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I'm Kelly. I'm 15. And I have experienced a lot in life. I love helping people, so i decided to get one of these a while back. I don't come on a lot, but maybe I will start more often. I also answer questions with honesty, and how i would work things out. I have delt with a lot, and i probably have had a problem similar to yours. So, why not give me a try, and hit me up with a question?! If you want to actually talk to me - feel free to IM me, to ask me a question or just to chat- I'm pretty much always on.

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what does..

"that so fetch" mean?

its just a phrase from mean girls. it doesnt mean much.

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ok what do u think i should do bc its summer and i cheated on my gf wiht 3 diff girls and it was by axident and i still love her alot.

thx

sincerly, nanook

if you love her you wouldnt have cheated. im sorry but its the truth. and how do you cheat on accident? sorry im kinda being rude, but i dont understand. maybe you guys should take a break for the rest of summer. then yuo could hook up with anyone and pick up where you left off once school starts or whatever. i know everyone tells you that you should tell her and that your really osrry. but shes not gonna understand and she may forgive but never forget. so its up to you.. it would be better for you to tell her - but she may break up with you and never go back out with you. and you will both be crushed. so really its up to you. im sorry, i know im not much help. but you shouldnt have cheated. its hard, but i doubt you love her. sorry. good lcukk

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when you donate hair?? how long does it have to be..??? i heard 10 inches PLUS u have to cut xtra 2 inches?? HELP I NEED THE ANSWER.

it has to be 10 inches. then grow it long enough for how long you will want it.

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i was looking on google for websites about loosing weight and i found this: http://myweb.ecomplanet.com/butt6541/mycustompage0011.htm look down on number 13 and where it says "If you are not thin you are ugly" and "being thin is way more important then being healthy"(along with all the other facts that are there) im not fat or anything but is this true?

noo this is completely not true. you body type shouldnt matter on if your ugly or not. thats just someones site that someone posted probably to make people feel unsecure or not pretty. some people think that by posting things like that it makes them feel better about themselves. but they can just go hump a tree for all i care :) anyway, no its not true. at all.

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--female, 13
okay well in the begining of the year me & my guy friend had a little thing for eachother, but we never went out. and all of a sudden he started liking another girl. but everytime i see him or talk to him he flirts like crazy and he acts like he really likes me, and he's not like that around other girls. he's shy and i've asked him over AIM if he liked me. but he always says idk. is there a better way to ask him to get a better answer? and if it's in person how do i bring it up?

thanks so much =]

well since hes shy, hes probably scared you dont liek him back. so he doesnt want to "come clean" with his feelings to you because he doesant want to get his heart broken. it sounds like he still REALLY likes you, by the way you explain it. you could always ask a friend of his to ask him for you, but he might say idk as well. some guys just arent comfortable with telling their feelings to other people, even id its his best friend. you could always write him a note, saying that you like him and were wondering how he feels about you. AND in person is always an option, but he might ot be comfortable (beause hes shy). if you choose to do it in person, which is the most effective, then first start out about talking about the beggining of the year, when you guys both liked eachother. say something like " remember earlier when we both liked eachother? *maybe a laugh, depending on how you say it* well i never really got over you, and i was wondering if you felt the same way or if youve moved on..?". just be honest, its the best you can do! good luck

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after i put on my eyeliner it always like wears off or just comes off after like an hour or two.
What can i do to make it stick all day?
change eyeliners? Or the way i apply it?

ive heard that you can spray your face with A LITTLE hairspray and your makeup stays on longer. you could always use liquid eyeliner too. it stays on longer [ usually ]. and you can always out it a little blow (on bottom, Higher on top) where you eyelashes are, then it shouldnt rub off as easy. and you dont look like a slut or something.

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i know this sounds weird! but how do you make your boobs grow?

does milk really help
does squeezing your hands together help?

