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smoking problem
a big issue with me is i won't be with someone that is a pothead and when me and my boyfriend first started to go out he said that he did smoke pot once but that he didn't like it so he wasn't going to do it anymore. this weekend he spent some time at his cousin's house with his cousin and her boyfriend. one night the got completely drunk and were smoking and he told me. this happens everytime he hangs out with his cousin. i don't know what to say to him. i love him so much and i really want to be with him but i can't be with someone that smokes
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You should talk to him.
Tell him how it bothers you that he smokes with his cousin. And that you care & love him. And want nothing bad to happen to him.
If he really cares then he would stop and spend his time with you, other than doing drugs.
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Talk to him,Tell hime how you feel about him doing this..Mention how you care for him && that drugs basically mess you up && make you have no future..
If he really cares for you sweetie he`ll stop..
♥Dez
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From my experience, drugs take a precedence over relationships..That's MY experience. Although the person I was involved with did some hard core drugs. Your boyfriend knows how you feel about it. Yet he continues to do what he does. You have two choices -- You deal with it or you don't. I know I'm making it seem a lot easier than it is, but it's like that, black or white. Don't excuse it or turn the other cheek because you love him. Some things are worth letting slide, always pick your battles..But if you feel this strongly about it, then all you can do is discuss your feelings with him. Then take action from there depending on what happens. Good luck
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ansley says - just tell him you cant be with someone that smokes and its either between drugs and you and if he chooses drugs then he wasnt worth your time anyway, or you can talk to his cousin about it and tell them that you dont like your boyfriend smoking .. i sure hope it helps!! and good luck
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So, which is it??? Did he smoke "only once" before OR does he smoke every time he hangs out w/ his cousin?? Either way, tell him how you feel about him and let him know what you're anti-weed. Let him know that if he wants to continue smoking weed (with or without his cousin) that you can't be with him anymore. If he decides to stick w/ the weed, then you obviously weren't that important to him b/c he chose that OVER YOU. That simple....
PS: Just for the record, kids who start out smoking pot USUALLY don't end up going anywhere in life anyway. If he wants to continue smoking, it's no big loss to you in the long-run anyway....
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