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I'm Kelly. I'm 15. And I have experienced a lot in life. I love helping people, so i decided to get one of these a while back. I don't come on a lot, but maybe I will start more often. I also answer questions with honesty, and how i would work things out. I have delt with a lot, and i probably have had a problem similar to yours. So, why not give me a try, and hit me up with a question?! If you want to actually talk to me - feel free to IM me, to ask me a question or just to chat- I'm pretty much always on.

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on instant messaging, i want one of my pictures as my icon. usually this works okay, but not for some of the pictures, it says 'the image you have selected is too big. the maximum size allowed is 7168' .. even when i change the size of the picture to 64 x 64, it still says this. anyone know how to fix it!?


5s for anything that works = ]

try resizing it 50 x 50. it should work then.

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is giving head mean sticking your head inside somebody?

no. :) ♥

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how do guys grind. ive done it before and everything but like if i girl gets really into the music and starts like moving her lower bady foward do u follow her and stuff. also could you give me a basic walkthrough just so i kno im doing it right.
thanks

with grinding, usually the girl leads. the most common way is with the girl dancing and the guy behind her, with his hand on her high thigh. just listen to the music and follow the beat, dont force anything. let it come natural. move your hips and bend your knees. you should follow her lead. she might give you something here or there, just smile and kiss her neck. and go with it. youll do fine, just dont worry about it. and im not realy sure what your talking about when you say she moves forward when she gets into the beat? ive never done that before..

hope this helps!! :] ♥

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I'm sixteen years old, I'm a virgin, I've never kissed a guy, and I've never had a boyfriend.

I feel like if I don't do these things soon, I'm never going to do them. I feel like everyone around me is so experienced in all those things and I'm still just a kid. I've gotten really depressed about it because I feel like no one wants me.

Am I alone in this?

no. i have heard of people who were 18 and havent been kissed yet. the longer you wait, the more special it will be. if you have never had a boyfriend, then maybe your really picky and it takes a lot for you to go out with someone. thats no big deal. being a virgin at 16 is no big deal at all, either. and nothing to worry about. dont feel deperessed. if your really shy, then become more outgoing and confident. confidence = total turn on for guys. dont be scared to hang out with different people then usual, make more friends and dont be scared to go up to a random cute boy and ask him his name. have fun with it, dating is supposed to be fun. not something to stress about!!

hope this helps!! :] ♥

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Hey, im 13 (female). Yeah so...ive never kissed anyone before, so i dont know what to expect for my first. Is it common to have a french kiss as a first kiss or...just a peck??? Please give a very detailed response. Im totally clueless.

its more common for just a peck. but it all really depends on the moment and the people. your first kiss is supposed to be with someone you really care about, and its something you should remember forever. dont rush things, your first kiss should be perfect. there are girls who are like 1 and have never kissed before. the longer you wait, the more special it will be. go to this site for pecks [ http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/kiss.html ] and this site for french [ http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/french.html ]. also, go here [ http://www.kissingbooth.com/how_to_kiss.htm ]. if you go to all those, you will be an expert!

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Paige came to my house the other day and started sayin how she was sry and that... that she didn't really love this guy she just told me that to catch my reaction... and then she said I have the right to hate her forever... I told her of all this toying with me why can't you just stop and let us be together... she said thats what i came hear to do... I said stop i really can't trust you now...she says but why not... I say you tell you love this guy then you tell me you don't and you toy with me way to much... I am a huan and I have feelings to... Then I took her inside and let her read everything that we talked about concering her so she turns and kisses me... but when we get outside she tells me how she really likes me... and it would be great if we could be together... her mom then pulls up to pick her up to go somewhere... this morning she calls and tells me she wants to be friends but then she calls fter that and asks me out...W-t-f... Any advice on what this girl is tryin to do...I think she is just as confused as i am...i just dont understand what is there to do

i think she may be in love with the idea of being in love, and maybe not really caring who its with. or your right. shes just really confused on everything. if shes just confused with it all, then she shouldnt try to rush into things. she should take her time and sort out her feelings. and figure out what she really wants to do. i have a frined dealing with the same problem. she likes 3 different boys, but she doesnt know who to choose. and she doesnt want to rush into anything. you want to make sure your 100% positive with your decision before you make it. you dont wanna be like what if i did this instead, or have any regrets. next time she says something like i wanna go out or i wanna be friends, ask her are you sure. i want to make sure your positive before we make a serious decision. good luckk

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im 12 turning 13 in september and im gonna be in the 8th grade next year. my pubic hair has started growing in the 5th grade and it hasnt since. my penis also stopped growing. its thin and about 4 in. is that normal? also do you think it would be a problem witha girl if were having sex?
thanks

your only 12, you have nothing to worry about. they both will most likely start growing again, and it wont be a problem if they dont, besides the fact of having a semi-small penis. no it wouldnt be a problem if you were having sex either.

