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I'm Kelly. I'm 15. And I have experienced a lot in life. I love helping people, so i decided to get one of these a while back. I don't come on a lot, but maybe I will start more often. I also answer questions with honesty, and how i would work things out. I have delt with a lot, and i probably have had a problem similar to yours. So, why not give me a try, and hit me up with a question?! If you want to actually talk to me - feel free to IM me, to ask me a question or just to chat- I'm pretty much always on.

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Ok, so recently I met this guy I'll call George. I was out with a few friends and we had a good time together. I had met George before that time, but I didn't really talk to him. When I did, George and I got along very well and I began to have feelings for him. The next day, I found that he liked me too. Then, the day after that, I found that my friend, Bob, likes me. Unfotunately, I do not have feelings for him other than those of friendship. I'd hate to hurt him and I don't know what to do. Any suggestions are welcome.

if you dont like bob then dont go out with him. and since you like george, i say GO FOR IT. i know its hard, but i bet bob just has a crush on you, so its not to bad. ofcorse it will hurt him at first, but just be honest with him. say something like im sorry, but i really dont think we would work out as anything more than being boyfriend and girlfirend. its straight to the point, short, the truth but also not really harsh. or you could Always go the round of i think of you more as a brother. that always gets the point across. dont worry, go for george. since you like him, dont worry about someone else who you dont like. thats just silly. good luckk

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hey i have like dirty blonde hair (and it usually gets blonder in the summer) i've heard that putting lemon juice in your hair and going out into the sun gets it blonder, and i tryied it but it didnt work! i re aplyed a few times too. but i just got a bottle of lemon juice from like kroger, is there a cirtan kind that works better, also i herd that putting like camimile tea or something in your hair makes it blonder.....does that work? any advice on what to do and use?

yea lemon juice does work. it works better if you actually mix it in your shampoo or conditioner though. i have dirty blonde hair with gets lighter as well. i dont think there is a certian kind that works better, but if you use a real lemon dont put it in your shampoo. just put it in your hiar right when you squeeze it. itt has citric acid which attracts sunlight. i havent heard about the tea, so i cant help you out with that much, sorry. also beer works too. a lighter beer though, not a heavy dark one. also, if you was your hair in cold water it doesnt get as oily as much or as quickly, so your hair isnt coated with oil. good luck

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whats a really good makeup remover that can remove water proof mascara and lots of eyeliner? and i dont want the expensive ones and thanks!!

Cinique has a really good eye makeup remover that works real well. it comes in a blue bottle. but also, baby oil works and its really cheap.

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is it okay that my boyfriend is 3 years older than me? I'm 13 and he's 16 is that bad?

not really, it may seem like it at this age. but a lot of people have a way bigger age difference. remember theres no age on love. haha, but like it was said before - be scared what you do hun.

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I dont know how im wittttr this... Im pretty drunk man... anyway... I think I dont like he more no...I met this girl chasity tonight time good... nite nite...byebye.. hava good friday...

is this that guy that was like in love with paige? you cant give up on someonee you love just because you met a girl today.. ill talk to you when your not drunkk. be careful/.

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Yo, I need a screen name and i'm running out of ideas Can someone please help me?
hErE'S SoMe inFo AbOuT mEE::


Name :: Amanda
Age :: 13
Sports? ::
Prep? Goth? Athletic? Etc.. :: i don't know, i don't really label myself. But i AM NOT prep or girly...just normal i guess
Any Nicknames ::manda
Words you like :: rawr*hermit*fallen angel*
Animals you like :: Pandas.
Do you want your name in your SN :: No.
Love sn? (ex : iiTHiiNKY0URMiiNE) :: No.
Hobbies ::...........................
Words like BABii - SWEETiiE - etc / yes or no ::nOo...!!!!!!!!!
Hair color :: Brown
Eye Color :: Brown
Single / Taken :: Taken
Fav. Singer/Band :: Panic! At The Disco
Type of Music :: ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

RAWR ITS MANDA
MANDA x PANDA
brown eyed x13
I FALLEN ANGEL I
BRUNETTE LOVE
kiCk your hermit
PANIC ITS MANDA
ROCKIN ANGEL
A BLONDE ATHEART

you pretty much narrowed it down, so i hope these are okay.