HELLPPP MEEEEE

i dont think theres any natural way to make your boobs grow. boobs are fat tissue, and muscle. milk helps mainly bones, but thats good too, but i dont think it will help you boobs or atleast much. and squeezing your hands together is rumored to help, supposidly it grows your msucles, so maybe it does. try it. and you can always try a padded bra too or a push up. be proud of who you are girl, the guys should love you for you, not your rack! :P

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im 14 and id say im about 1/4 of the way into puberity. i have pubic hairs and my scortum has dropped but my penis has grown yet. when does the penis grow in puberity and should i see a doctor soon if it doesnt start?

im sorry, but i dont really know when your penis starts growing. i think it would grow the whole time though. and i dont think you need to see a doctor, im sure it will start growing, or it already has and you just havent really noticed. im sure it will start growing soon.

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Average penis size for a 14 year old?

6.0" [ http://www.coolnurse.com/penis_size.htm ]. next time you can google it, thats what i did :)

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My vagina always seems for me to want to itch it, do you think this is an infection? I have been itching myself for ages, but I haven't started my period and I'm coming 13, will me itching myself prevent my period coming?

From sally

it could be, but since its been itchy for a while, i doubt it. when you were last showering, you might have missed some soap that went in there thats causing ittitaion. if you take a washcloth and get it wet with warm water then wipe it, it should be good. it also may be dry skin. so put some lotion on down there. the itching will not prevent your period. your vagina doesnt really have much effect on your period. it does, but not enough to do that.

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my palms and my feet get sweaty when im nervous or whatever..and i need to get rid of the sweatiness because its embarassing ESPECIALLY if ur holding hands with a guy or shaking hands.. =[ PLEASE PLEASE help. any easier AND faster way to get rid of this sweatiness.!?!

actually, its more common then you probably think. it happens to me a lot as well. hm, some things you could try.. put babypowder on your hands before you go anywhere. or you could put lotion, then just be like "oh i just out on lotion sorry". and when your holding hands, you could always let go for a second and pretend to fix your hair or something and wipe your hands on your pants or shirt. be creative. its nothing bad, so dont worry. its just a way of the body getting out heat.

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I get white and yellow things in my knickers what is this? Is it bad?



From sAl123 X

no, it sounds to me like its discharge. which is something every girl has. so dont worry, it just means your becoming a lady !

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if you're still a virgin then how come you give people sex advice? when someone asked you if they should shave it off when someone gives them head, why did you answer them? you've never even gave someone head before so you can't answer that from your experiences. i think if you haven't done something yet then you shouldn't give advice about it. it's kind of like answering a question about "the best position for sex" when you're still a virgin. if you're a virgin then simply don't tell people who to have sex or give head or hand and stuff. just wanted to inform you. thanks.

i give people the help they ask for. whether i have experienced it or not. i do my research if i dont know, so i am inforitive with my answer. is this the same person that gave my crap about my age and being a virgin with a tampon? if it is, you need a life. and need to stop nagging me. you arent informing me, you are telling me what i can do and what i cant. if someone comes to me for advice, then i will give it to them - whatever the question. dont be jealous because i really could careless what you think. okay? so leave me alone. thanks. ♥

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hi i asked the question earlier about hainv my friend/neighbors mom see my photobucket. Well as you know its been a few days since it happened but i still dont know if i should tell my parents. Is it better to tell them now with the **possibility** of later having her mom tell tmy parents or jsut wait till they find out and tell them. I know its diffrent with every parents and they dont all do the same thing for one incedent. SO do i tell them now or later?

and as a FYI the pictrues were nothing bad, mainly jsut kodak moments where i was spending time with friends, or just being crazy and taking pics of myself.

if they pictures werent anything bad, then i dont understand why the mom would tell your parents..? if your really worried about your friend/neighbors mom telling your mom, then just be honest with your mom. show her that you need a password to see it, and it was a way to show all your friends the pictures. ask her if she wants you to delete it, and if she still does - then do it. and follow her rules. good luckk

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so there's this guy. and hes totally loveable. and really amazing. and i think i like him. but i dont know if he likes me. so should i tell him how i feel? or if he does like me...wait for him to come to me?
thankss!

