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I have a cousin who puts my probles on here for the world to know! It's really annoying me..what should I do..I don't want to seem mean though..

Hey. I would say either talk to him/her about it and tell them how you feel or just stop telling them your problems and find someone else that you can trust and won't tell the whole world. It's your decision to tell people, not your cousin's. You have to let them know that. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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Can anyone tell me about any awesome free online adventure games? I've already been to runescape, but are there any other good ones?

Hi. Try these, the games are fun:
http://www.boxerjam.com
http://www.iwin.com/iwin/index.jsp
http://www.uproar.com
There you go, hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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What is oral sex?

Alrighty. Oral sex involves putting the other person's genitals in your mouth. Oral sex for women is called cunnilingus, which is when a guy puts his tongue in her vagina. Oral sex for men is called fellatio. This is when men have their penis sucked and licked. Yeah, there u go.
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♥ Erin

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Ok here's the deal....I like this kid named Brett we are going out and stuff i think he likes my friend,Kalysta but he says he likes me my friend kalysta likes him.What can i do???

Please help because i ♥ him,

Confused

I think that you should believe him. If he says he likes you, then he does. Remember that trust is really important in a relationship. And try hooking up Kalysta with one of his cute friends so you can double date. :)
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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Ok, I've been thinking about dumping my boyfriend for one of my guy friends. I know they both really really like me, and I still want to be friends with my boyfriend that I have now. Anyone have any advice on a easy break up?

Hey. Really, I don't think there's such thing as an easy break up. But the best thing to do is to be honest with him. And let him know that you still want to be good friends. He'll be hurt at first, anyone would, but he'll get over it. Oh, and before you do anything, make sure your guy friend likes you and everything first, because you don't want to end a relationship for nothing. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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this is a stupid question but i'll ask it anyway. What should you tell a guy if he ask you if you're a virgin? Evereyone is telling me different. some of my male friends tell me that you should defenetly tell them that your a virgin because all guys like the girls to be like pure and clean and stuff (i dont know, thats what they tell me) and that if your a virgin they will like you more because it will be like a big deal for them..you know, to get a virgin to lose her virginity is big, it will make them proud of them selves or something. And some of my friends tell me that they always go for girls that lost their virginity already because that would make them more experienced and stuff.And it will make the sex better.. And that it wont be as gross as having sex with a virgin..I dont know im soo confused! I dont want the guy to think that im a slut! but should i tell him that ive already done it so he likes me more? please don tell me to tell him the truth! tell me the truth, what do most guys like? Thank you! (K)

Well, I'm not a guy, so I'm not sure what they like. But my current boyfriend is thrilled that I'm a virgin. (not sure for what reason though). Really, I don't think it matters. Just tell him you're not a virgin. Every guy is different, and if he doesn't like you because you're not a virgin, then he's not worth your time. Sorry if I couldn't help much, but again, I'm not a guy, so I don't know what they like most. Just remember that they're all different. Seriously, just tell him you're not a virgin, and I bet it won't matter one bit. Good luck!
Hope i helped!
♥ Erin

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PLease help me.My dog is always hiding under the bed and is like scared of our family.I want him to feel comfortable and not be scared.What can i do?

If the answer is gonna be take him to a vet forget it.

Thanks=)

Hey, believe it or not, even the shyest dog will come out if there's peanut butter on the floor. Lol. Our dog used to be sort of like that. Just give her treats or whatever, that'll make any dog like you! But don't worry if nothing happens real fast, she'll get used to you over time. (I'm assuming it's a new dog?) Well good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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does anyone know any websites where i can get free sheet music for piano?

