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Member Since: March 19, 2006
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Last Update: March 19, 2006
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a big issue with me is i won't be with someone that is a pothead and when me and my boyfriend first started to go out he said that he did smoke pot once but that he didn't like it so he wasn't going to do it anymore. this weekend he spent some time at his cousin's house with his cousin and her boyfriend. one night the got completely drunk and were smoking and he told me. this happens everytime he hangs out with his cousin. i don't know what to say to him. i love him so much and i really want to be with him but i can't be with someone that smokes (link)
So, which is it??? Did he smoke "only once" before OR does he smoke every time he hangs out w/ his cousin?? Either way, tell him how you feel about him and let him know what you're anti-weed. Let him know that if he wants to continue smoking weed (with or without his cousin) that you can't be with him anymore. If he decides to stick w/ the weed, then you obviously weren't that important to him b/c he chose that OVER YOU. That simple....
PS: Just for the record, kids who start out smoking pot USUALLY don't end up going anywhere in life anyway. If he wants to continue smoking, it's no big loss to you in the long-run anyway....




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