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I'm Kelly. I'm 15. And I have experienced a lot in life. I love helping people, so i decided to get one of these a while back. I don't come on a lot, but maybe I will start more often. I also answer questions with honesty, and how i would work things out. I have delt with a lot, and i probably have had a problem similar to yours. So, why not give me a try, and hit me up with a question?! If you want to actually talk to me - feel free to IM me, to ask me a question or just to chat- I'm pretty much always on.

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i'm 14 and i masterbate regularly. i find it to be the best feeling in the world. lately i have noticed little white bumps on the shaft of my penis. they are on the underside of the penis. I was wondering if these were maybe pimples or something else. I know it's not an STD becuase i'm still a virgin. can you find what this is. and do you think i should see a doctor?

honestly, i think they are just normal pimples. the hair follicles on the underside of the penis can look like this. about 1/3 of men have them, so dont worry you deffinitally arent alone. no one really knows what causes them, so there isnt a way to get rid of them, but theres really no need to. they do no harm. if its not that, then it might be a sebaceous cyst, which is a harmless lump cause by a small amounth of the bodys natural grease under the skin. if you are really concered you can always go and see a doctor. do i think its nessecary? nope. but its all up to you. just when you go, dont be like embarressed - they have been asked it before and have seen it all. and i bet that you wont be the last. good luck

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ever since about 3 or 4 years ago [ i am 13] i have been getting discharge. i use to wear pantiliners everyday but that got annoying, so i stopped. this discharge is like white and even a little yellow sometimes. i know that it is normal when i have my period, but i get it all the time. is this normal? can i do anything to stop this?


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you really dont have to wear pantiliners unless it is like a lot, and it makes you uncomfortable. its normal though, so dont worry. you cant really do much, sorry. unless you go to see a gyno and see if they can do anything for you. good luck

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is there any way that i can edit advice i gave if i made a mistake?

yea, do the other way mentioned, or on the left screen click "Edit Answers" and find the question, then change it there

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can u go swimming with your period light.
and not wear a tampon?


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well either way you can. supposidly you period stops when its in water, but i dont know for sure. since its light though, im sure you will be fine. have fuunnn !

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Okay so ive really liked this guy for like 6 years and now ive gotten to know him better, he is always at my best friends house because he is best friends with her brother, when im there he'll stay extra late and we talk and even if his friend has gone to bed i start thinking he likes me and I really want to trust my instincts but am I just thinking that because I want it to be real or how should I test this (find out if he likes me) without him knowing????HELP!

go here, [ http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/doeshe.html ]. those are things he would prolly do if he is interested in you. plus, you should always follow your gut feel - its almost always right :) goood luckk

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well i liked this one guy and im trying to let go.
but hes gorgeous.
and i didnt know him but i kinda did.
anyways
im trying to move along with a different guy
he has long flipped out blonde hair
with blue eyes
its cute
but yeah
i think he thinks of me as a freinds with benifits..
i dont really know him eaither
and i cant let go of the other guy
but i know he doesnt really like me
because he beleves these rumors about me
im not a slut
dont worry
i just want someone to love and be my boyfreind.
but i cant let go of the guy i need to let go of..
does anyone have any advice
thank you so much

you dont wanna get involved with the second boy wither, because of the fact he thinks of you as friends with benefits. thats never good, because one person always falls for the other, but the other doesnt feel the same way. so they get their heart broken. i know a lot of people may say this, but you need to get a hobby. and realise you dont need a boy in your life to make you happy. when you find that time, and can completely live without a boyfriend - then its time for you to have one. to have a boyfriend is like a gift. so dont go shopping everyday for that new shirt you want. i dont know if im making much since, but im just saying you dont need a boy in your life. plus, you didnt know either of these boys very well. i thikn your all caught up on how they look and what they think about you, that you didnt even try and take the time to get to know them. take up a hobby - learn to draw, take a new language, make new friends, read a good book, whatever ! get your mind off these boys, and try to find one that will beg for you. not the other way around. he should be lucky to have you, and he should show it. good luck with everything, and remember that looks arent everything.

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What is the age that guys usually bring their girlfriends to their house to like, meet their parents and have dinner and stuff?

usually girls bring the boyfriend over first,. because ussualy the girlfriends parents are a little more strict or overprotective. i guess theres no really set age, but its more when he feels you guys are serious enough for you to meet is parents. also when he feels comfortable with the whole situation. so it more depends on the guy.