if you like him, then you should tell him. but someitmes not all girls can do that. if you cant, then have a friend, or write a note. or just send him a lot of signals. also sometimes it helps if you know who he likes first. if you can, then go for it. and find out if he likes you. and if he does like you, then it doesnt matter. a lot of guys like to do the whole "asking out" thing. it makes them feel i guess "manly". idk how though. so if he does like you, then maybe ask him if he thinks you guys will ever go out. BUT you coud always go for him, its kinda your choice. good luck

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ok so theres this guy hes was in one of my classes. i thought he was gay because he kinda acts like it. but i saw on his surveys he takes in myspace like it said he has had a GF before..then he sent me an email and told me that part of the year he had a crush on me and he said i dont want this to ruin our friend ship. that kinda made it weird and i dont know what to say to him..what should i say??

if you dont like him, then tell him, but try to be nice and easy about it. if he still likes you, then it will hurt him. theres no way around that,. but if he said earlier in the year, then he prolly doesnt anymore. its good if you just come straight forward and tell him the truth, but try to be easy about it. its kinda hard to explain. but i really dont think you should say anything about you thinking he was gay, hah. that could ruin your friendship. and you both dont want that. just cuz he LIKED you, it shouldnt make things wierdd with you guys. sometimes things like that happen. you cant help how your heart goes. so like i said, just be honest

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ok well i wish i could rate 5 for u, but im not a member or w/e. so i would jsut like to say taht you give great advice and that you should keep doing what you do. I know im not the only one who feels this way too. You ahve helped me bunches and i owuld just like to say thanks! so thanks and cna't wait to hear from you on my next problem/question!
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aww, thanks hun,. anytime you need help - im here. just remember that. and dont worry about not rating. i dont do this for the ratings, i do it to help. thanks again :) and good luck with everything ♥

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i want to decorate my room in black and light pink, in the cheapest way possible. I want it to be girly and stylish looking. What should I do? Please post pictures, advice, tips.. Thanks so much..ill rate 5's!

if your looking for a stripes kinda look, then maybe you can use this. [ http://i22.photobucket.com/albums/b305/jesskelly_/backgrounds/stripess.gif ] on like one wall. then have one of the pinks for all the other walls. if you have to many stripes it might look to busy, and if you have black walls, then it will make your room look smaller. if you dont want stripes, then heres another idea, [ http://i22.photobucket.com/albums/b305/jesskelly_/backgrounds/pinkbackgroundhearts8ho.jpg ]. but maybe instead of the white hearts you could do black polka dots. same thing with the polka dots though, maybe you shouldt do polka dots on all the walls, just one. and if you have closet doors then you can do different shades of pink or the black. just have fun with it and be creative. theres a question that is just like this one, and i answered it as well. you can look at the ideas otehr people said for help as well [ http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=421070 ]. good luckk

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13/f. I was bra-shopping for something strapless with my tube top, and I couldn't find anything that was 32A (damn...the bra companies expect everyone to look like Barbie!!!). The 34A was too loose, so I had to settle with the 34A pushup bra. What I need to know is, are padded bras stupid? I don't want to be tacky.

no they arent stupid., they just make your boobs look bigger and rounder. its not tacky either. it will actually most likely look better too, because your semi-small chested. and i dont agree, they arent uncomfortable, atleast for me when i wear them. good luckk

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how do you give a guy a hickey?explain in detail please.thanx

giving a guy a hickey and giving a girl a hickey is the same thing. anyway, a hickey is basically broken blood vessels. its almost like a bruise too. what you do is put your mouth against the side of their neck, in a kissing shape. you leave your mouth slightly open in the middle, like your saying the letter "O". now you suck in! You suck the skin into your mouth which causes the blood vessels to break. it doesnt take long, maybe 30 seconds. if you have problems with sucking, then you can always try nibbling it with your teeth. but thats last resort. it will turn out pink or redish. remember its a bruise, so it will stay for a couple days. good luckk

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