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look my sister emailed my guyfriend and said i hated him but thought he was hot! and said it was from me!!!!!!! even though thats not the way i fell!he always ignores me and won't talk to me even though i've explained a 17870 times that it was form my sis!!!! were going on hoil together and worried it's going to be weird! what can i do so thinks are back to normal!!!!

maybe have your sister talk to him (if shes willing too) tell her that your in risk of loosing a friend because of a stupid prank she pulled, and if you did that to her - she wouldnt be happy either. besides that, you just ahve to be yourslef and pretend like nothing is wrong between you two. just act liek you used to before this all happened. i dont know what you mean by "we are going on hoil together" so i cant help you out with that - sorry. so good luck with everything, and just remember to be yourself. and if you need more help then your welcome to leave one in my inbox. good luckk

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my boyfriend is gone for the summer to new mexico and he does not call me and i really miss him i talked to him for about 3 minutes and he said do not call my dad's cell or text cause his dad has to pay for the text messaging and minutes and he also said that he would call me yesterday and he never did and i really miss him. my sis said that he is fooling around over there but i don't think he will. what do you guys/grls think sorry it's so long.

i wouldnt worry too much. you have to understand that he wants to enjoy himslef while hes down there. and sometimes people forget when they are having a good time. if you really care about him, then you wont think hes cheating on you. hes prolly making an effort to call you, but remember he's limited to when he can talk and how long. i think you should just have a good summer, and enjoy the time hes gone. but also make the best out of the time you talk to him, and dont spend it fighting whether or not he could be cheating. dont listen to your sister, you knwo him better than she does. do you think he'd do that? if you do, then maybe you should rethink your relationship. sorry if it was a little harsh, but its just what i think. sorry. but good luck, and like i said - make the best out of the time you guys talk.

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14/m- i have a major crush on this girl n i want her to know. she is sick right now so i duno if this is a good time, but what can i do? im scared if i just come out n tell her shell think im a creep. we always flirt n have been friends fo a lil n i wanto take it a step ferther. HELP KELLY - HOOK A BROTHA UP.

actually i think its the perfect time for you to tell her. or maybe its better if you hint it. maybe you can make a surprise visit to her house and bring some flowers and a get well soon card or something. she will know you actually care about her. and it will be super sweet. and if you know her favorite candy - even better. bring that too! she will prolly get the idea you think of her a little more than a friend after that. plus you could always write something cute in the card like "get well soon, because i miss seeing you and your pretty face at school" or something. some people/guys are scared to just come out and say their feelings because they are scared of rejection. and thats completely normal. but i can guarentee that she wont think your a creep if you do this. your making a bold move to take it a step further, so i wish you the best of luck. dont step down and follow your heart. good luck BROTHAAA, keep me updatedd

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Hi, i have a problem. I like this boy, but he's a pumpkin pie, and my last name is similar to a Dodge Caravan, WHAT DO I DO!? especially cause i think his best friend bike mennett is sexy as HELLLLLL!

Sincerely,
not mike bennett

dear not mike bennett, i think its alright if you like someone AND hes your pumpkin pie. its fine you think his best friend is sexy as hell, especially if its true. ps. not mike bennett - your one funny guy.

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heyy cutie.
how do you get the youtube videos on your myspace??

after you upload your youtube on the site, it has like a thing underneath it. it has like a couple different links for stuff [ like profiles and stuff ] and myspace is one of the links. copy the link and paste it where you want in your myspace. then tada !

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heyy i love jumping on trampolines and my friend has one, when ever we go to her hosue i jump on it. well the point is i just elarned to do a frount flip and i came home a bit ago and now mi backk hurts do u think it possiable i did something to it? also i did not do anything funni i lasnded on mi feet every time.

you coulda. i bet its just sore cuz your learned a cool new trick and its not used to your body doing it. since you landed on your feet everytime, its prolly just sore. it mighnt stay this way for a couple days, but if it stays longer than like 5 days - maybe you should see a doctor. just to be sure. im jealous you can do a front flipp :P

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so my dance is on friday i want to go with this guy and we have gone out like twice this year already but i really want to go with him but i am tired of waiting! so i was wondering, do guys think its creepy if a girl asks them out??

thanks

i'll rate high

no, not at all. GO FOR IT GIRL. guys are attracted to confidence too. and if you ask him, then you got the confidence to do it. something he couldnt do. haha. so in shortanswer - no its not creepy. just go for it. good luck

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say i want to get tan. does tanning oil or baby oil work? like will they make me look darker? and also which one works better. and do any of them make you look orange?

baby oil will make you burn. dont use it. tanning oil will make you darker. and tanning oil works better. like i said baby oil makes you burn, and the more you get burned the higher risk you ahve for getting skin cancer later on. some types of tanning oil may have an orange tint, i guess it depends on the type you choose.