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my ipod nano screen is frozen.. what should i do?

i think this site can help you [ http://docs.info.apple.com/article.html?artnum=61705 ] good luck

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Hello,
I was just wondering if anyone can give me some good vacation ideas? OK, we live in Latrobe, Pa. We only want to go for a weekend. It will be me, my husband & our 2 kids, (3 & 6). We would like it to be somewhat cheap & close by. Even in the Ohio, West Virginia range would be fine. As long as it is in driving distance. So, if anyone had any experiences with any place fun & inexpensive or has any ideas in general it would be greatly appriciated. We can also go to places offering military discounts. Thankyou.

in sandusky ohio, theres cedar point which is an amusement park. also they have a water park like right next to it, which is fun. and you can rent a room on the river. have lotsa fun =)

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Well me and boyfriend have been going out for a year and 8 months, going to be 9 soon. We are like best friends and spend alot of time together, but its always at my house or at the movies. I have only been to his house twice and once was because his sister invited me, the other cause his dad did. Today me and his family were supposed to go snorkeling but the weather was bad so he didnt go and didnt call me either. Now he says that he is staying at his house with his family. I wanted him to invite me so bad!!! But he didnt. His brother has a girlfriend and she is always over there. I have talked to him before, but still he has never invited me over. I am trying to call him now and he wont pick up his phone =(. OH what do I do, and why is he like this?

its probably nothing. he is probably just scared that his family will crack a stupid joke or bring out the baby pictures or something. most likely hes embarressed of his family. and maybe how they act. his brother prolly isnt embarressed, thats why his girlfriend is always over. its really nothing to be worried about, atleast i dont think. also, maybe hes scared you guys wont have anything to do. but my best bet is that hes embarressed. you cant really do much, maybe try having more family outings though. like your family and his go out to dinner or something. make sure he knows you feel comfortabel with his family without you actually telling him it. good luck with everything, and if you need any more help - you can always leave one in my inbox.

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hiya ok im sort of embarrassed about this but here i go. ok, im 13, and ive masterbated since i was around 10 i havn't done it for about 2 cumin up to 3 weeks now as im trying to stop.
I havn't started my period yet and i wondered if this could of effected it. If it has, could of effected the later things in life, say....if i had a baby. I dont no much about periods i just no the basics. Plus when im walkin around i dont feel it but when i go to bed at night i have sort of dribbled my wee a bit im really embarrassed about and i dont no what to do please help!

no i dont think this has anything to do with the reason you havent started your period yet. starting your period is somewhat hereditary, so it kinda depends on when your mom and grandma started. also, if yuor really active in sports sometiems it has an impact on it. once you ahve started developing breats and such, that is when its normal for you to start your peroid. usually girls start between 8- 16. so your like right in the middle, and have nothing to worry about. masterbating wont effect your later years, as in having a baby. it is just soemthing you do to pleasure youself. which is natural. you would actually be surprised on how many people actually do it, boys and girls. the numbers are huge. the "dribbled wee" might not actually be wee. it might be discharge. but im not for sure. im sure its nothing for you to be concerned about. just sit back and wait for your visit from aunt flow to arrive. once it has, you'r stuck with her till your around 40. you get sick of it after like 2 months. haha, dont worry. you shouldnt be wishing for it, good luck.

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ok soo i see alot of people with hxc what does that mean?
thanks

hxc just stands for the term "hardcore".

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i have 4 finals to take this week and i REALLY REALLY wanna ace them or atleast get a good grade. whats a good way to study for the 4 subjects [science, math, social studies, and english] that i need to study for?? thanks so much!!!

hey, im in the same situation. and its pretty hard, i know. i think you should only study the stuff you dont know, because whats the point of studying the stuff you already know? even if its some from every class, you dont have to study EVERYTHING that way. just some things. with math, go over formulas, and make practice problems that are the stuff your learning. if you have vocab in any of these classes, flashcards are always a good idea. also, dont be scared to take a break when you feel like your brain is fryed. get a drink or play a short game or soemthing. or move on to a different subject. stay motivated though, and ask one of your family members to help you as well. just keep on track, and study for what you dont know. also, if yuo really dont understand something go in to school early and ask the teacher. they are always welcome to help. good luck, and im sure youll do fine :) stay confident as well !

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I don't want this to be long or panic-y, but I need some advice. My friend and I are 13. There is a 17-year old across the street who is 17 and a juvi. My parents think he is 18, but really isn't. We played basketball with let's call him C, and we got his number. We hung out with him and we lied about out ages and we said we were 15 and 16. We lied about where we go to school and everything, and now we're hanging out with him. I've been lying to my parents about where we going and everything, but here is the main problem. I'm going into 8th grade this fall, and getting on the bus (right in front of my house!) in the morning is no big, but when the bus drops us off, it's 3:50pm. Big problem, because C smokes, and has to go outside and smokes. What if he sees us? I really hate to lie to everyone around me, and the lies keep getting bigger. Should I be honest with C? My friend and I have been flirting big time with him, and that will ruin out friendship. And, the other problem, even though C is moving is September, I'll have started school, and his brothers go to my new school! What should I do as an overall result? Thanks so much!

