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my ex boyfriend
my ex boyfriend, well we were extremely inlove and then we broke up. 4 days later, he gets the hottest girlfriend and treats me like shit - literally. at school, he spread rumors about me and everything.. what should i do? i hate him so much, but i love him too. he hates me, by the way. anyway, the problem is: how do i get him off my back and get rid of the rumors??
please help.. yours truly.
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Maybe you should talk to him.
Tell him that it bothers you that he is spreading rumors about you that aren't even true.
You should ask him, What have you done that has him to be spreading rumors. Other than just 'flat-out' hating you & that you two are broken up.
maybe he wants attention?
But definatley talk to him about it.
maybe you two may turn out to be good friends after the talk?
anyways, hope I helped :]
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If you want the rumors to stop (or at least dye down) just don't acknowledge the people that talk about them and don't let your Ex-boyfriend know that it bothers you or anyone else because it makes them feel important. Just ignore it.
It's not worth your time fighting it off because your the one that will end up being mature while they are still sucking their thumbs crying. =].
-GD
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well, as for your boyfriend, You've just gotta wait, the majority of guys and girls will have a grudge against you for a while and honestly the only reason he's doing al this is for you to feel guilty and get back with him. So just don't let him get to you. And about the rumore, there's nothing you can really do but set anyone strait you hear talking about them.
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If someone comes up to you and asks if the rumors are true. Set the record straight, and let them know it's not. And if he treats you like shit, then think, do you honestly need someone like him in your life? In order to get him off your back, just completely ignore him no matter how much of what he says bothers you. Ignore it. He'll get tired of talking to himself after a while. But if it's to a point where you can't handle it anymore. File verbal assault against him. He can get in a lot of trouble.
&TiNA;
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it's ok to hate and love someone at the same time, i don't know anyone who hasn't had that at least once, my advice dearie would be to let the rumors roll off of you, ignore them and after he sees that his attempt to get a rise out of you isn't working he'll get bored and move on.
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