Cool! I play the piano, too! Ok, I only have piano sheet music for Mario themes and that's all. Sorry, couldn't find anything else for free. Here's the link, hope ya like!: http://gprime.net/images/mariopiano/
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♥ Erin

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I have a really bad problem with my hair. it's huge. It frizzy and thick and its so hard to manage. I was just wondering if there are any known products that can help me with my unmanageable hair. I've tried thinning, and cutting and many products with minimal success. Also straightening my hair takes about 3 hours and I really dont have that kind of time to spend on my hair. Please help!! I rate high for appropriate answers

Hey, try going to a salon and have it permed straight. I heard that works really well and I think it costs about $60-80 depending where you go. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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I've started using a gothic appearence. (I dressed in black a lot and use dark black make-up on my eyes and either brown or red lipstick.) Nobody even understand why I'm doing it. I'm sort of doing it as an expirement. (Sorry if I spelled that wrong.)It freaks out my teachers, classmates call me a vampire, my boyfriend acts scared of me, and my parents don't like anything about my new look. All I've changed is how I look. I don't want to lose my friends just for the sake of looking gothic. But, if they can't accept how I want to look, are they real friends? What should I do? Advice please!

You have to tell them that you're just experimenting, because they might not know that. Tell them that even though you're in different clothes, you're still the same person. After that, if they still can't accept you for what clothes you wear, then no, they're NOT real friends. You need to find friends who don't care what you dress like. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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I've never gotten along with my dad's side of the family. We see each other once a month and they always ask the same dumb questions. "How is school?" they ask and I say fine. "Do you have a boyfriend?" they enquire and I say no. Then they ponder ALOUD why not. Well, Today we went over there and I was nervous because this time I actually have a boyfriend. I was tempted to lie and just sit through hearing all my attractive qualities again. But instead of asked if I had one, they asked "Who's your boyfriend?" I was so mad that they just assumed that I had one! (Nobody had told them I did.) They just assumed I did and out of the blue wanted to hear all about him! Well I hate that side of my family and I NEVER want them to meet any of my boyfriends. They'd be totally embarrassing and would probably scare my bf off. So what do I do? I don't want to tell them anything about my boyfriend, I don't want them to think they'll get to "meet" him, and I don't want to tell them that they are nosey. What should I do? They probably think I'm rude because I did'nt even tell them his name! But I think they are rude for invading my business and assuming things. I don't care if they are teasing or not, it's sooo mega annoying! HELP!

Omg, I HATE when my family does that! It's sooo annoying! You don't have to do this if you don't want, but the best thing to do is to tell them how you feel. Like, that you think it's rude that they just assume that you have a bf. Or if you can't do that, just say no every time they ask, or avoid them as much as possible. You can always tell your parents you're sick that day. Lol, no, I'm just kidding. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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Last night I was over at some friends house and I was the only girl and there was three boys (I'm 19) and we were drinking and they must have got drunk becasue they grabbed me and flung me onto the bed and started having sex and I didn't want to! Now this morning I won't stop bleeding! PLEASE HELP...oh my god I don't want this to happen to me I'M A GOOD GIRL!

You have to see a doctor. And you have to tell your mom or dad, and don't be afraid to tell the truth, because it's not your fault. You got raped, it's a crime, and they can get in trouble. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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Okay, well I need to make friends. I talk to a lot of people in my classes, but once class is over I'm left alone. I dont have a group of friends where I can sit down during lunch or break or whatever...and just hang out. I get out at school during lunch, so I never stay for lunch. If I see a familiar face, I say hey to them and we talk for a few min. And thats that. I am an outgoing, fun, etc. person and all, I just dont have real friends to hang out with at school and on the weekends. I do have church friends, but I want SCHOOL friends. How can I make school friends? Its sorta depressing me..

I'm sorry, that must suck, lol! But I have an idea for you. Why don't you have a party or something and invite all the people you know? Like, instead of waiting for them to ask you to hang out with them, why don't you ask them? It doesn't have to be a party either, you guys can go to the movies or to the mall. And you don't have to invite everyone at the same time, you can invite individual people if that will make it easier. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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all the boys at my school(but one)are cute in there own way and my mom say they really like me i flirted with some they flirted back but i never became closer to any of them but friends and enemys i don't know whats wrong im surronded by flirting hottys and i never get closer i feel invisable but i don't like it every one had a bf(or gf)'cept me i don't know what to do keep trying or just give up some one please help me ! ! !


