101

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this guy found me on myspace and said i was really cute. hes really cute too and he said he just moved to my city. and he told me where he lived by and its really close to me. well he was like can i do a mapquest? cause im not sure how close u live. i wasnt thinking and i gave him my address and stuff for mapquest. now hes always like we should hangout and stuff. and hes like just turned 18. and he always talks about how much he drinks..and smokes...and i dont know im worried. what if he like comes to my house or something?.....

ok..that was a huge misatke to give him you address..you no that he may be like 40 years old and hes just telling you that hes 18..well what i think you shouild do is just ignore him and stop talking to him..because hopefully he didnt move by you..and its to bad you gave him your address... but just start trying to ignore him and ignore all his e-mails and stuff..just never do that again..dont you hear on the news how many girls get kiddnapped from giving there address's away online and the guy come picks them up!!
well just please dont do it again!!
hope i helped!!
stay safe!!
*love always*
ilovepink101

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2 days ago me and my sister were running outside in my uncles back yard and i ran around her and i stepped on a 2 1/2 inch rusty bolt and it went 1 inch *or more* in my foot and i had to go to the hospital. well now im back home and i have no crutches or a wheel chair or anything and i really want to walk around my house but when i hop on my good foot it makes my ribs and knee hurt too much does any one know a way for me to get around until i get crutches?
thanks
i rate 5's for good answers

well i honestley dont know anything to help you..but maybe you shouild just get bed rest until you get crutches..you know..or you shouild get your sister to help you!!well dont walk if it hurts!!just try to stay somewhere and maybe ever here and then you can walk a little..but you shouild be sitting down mostley..and get your sister or someone at home to maybe help you stand straight and balance right..and you'll get use to walking fine again..well i hope your ok..im sorry about what happen to you..be carefull next time!!
hope i helped!!
*love always*
ilovepink101

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Ok, I'm 100% Serious about this, this is to all the girls... do chicks prefer guys who are

A> Not shaven or trimmed downstairs
B> Shaven Mostly with lil hair remaning
C> Trimmed to a shortish level but not shaven
D> Shaven And trimmed with little hair remaning
E> Completely Shaven

Thanks for your answers ladies >.>

c
hope i helped!!!

*love always*
ilovepink101

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14/f
0k, so I'm going out with this guy, and last night, he fingered me and ate me out.. He fingered me so hard that I bleed a little bit, and I was wondering, if there was any cum on his hand, like from the last time he jacked off, could I get pregnant? What are the chances?
Also, what can happen from being eaten out?

i honestley think your fine..i dont think you can get pregneat form a little dab of cum on his hand...i think the chances of you gettiing preagneat are 0 because your fine!!!!thre nothing wrong with him eating you out!!unless you have like an std..which i hope you dont because if you do then he ust got it..but other than that you and him are fine..and no you not preagneat!!!
*love always*
ilovepink101

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I need pointers.... Umm
How to finger a girl...
How to give oral sex to a girls...
Where is a good spot to make my woman cum.... hard?
She can't cum from sucking on her boobs can you??
Thanks

you finger a girl by just rubbing your finger between there pussy..and you no dong what you do with your dick..buts its your finger instead..you give oral sex by eating the girl out..you no by sucking there pussy..well just make her fell good and give her a good time and she will come..theres no telling what were shes gonna cum at..well a girl might get turned on if you suck her boobs,but i dint think shell cum from that..but do it anyways,she might like it!!
*love always*
ilovepink101

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wut does it mean to "eat a girl out" ?

eat there pussy..there eating you out!!!

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