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I was wondering if you knew of any tips or tricks on loosing weight. Besides all the drink a lot of water, watch what you eat and excersize. Any other tips?

yup, your in luck. id be happy to help. heres like 9 tips on what you can do besides the basic stuff.
1) GOOD NIGHT SLEEP, thats key. it creates less leptin in your body which is a hormone. it discourages from eating and expands energy.
2) TURN OFF THE RADIO. supposivly when you eat with music with a higher tempo, you eat more. and faster.
3) DONT SKIP MEALS - its just not a good idea. you will get more hungry and eat anything you see or hear about instead of the healthy stuff.
4) NO CAR ! for every hour your in a car everyday, you are 6% more likely to become obiese. but if you walk a mile, you decrease that percentage by 8%. when your on the phone, it helps if you pace around in circles or something.
5) GO OUT IN THE SUN ! the sun creates secotonin which loswers cravings for sugars and carbs. plus you can get a good tan.
6) NO MORE GLASS JARS. when you have cookies or something in a glass jar, then you re more tempted to take one. but when they are hidden, you cant see them. sometimes you end up forgetting about them.
7) SET YOUR FORK DOWN AFTER EVERY BITE. i know it sounds kinda wierd, but it makes you really enjoy your food, and take your time. it takes 20 minutes for your stomach to tell your mind your full. dont be eating those 20 minutes.
8) TURN THE LIGHTS ON. when you eat with the lights off or dimmed - your less self- counsious which allows you to eat more. because people cant see how much your eating.
9) LOOSE THE ANGER. believe it or not, it makes you fat. it creates a stress hormone called cortisol. and the more you have of that, the more pounds you'll pack on. good luck

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Hey Kelly, how are you, and how is your knee? I don't get my knee surgery until the summer, but still, I'm afraid. I'm trying to call it off, because the only times when I walk bad are in old sneakers, because I always graze out the bottom trying to walk right. Yeah, well I had to write all of that stuff above before I get banned for another five days for "chatting." I have 2 more days before I can log on again. It feels like a month.

although im in a lot of pain now, i reccommend you get it done. i got it done tuesday, and im doing alright. lots of pain and loss of appetite. also, a lot of sleeping =) . but if you dont get it done, it will hurt you in the longrun. good luckk

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I have an iPod Mini, and it's battery recently died. How do I purchase another one, and what is their price range? I know I need to order them from Apple, but that is all I know.
Thank you.

i have a mini too, a blue one ! to purchase another one go to this site http://www.apple.com/support/ipodmini/ and their price range is about $60 or so, because they dont make minis anymore. you might also wanna look on like ebay, if you want one that isnt as expesnsive.

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ok u see i am close to one of the most popular people in my grade. i am not mean or any thing to peopl accept when they r mean to me. i am in 7th grade. i want to have a big birthday party this year since i havent had one in 5 years. i want to make plans in advance but my birthday party isnt till november. any wayz i think it will make me more popular then i am now. but i dont kno how to have the party or where at. i want it to be big and like a dance party. on of the boys i like had one and every one was there. please help me asap.

maybe the boy that had one was jewish and was having a barmitzvah. those are very common at the 7th grade age, because its when most people turn 13. anyway - i want to start by saying that being popular isnt everything. but since you asked - im here to help. you can always have a party at your house. maybe in your back yard or if you have a big room then have it in there. or you could always rent a hall or something. but if its not that big of a birthday, then idk if you should do that. if you are thinking of having a BIG BIG party, then maybe have a joined one with another friend or two. then your parents arent so stressed about all the prices as well. and the more people hosting means the more people you can invite. and more people for you to meet and become more popular. its not really hard to have a party, just plan where you want it and how is gonna be. formal, fun, fancy, whatever. also a theme is good. and black and white is always fun. you could also do a party maybe on halloween - then have a costume party and its like close to your birthday. have fun at the party, and good luck

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ok there is this girl i had sex with. well im packing some serius heat if you know what i mean. but i cant make her cum. lol this stpry is to sick for me im gona tel you about my horse.

my mom bouthg a pony wheni was 6 in florida
so i went down and petted him. i loved tht horse his name was horse i belive ait no fluffy.
i forget hisname not improtant right now

lol this is so dumb of me i just want to take up your time ahahhahahaahaha
i once did a monkey before im sry you had to know tht
but she turned my world up side down



lol love ryan marsahll walker hope ur knee get better

haha, first off ryan - you need some typing lessons. you obviously didnt pack on enough heat (if you know what i mean) because she didnt have an orgasim. and thats cool you had a horse, i want one. but how do you forget its name? thanks for wasting my time, by the way. im glad you had fun with the monkey. congrats. and thanks abut the knee. love ya too. ♥

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is it possible to make your penis bigger without using pills? like is there stretches or maybe a food you can eat? i would like to enlarge my penis but i dont want to take a pill. can you find some info for me?

i dont think there is a real safe way to make your penis bigger besides taking pills or plastic surgery. if your under the age of 18, then your penis is still growing - so dont worry too much. there are myths that say mountian dew and certian food colorings make it shrink, but those arent true. sorry, but besides the pill and plastic surgery there isnt much you can do.

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