~confused and lonley

Aw, lol. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. Don't worry, just keep flirting with a select few that you really like and if they flirt a lot with you, maybe try asking THEM out! (It's really not as hard as it sounds, you'll thank yourself later.) Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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I really like this kid and he says he likes me. We talk on the phone all the time and he says how much he likes me, and he always ends our conversations with, I love you. One problem, he has a girlfriend but he doesnt want to dump her because he doesnt want to hurt her. I really like him what should I do?

Hey. Well, I think that you should remain really good friends. Everybody ends up breaking up most of the time, so they're probably break up eventually. And when/if they do, just really be there for him, it'll make you closer and all. If it was meant to be, trust me, it'll happen. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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i was just wondering about this with some friends the otherday:
-If a word in the dictionary were misspelled, how would we know?
--and
-If you ask someone if they're a compulsive liar and they answer yes, should you believe them?
--ohh also
-If a person with multiple personalities threatens suicide, is that a hostage situation?

thx and plz answer asap :)

Lol.
-I don't think the dictionary would have any misspelled words, but if you have any doubts, look at another one.
-If I was a compulsive liar, I think I would still say no, but if I didn't, I'd be telling the truth.
-I don't think so, it's just one of his/her personalities.
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♥ Erin

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What are some good movies.. mostly chick flicks or comedy.. thanks!

Mean Girls, 13 Going On 30, The Prince and Me, Dodgeball, Bring It On, How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days, any Adam Sandler movie, and Finding Nemo. That's what I came up with!
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♥ Erin

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don't you hate when people send you bad, or annoying, or just stupid feedback! its so annoying!!!!! i mean, shouldn't they give you more than a 1 if you at least TRIED to answer their question? i mean, look at my column (shortie

Yeah, I hate that. But there's a way to delete it. Just go to your feedback and click on the rating so that it goes to the question. Then click on answer question, and just delete your answer and click submit. Your rating will stay the same until someone else rates you. I'm not sure why, but that's just how it works.
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♥ Erin

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hi. i have a cold sore ..well sort of, thats kinda the story. i was scratching at it and i accidentally like..picked it off and now its just all pink. i really dont want it to scar! last time this happened i had a scar for a year and im really not sure what i should do. i dont really thing theres anything i can do about it but if anyone has any ideas please answer this!!!! i really dont want a scar when i go to our school dance next wk., and i really just..dont..want one someone help me please!

Try that Cocoa Butter lotion. You can find it at any drugstore. It's made especially for scars. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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just warning you, this may get long!

last night me and my boyfriend of nearly 3 years were in my room and sleeping. not fooling around, literally sleeping. then my dad comes in and freaks out bitching like we had sex or something.

the situation is that i'm the only girl in the family and they treat me like crap. i do the dishes almost every night, take care of my sick grandma, do the laundry, clean the house, and do well in school yet they still look down upon me like i can't be trusted. i am a very responsible girl and i have had enough of them snooping through my room and checking up on me.

the only possible reason why i think they could be acting like this is that we don't communicate very well with each other, let alone get along. maybe bitching is their way of talking to me? even so, that doesn't explain the overprotectiveness!

my question is what can i do to make them trust me? i feel like i've done everything, all ending in failure.

i used to really HATE them for what they put me through, but when they made an effort to BE NICE things got better. our relationship has improved over the past two of months, but after what happened last night, my grudge against them has returned.

please help, i don't know what else i can do. it seems like nothing is ever good enough for them...

-frustrated

You really just need to talk to them. Tell them exactly how you feel. It sounds like they care, but don't know how to show it. They don't know how you feel, so you've got to tell them. Tell them that you're old enough to have privacy. Just communicate with them every day and just talk about your day or whatever, and they'll get more comfortable talking to you and trust you more. Also, if they still don't get that you're doing all this work, stop doing it for awhile and see if they notice. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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