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my dad and sumwhat of my mom are really strong about the whole people stealing your idenity thing. they are extra conscienous (idk how to spell that) about it, which is prefectly fine. But i want to ahve a site that i can show my friends pictures. Because i am a major camera whore!! and love pictures, even if im not in them. Well I decided to get photobucket. I have had it for a while now and i found out about a week ago that you can set it to where somebody needs a password to look at the pictures. So did that, and i ahve been giving it to the friends of mine that ask for it. Well one of my friends/neighbors asked for it and was looking at it. and her mom saw some of the pics too, and commented on the dress i was wearing. The thing is her mom is friends with mine and they talk often. IM scared that she might tell my mom about it, but on the other hand im like why should it be a problem its on private and only people with the password can look at it. But i dont know if i should tell my mom now or what. because im not suppose to ahve a site, like myspace or xanga or anyhting like that. So if u could please help me. I wanna find a way where i dont get in trouble. Should i just say i would like to get one and i would set it to make it private?

aw, this is a tough situation,. because you were being safe, but also going against what your parents said. if the pictures werent something bad, or like showing or whatever, then you dont have anything to worry about. but if they are bad pictures, like i dont wanna say it but i guess kinda sluty, then maybe you should tell your parents the truth, just to be safe. make sure they know about the whole password thing too. so they know your being safe. photobucket isnt a thing like myspace or xanga, so they shouldnt care if you do tell them. good luck with everything, and if you need more help - then ask !

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heyy i read in your about me that you like try to help ppl with everything..when it comes to boys and tampons and stuff..and from wat i no to where a tampon you cant be a virgin..soooo you 13 and youve already had sex/?

you have to get the facts staight hun, and im sorry but you are wrong. first off, im 14. and im a virgin. and i do wear tampons. to be a virgin means your hymen [ also known as a cherry ] hasnt broken yet. you can break it by a lot of ways besides having sex, it can break on riding a bike or a horse, putting a tampon in too far, masterbating with larger objects, and sometimes gymnastics [ theres other reasons but yea you get the point ]. as for what you said, your wrong. you can wear tampons when you get your period and know how heavy your flow is. whether you have had sex or not. many girls wear tampons being a virgin. i dont know where you got this information, but you have been misinformed. AND dont judge me, just because you read wrong, and dont have your facts straight

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Okay I went out with this boy a grade ahead of me thinking i liked him (Let's call him George). It turned out i didn't really know George so I dumped him three days later. Now George is obbsesssed with me and I can't stand it. He keeps telling me how hot and beutiful I am and it's driving me insane! Yesterday I went to an amusement park and I was hanging out with my friends and the new boy that I like (lets call him Bob). George kept following us around EVERYWHERE. We tried to ditch him but then when we did he just kept calling my cell phone! It was getting so annoying that when he called I just had Bob answer my phone. I just want my own life back. What should I do? I don't want to be mean but I don't want to talk to him at all. I don't even want to be friends with him so don't tell me stuff like well just talk to him about it. I can't talk to him about it! So please help.

give it some time. he will get over you, i promise. just keep ignoring him. and show him that you are interested in other people. dont be scared to be all over people while hes watching., and dont be scared to just tell him to back off. if hes creeping you out, then do something about it. good luck

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Ok so im a typical average girl who is confused about this whole god/jesus thing. My mother and father both went to catholic school till high school and were babtized catholic. But my parents didnt babtize me and my brother. They wanted us to choose a religion and believe what ever we want, IF WE WANTED TO BELIEVE ANYTHING. Our family never goes to church, one because its too early. 2 because my dad isnt religous at all he wont even say bless you when someone sneezes. 3 my mom doesnt believe u ahve to go to church to talk to god. My mom really isnt religous at all maybe like 10% if any. Im not sure aobut my sister though. Anyway i went to a preschool that went to church every mon. And right now i do belivev in god. I pray sometimes. The thing is its hard trying to believe in god when no one in my family does. I dont even think we have a bible in our house. idk wt to think. How do i feel more comfortable, or what do i do. anything? im trying to be me.

your mom is right, you dont have to go to church to believe or talk in/to god. but heres the problem, you prolly feel like you have to maybe follow your parents footsteps. which isnt the case at all. you dont have to believe what your parents believe in. people tend to only pray when they need god or think something wrong might happen. but not thank him everyday for the good things he brings. if you really believe and want to believe, then start by praying everyday. good day, bad day, boring day, exciting day - whatever! do what you believe in, if you want to go to church then go to church, just follow your heart.