i agree. since hes bad news, dont hang out with him. thats not a smart idea, who knows what kinda things he could talk you into, maybe even illegal things. i dont think you should keep hanging out with him, but its relaly all up to you. i just doint think you should. plus hes a lot older. i think you should come out and tell the truth about how old you are, cuz sooner or later hes gonna find out the truth. and so will your parents. lying always leads to more trouble, which sucks. and usually people find out you lied. really, you dont have to tell your parents if your not gonna hang out with him anymore, just make sure you tell him, so he like doenst call you and stuff. good luck, and remember, sometimes the the hardest thing to do, is the best.

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I have a large mole which is larger than any other on my body. It is located near the vagina just above my thigh. It is oval shape and sticks out the skin. I am worried this is cancerous. But i've had it for years. I'm just not sure if it has grown in size.

Is it canerous? or am I worrying over nothing?

since it is oval shaped, i would get it checked out. usually cancerous moles are oval, not circle. so it might be, and since your not sure if its gorwn, you dont give much information about it. but since it does stick out of your skin, i think its an even bigger reason for you to get it checked out. you know, just in case. it wont hurt anything. they may end up removing it, just as a precaution. dont worry too much, but i do think you should get it checked. good luck on everything.

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Hey i want to get a new AIm screen name but i dont know what to put..... my name is Ali my fav number is 5 and color Pink store American Eagle.... if you can give me ideas that would be great..
thanx

WHOA iTS aLi x
pink lover xx
AE babii
5 xx Ali
Hey Im Ali
PinkObcessedDUH
You Can Call mE Ali
AE Obcessed
ali 5x5 bali
LYKE oMGZ ITsz Ali
if you need mroe ideas - then leave one in my inbox

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ok i am 13 years old and my breast are a 38C! they hurt and they hang too. one of my breasts is bigger than the other and it is kind of noticeable. my mom said that when i turn 18 i can get a reduction because by the looks of it now they are going to keep growing. i dont want really small breast i want then to be big but not heavy like they are now. and right now they are triagular shaped insted of round. i want then to be round but not really small. i dont want anything less than a BIG B cup. but no bigger than DD cup. so do you think i should get a reduction when im older or keep them big?

hun dont worry. i just turned 14, and im in the C cups as well. i think you should just wait and see, dont plan so far ahead on the reduction. see how big they get, and if they get in the way of certian things and if you feel uncomfortable or self-consious about them, then i think you should think about getting the operation done. i think middle size c cup is a good size, not to big and not to small. a big b is also pretty good, and average. good luckk

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How do I do the Charlie Brown dance mentioned in Electric Slide?

im not sure if its mentioned in the Electric Slide, but im positive its in ChaCha Slide [ which is my favorite dance, i know like every word by heart hah] anyway. its where you have one foot in front then one foot behind it and jump from one to the other switching on and off. it kinda looks fun, but hey, its part of the dance! =)

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we're going to cedar point on monday and i really really really WANT to go on a rollcercoaster but i'm SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Scared!! all my friends are trying to help me but i dont know if i can do it. Last time, i almost broke out in hives and fainted cuz i was so scraed. what is some advice from former scared-people or anybody? Know anything i can repewat to amkeme more confident.. I've been tryign to go on one all my life. HELP

on most rollarcoasters at cedar point, they take pictures. just imagine the fun your gonan have looking at the pictures after the rides of all of your faces. believe me, its pretty funny. and imagine how much better you'll feel after you go. you'll be able to say "yea, i went on the raptor at cedar point" not "i couldnt go on the raptor i was too scared". thats kinda embarressing, dont ya think. also, just when your in line, keep talking dont keep looking at the ride in motion. some people just keep staring and get so scared. but the others, it gets them more excited and ready to ride. we want to make you go from the first one to the other. just hold on and scream your heart out. it will be more fun, you will enjoy it more, the rush will make you go crazy (and it will turn out as a better picture :P). you can always start smaller. or you can go on a huge one. like the magnum. [ millenium is down for 2 months, and i really dont think youll be going on dragster (heh, i went may 31st) ] then you can be like well since i went on the magnum, i can do this. either way you take it, have an amazing time. cedar point is the best =)

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i want a new sn. my name is paige...i dont really care what its about. maybe it has my name in it..or maybe it could be about summer

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PAGE x0
SUMMER KISS
SUMMER OH SIXX
PAIGE xx0
paigy x paige
lovin the summer
just page me
turn the page
hi im paige
paige loves you

you didnt really give what your looking for, so i tried to give you some ideas i thought youd like

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