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Q: ok well i have some online friends right but the thing is we never have anything to talk about all we say is hey and whats up thats it can you give me a list of things to talk about and i only know these people online so like dont say ask them if they want to come over cause they are like not even in the state i live in thanks.
i rate 5s
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Just talk about what is in your mind.
Tell them what happened during your day.
Tell them your favorite type of music, that gets them going. Tell them about guys that go to your school, and how everything where you live is. Is it sunny? rainy? you know?
Hope i helped :]
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Q: me and this guy tyler are really close.. we're pretty much already going out. we just haven't made it official yet (he hasn't asked me!). i'm tired of waiting forever for him to ask me. do you think that i should just go ahead and ask him myself? if so, what do i say?
thanks
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Maybe you should give a hint that you are waiting for the "big question" to be asked.
hang out with him, talk on the phone, walk together down the halls. maybe he will get the picture.
Hope I helped :]
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Q: k theres this kid at my school..and he and my(realy good) friend just broke up and ever since then as a joke me and my friend and this other girl will go down the hall and when ever we see hiom we'll say "homo" and so yesterday he goes...so do u really think that about me, nad i tried to play stupid and do "think what" and hes like you know what and so yah we talked some more and i changed the topic and he still wants to know what i really think about him...but see the truth is i kinda sorta ((like just a lil)) like this kid and even tho i wanna talk my self out of it i cant..and so now i dont know what to tell him cuz i dont wanna tell him i like him but i dont wanna lie to him either....please HELP
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Perhaps he thought you were "flirting" with him of some sort of way.
You shouldn't lie. Just tell him you're not quite sure yet. If it's a little crush. Then tell him that it's just a little crush. No big deal. But if this is your really good friend's ex boyfriend, then maybe you should talk to her about it.
If you tell her you like her ex. She would be a good friend and understand.
Talk to the boy for a while. Get to know him. Maybe it won't be such a little crush anymore.
Hope I helped :]
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Q:
I got a friend that copies me and now i think she likes the boy i like.
-Amber
What should i do about the copying and then boy liking? I'm not flattered about it either i shouldn't be.
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I was in the same situation as you were with my friend.
maybe you should talk to her, and tell her how you feel about her likeing the same guy you like, and probably trying to "steal" your style, and just basically copying you.
tell her that she doesn't have to "copy" you to impress people. She should be herself. Tell her not to be afraid to be herself to no one. And not to change for anyone.
But copying you is not the answer.
she'll understand if she is a good friend, right?
Hope i helped :]
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Q: Im 14 almost 15 and I havent had my first kiss yet. Is that okay. I understand that a lot of people have had their first kiss like younger or sumthing. Is it okay that I am waiting for that right person. I dont want the guy I have my first kiss with to be all like wow you havent had your first kiss yet and all. Anyway Its okay not to have it yet right??
Thanx I rate High
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That is perfectly fine. It's normal. My friend that is almost turning 15 hasn't had her first kiss yet. Nor has she had a boyfriend before.
so you shouldn't feel like you're left out.
And it is really good that you are waiting for the "right" guy to be your first kiss.
but don't be embarrassed to tell anyone that you haven't had your first kiss yet. That might actually get boys interested, you know?
to be completely honest with you, I wish I could have done the same thing you are doing right now, "Finding the right guy to be my first kiss" but I ended up having a jerk being my first kiss. but life is life.
Hope I helped :]
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Q: This may be a stupid question to some, but I thought I might as well ask it.
Is telling a guy you like him really as easy as some people make it sound? I mean, I'm pretty confident and outgoing, but with guys, I can be pretty shy.
I like a certain guy... I mean, I'll talk to him and stuff, but I can't tell him I like him unless I KNOW he likes me, too. I doubt he likes me back, personally. But some people are just like, "Tell him!" and I don't know if I should. So... should I, how, and is it that easy? Thanks in advance.
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People make things sound pretty easy, most of the time. but NOT everything IS easy. But in this situation, it kind of is.
To me, I would come up to the guy and tell him I like him before he falls for another girl.
Sometimes I would start a friendly conversation, then when there is a good timing, I tell him. How I feel about him. But if he doesn't feel the same way, I would tell him I would still want to remain friends.
Hope I helped :]
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Q: hey well me and my ex boy friend had been going out 4 months well he desides he wants to take a break and get back to gather april 13 when he can drive but we have been having some problems since we broke up do u think there is any chance of us ever getting back to gather?
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it depends what kind of problems he is having.
maybe he needs some space to think about his future and stuff now that he is getting to learn how to drive.
you should talk to him and make him feel better to let him know that you still care & love him. there might be a better chance you two WILL get back together after the talk. but I can't make that a promise.
hope I helped :]
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Q: My best friend is over weight. My other freinds and I are all skinny. Well, I found out she is on a diet and trying to loose enough weight to look good in a bathing suit. And I think that's so great and stuff. She sent me this question on Advicenators on what she should do ... I found out it was her and said we should talk. I'm waiting for her to say something to me. i told me two other freinds.. all four of us are BFs. I'm worried she's on a bad diet. She's been overweight her whole life.Should we talk to her about it? I know if we did she would get all offensive. She doesn't dress for her body type and I don't know what to say. Should we talk to her? What should we say? What if she gets mad? What advice could we give her? I WILL RATE 5S!
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To me, you must be a very good friend to this girl.
You shouldn't really worry much. But if she starts to act weird, and has gone to the bathroom or hasn't been feeling well lately, or having problems, then that's the time to get worried.
If any of that DOES happen, you should talk about it to an adult, any adult that you could trust. and maybe things could get better for you're friend.