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ok so theres this guy that goes to my school and he was in one of my classes we talk sometimes and he's really nice and fun to be around. Well i was at a swim meet today and he was tehre, i guess his sibiling was swimming. I saw him and we exchanged glances and smiled and at the last moment when he was almost outta my site he kinda does a little wave. i didnt know if i should wave back cause he was basically past me., so i didnt do anything. The thing is i kinda like this guy, not alot just slightly. and i just didnt know what to do. Now i dont know what to think. He might think that i hate him or i think hes weird because i didnt wave back. I dont want him to think that, am i screwed for life?

aw girl, you shoulda gone and sat next to him. oh well.. maybe next time?! anyway, no you are NOT screwed for life because you didnt wave back at him. haha, thats kinda funny. really dont worry about it. next time you see eachother be the first to wave, then he will know that you dont hate him or think hes wierd. if you think you like him, then keep flirting with him. i think you already got him wrapped around your finger, girl ! good luckk

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Im so so sry... Im never drinkin again... I just met chasity and shes cool... I am just truely sry though... Ahh I've pretty much given up on paige..she told me that she met a guy and loves him so i just like kinda got mad and told her off...i just need advice what do I do... My life is pretty f' up right now...What do I do...

dont be sorry. but i dont blame you for getting mad at her, but i dont think it was wise to tell her off. you showed an immature side to you, which is a turn off. i dont know what you want me to tell you. just find someone better who will love you for you. and all the sweet things you do. you deserve someone great. dont rush things. its not like you need a girlfriend. good luck

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hey, if a girl is giving you hand/head
would they want the guys, part to be shaved or at least trimmed??

prolly not shaved, thats kinda wierd. atleast trimmed, they dont want like a jungle or something, you know. ha

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what do you do if you move far from the person you love and cant stop thinking about them? is it possible to stop? how do i? i'm falling apart.

its not really possible to stop loving someone. the way i think of it, if you love someone - you love them forever. you cant fall out of love, either you still are or never were. its the worst situation i think there is when you move away from the person you love, and its hard on both people when they really care about each other. i guess all you can do is look back on the memories, and dont be scared to cry and laugh about them. youll miss them, and thats normal. but remember they miss you as well. call em up and see how they are doing, and whats new. if you still love them then dont be scared to show it. dont fall apart, just fall in love.

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ok, so as you know summer vacation is here, and im like in love with this girl and she really likes me too, and i want to know, is it a good idea to ask her out before summer, cuz im gonna be away for like 3 weeks, and i might not see her, so should i ask her???

p.s. hope you knee/ leg feels better soon

if you really care about her, then i say go for it. a lot of times distance can make a relationship stonger. since your gonna be away, try and make an effort to call her or write her [ thats adorable & a deffiniate way to get to a girls heart ]. but if you think something may happen while your away, to you or her, then maybe tell her you want to wait till after. but still do the calling and writing - cuz it will show you care. maybe you should talk to her about it, see how she feels. but if you really love her, and are scared you might lose her or something, then go for ittt! good luckk

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aww what are you having surgery for?

actually i already got it, haha. i got it on june 6th. but i tore my acl in my knee and some cartiledge around it as well. thanks :] ♥

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Hey I'm 14 and I'm black. When I hear people around me saying shit like 'nigger' or 'slave' I get pissed the fuck off. I don't know if I should whoop the shit out of them or let it slide, I tried talking to them but that shit didn't help. What the fuck should I do? I need your help girl.

i dont blame you for being upset. its deffinitally a "touchy" situation with some people, liek you. and thats completely fine. i dont think that you should beat them up though. i know you get angry, but i really dont think that they mean it in that way. alot of people misuse terms just to make them look cool. and sometimes those words are in that category. and some people dont really understand what the words they use ACTUALLY mean, and in this case - the history of them. i know this really isnt what you wanted to hear, but you really cant do much. and they dont mean it in a bad way [ like i said before] i mean, you know times have changed but the words still have meaning. and some people dont understand. i dont want to neccessarily tell you that you should talk to them, because although i do, i see how some people will just brush you off or simply not care. maybe you can threaten them though, be like, dont say that again. you dont understand about these kinda things again, and if i hear it again out of your mouth - then you dont even want to know whats going to happen. or whatever. you know. good luck, and just try not to let it get to you. im sorry.

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i started my period in 6th grade. my mom knows. then i didn't have it again for another year. she knows about that. that was a year ago. ive been regular ever since, but am afraid to tell her. now she wants to take me to the doctors cuz she thinks theres something wrong with me. what should i do?

aw hun, just be honest with her. your mom is your best friend. and you have to be honest. she should be the one you tell everything and anything to. because i bet shes been there, done that,. and she knows what to do. maybe next time you have it, just be like omg mom i started my period! then she will think that you get it back. and you dont really have to tell her about all before. you shouldnt be afraid to tell her though. i mean , cmon its your mom ! hehe, she will love you no matter what.

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ok so im 13 almost 14 and i have my period, my friend showed my this site www.beinggirl.com and there is this one section where it predicts your next period. I was wondering if u think it is acurate or not. I mena i know your not sykick but i thought it was worth a try to ask because im going to water park soon and its for the whole day. and i dont wanna spend the whole day at a water park changing out tampons, and having my friends wait for me when they can be having fun. So if you can please reply! ♥

haha, honestly ive tried this as well. it kinda depends o how long you have had your period and if its on a regular pattern or not yet. im not sure if the site is exact - but im sure its probably pretty close, i mean those people are professionals. ive heard that your period stops when your in water, but i dont really know. who knows. maybe youll get lucky and start the day after, and have the time of your life at the water park! just dont worry about it, its a fact of life. haha, sorry hun. but yea, you can trust it i guess.

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