Hope I helped :]
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Q: well im 15/f and i think i want to go to a away from home (boarding)school next year. i have many reasons for this one being i just dont really like to be at my house anymore (family issues) another being i dont really like my school&most of the people. i am friends with alot of people but i just want to get out of here, well for a while anyway.
i have to ask how can i apporach my mother or father about this?
if i didnt like it at any point would i be able to return to my school? or do parents pay at the beginning?
are they eally strict? like are there really early curfews and stuff?
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Sometimes I feel the same way, just wanting to get out of the house for a bit, & enjoy the real world.
your parents should understand that you are now old enough to start to do your own choices, and take responsiblities.
there isn't really a curfew to when you should be back home after a while that you were gone.
but your parents should respect your choice and continue to go on with your life.
anyways, I hope I helped :]
Good Luck!
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Q: ok so i just got $360 for my sweet sixteen but i cant think of anything to spend it on besides clothes!! help..what else can i get. any ideas?
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Before I give advice, I must add, YOUR LUCKY :]
anyways, to me I would probably save.
But other than that I would get
a new purse, jewlery. earrings, CD'S, ipod, lip-gloss, watching movies with friends at the mall, manicure, you know? all those girl stuff!
anyways, hope I helped :]
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Q: a big issue with me is i won't be with someone that is a pothead and when me and my boyfriend first started to go out he said that he did smoke pot once but that he didn't like it so he wasn't going to do it anymore. this weekend he spent some time at his cousin's house with his cousin and her boyfriend. one night the got completely drunk and were smoking and he told me. this happens everytime he hangs out with his cousin. i don't know what to say to him. i love him so much and i really want to be with him but i can't be with someone that smokes
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You should talk to him.
Tell him how it bothers you that he smokes with his cousin. And that you care & love him. And want nothing bad to happen to him.
If he really cares then he would stop and spend his time with you, other than doing drugs.
hope i helped :]
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Q: ok so recently i've found someone that i really do love and he loved me too. But this other girl came into the picture and he left me.i still have this feeling that he loves me, but its not enough for him to leave this girl. so how can i show him or make him remeber, everything that me and him had before this other girl came?.ill rate all 5's
13/f
please dont say "ur to young to be in love and be worrying bout guys". cus if you even believe in love,, you know that you can be in love at any age. and this isnt just some stupid teen love. its the real deal. so please none of those replys, cus i really do love him.
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Guys are guys. and some are jerks like that.
And I'm sorry to hear that he left you for some other girl that he is probably going to do the same to her.
Maybe you should call the guy up, invite him to come to the movies, mall, hang out at your house or anything that can get you two to be alone together.
Soon he would realize how much you meant to him before this girl came into his life.
I sure hope I helped.
Hope you two keep in touch as before :]
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Q: my ex boyfriend, well we were extremely inlove and then we broke up. 4 days later, he gets the hottest girlfriend and treats me like shit - literally. at school, he spread rumors about me and everything.. what should i do? i hate him so much, but i love him too. he hates me, by the way. anyway, the problem is: how do i get him off my back and get rid of the rumors??
please help.. yours truly.
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Maybe you should talk to him.
Tell him that it bothers you that he is spreading rumors about you that aren't even true.
You should ask him, What have you done that has him to be spreading rumors. Other than just 'flat-out' hating you & that you two are broken up.
maybe he wants attention?
But definatley talk to him about it.
maybe you two may turn out to be good friends after the talk?
anyways, hope I helped :]
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Q: One of my best friend's and I got busted for a drug thing. We know not to do it again, but we got busted by someone's paretns who turned it into ou school.
Now, we're not supposed to talk to each other. But she's one of my best friends ever and I don't know what to do.
So please help. How can I be sneaky and stay friends with her? Any other advice would be appreciated? Thanks so much.
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Maybe you should talk to his/her parents about it.
You can say that you're terribly sorry and if your friend's parents are nice enough, they would accept the apology, and knew what you did was a mistake.
Just remember to mention that you will never do it again. :]
I dont know if it was good advice. But I hope it helped.
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Q: hey
hey every one well my dad always hits me for no reasona sif imh is step daughter he always makes me cry and if i tell him not to he will hit i dont know what to do he makes me feel as if im not part of the family :(
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Yes, that is child abuse.
You should try to keep in contact with someone close to you. Like your mom, or anyone close to you.
Call the police or something. This abuse situation needs to end. That is not right what you dad is doing.
You should talk to someone about it.
You should tell them how you feel when he hits you.
I hope I gave good advice.
good luck & I hope everythings alright :]
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Basics.
They call me alex
I live with one older brother and two little sisters.
I'm taken and in the 9th grade.
I am my own person. I don't try to copy other or try to fit in the crowd.
I like being weird. People tell me that sometimes, but it's okay.
I could care less who thinks of me as what.
I act like a kid sometimes. But sometimes I have those times where I want to be a treated as a young adult.
Music.
Music is life. Without it, my world would be blue.
I can't really stick to one type of music. Like some people I know.
I listen to basically anything that has meaning, or something I can dance too. Or just love the song.
I love listening to music from rock, heavy metal, death metal, rap, r&b, techno.
School.
I'm in high school.
I have the most awesome friends in the world. Yes, I know your jealous.
I don't believe in popularity or labels.
Popularity. No one is popular. Everyone is the same. Alright? OK!
Labels. Kids, get a life. Don't label, if you don't like it, they don't either.
I hate it when people just basically backstab you, I have a lot of those suckers walking around my school.
I most DEF. hate it when people change just to fit in a crowd, for another guy, or just to get attention.
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PLEASE rate me and give me some feedback; that way I can improve my advice :)
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Website: Gender: Female Location: Florida Occupation: making you laugh :) Age: 14 Member Since: December 27, 2005 Answers: 95 Last Update: August 7, 2007 Visitors: 9199
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