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i'm in a bit of a predicament w/ my boyfriend. i'm 19 and a sophomore in college and he's 21 and has not entered college. i'm not with him for booksmarts or trying to force him into going to college, but everyday i see him throwing his money away on useless things like his car.
i want him to have the motivation to have a future, to move forward w/ his life instead of living under his parents roof and job hopping every 3 months.
i've tried talking to him about it, but he always gets mad at me when i do, accusing me of lecturing him. he just doesn't understand that i'm only trying to look out for him. and i don't understand that when he says he wants a future with me, that he's not doing a goddamn thing about it? no money is saved for "us", no plans have been made, it's just an empty promise to me.
my question to you is what do you think i should do? do you think i should still encourage him or should i just let him do what he wants to do? after all, it is his money and it is his life... (link)
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i was with a girl like you once and i can honestly say it was the worst thing i've done. seriously, if a guy doesn't want to go to college and is content to spend his time doing what he wants then let him. let us do what we want and don't try to fix, or change us, cause it's not going to happen. he doesn't need help, cause it's not helping him. it's helping you feel better about yourself. i'm content to spend my money on my car, and content to hang out, goof off, and have fun. if i were him i'd have dumped you by now. but that's because when a girl tries to tell me what to do i'm done with her right then and there. he may be a bit more relaxed about it. but i was in the exact same boat and what happned was she kept trying to get me to go to colleges, and look around, and see what's up and all this shit. and i kept not going and not looking because i'm not going to do something til i'm ready to do it and if he's not ready then he's not going to do it. everybody is different, and no two people can be the same. and if he doesn't want to go you can't force him. let him do what he wants and he'll sort himself out. or shit just dump him and move on i'm sure he's fine with or without you.
and cars are not useless things to spend money on. a woman is a useless thing to spend money on. you can always get another girlfriend or wife, but the car is something that's one of a kind.
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okay well me and my boyfriend were making out and i was feeling around down there. i started rubbing his nuts and then gently squezzed on one of them. not hard because i didnt want to hurt him but hes like "oww, be careful down there." so i stopped. and then like a week he was complaining that his balls hurt, even before i touched him. is there something wrong with him? i rate 5's (link)
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i've had this happen to me before. a girl messing around down there not knowing what she's doing touches one of the boys and ends up leavuing me incapacitated for a long time. then she doesn't think it's that bad. she doesn't know how bad it is. that area is incredibly sensitive and the sightest touch the wrong way can make us fall to the ground and cry and feel it for days later. when it happened to me it was in a movie theatre, we were making out and then bam... needless to say i couldn't walk right or sit right or even continue making out for the rest of the movie. it's not pleasent and i felt pain down there the rest of that weekend. it's an intense sharp pain that lasts a long time and granted it's easily induced it's not hard to avoid it. dont squeeze the boys, play with his penis if you wanna go down there, and only lightly rub or touch the testicles do not apply a lot of pressure to them, and please don't squeeze them. he should be fine in a while but he'll prolly still be scared for a while as well.
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What is the best cell phone plan you can get.. I want to get pay as you go but where? Verizon, T-mobile..etc? thnxs (link)
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Verizon.
my mommy has it, she likes it.
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hi. i am 15 years old and have not got my first period...my boyfriend wants to have sex...but idk what would happen...is that horribly bad if i havent got my first period yet
PLEASE help i rate 5s!
despretly confuxed (link)
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lucky, nothing would happen.you wouldn't even get pregnet.
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13/f and well i have just recently gotten my first period, but its been a week and 3 days already and i still have it !! its light right now but is it suppossed to be like this considering its weird the first time or is there something wrong with me ??
xoo ♥ (link)
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no, some last long. some dont.
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Is gatorade healthier/better than water? (link)
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If your running it is better to drink it.
BUT IT IS NOT HEAILTHER THAN WATER AT ALL.
id stay with water.
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I just recently became a vegetarian. The thing is, I really have no desire for meat. However, I feel like I'm eating the same things over and over again. Does anyone know of some good vegetarian foods/meals? (link)
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check your local store, buy a veg. cook book.
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Does anybody know any cute pictures (or funny, or weird..etc) that wish people a merry christmas or Happy Holidays?! that i can comment people with. I can make one in paint but they always turn out ugly. And please not one that is too big in width [that will take up a lot of space in the comment box]
any ideas..pictures..?!PLease?!
Thanks so much!!!
Happy Holidays to all of you! (link)
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search google.
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My little brother is driving me crazy!!! He hits me when he gets mad and leaves bruises! and he wont leave me alone! i have a lock on my door except its a hook lock so he just unlocks it! I would tell my mom but every time i tattle she gets mad at "me"!!! Im 13 and its because h's 10 and her little baby! its driving me crazy and i need help please!!!
I will rate 5 answers (link)
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ignore him.
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14/f...I like one of my best guy friends named Will but he doesn't know it. He is really close with my best friend Kate. They knew each other like a whole year before I met him so that's why. Whenever she's not around me and Will he talks to ME nonstop. But when she's around, I can NEVER get him to even talk to me. I feel left out and I always think "how am I supposed to get him to like me if he's always busy talking to her?" I have no idea what to do and I am so confused. Winter formal(dance) is coming up and I want him to ask me. But how do I get noticed? (and if you say flirting...can you please be specific)Thanks.I RATE HIGH!
ps. merry x-mas to everyone (link)
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Flirt :/
http://www.myjellybean.com/ has a flirting guide and stuff.
Its a cool site all together.
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Hey Guys, This Has Really been bothering me and I don't know what to do. I Knew what sex was when I was about 6 years old. I'm 13 Now. But I'm Worried that I wasn't Raised Right. I mean Most Kids don't even know what Making Out is When their like 7!! But I Knew! Was I or Am I Normal??? No SmartAzz's About This....Thanks (link)
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Everybody has different ages to learn things.
So your normal.
Parents do things different.
Me being 13, i never had the talk.. at all, so be lucky your parents told you.
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Hey,
My Speakers For My Dell 2400 Are Making Weird Noises. Like I can Turn Them Up From The Speaker and they Will Start Making A Static Noise (I Think Their Haunted). I've Only Had My Dell For Like 2 Months! What Could Be Causing This? (link)
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You Dont Have To Use Capital Letters Every First Letter Beacause Its Really Gay.
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I once had this body spray that smelled like flowers. It was called "flower power" by the Smiley Calgon collection. They discontinued it and now Im left trying to find a new perfume/body spray. If anyone could tell me of a flowery scent they know of that'd be great. I rate. (link)
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try lavender smelling.
OR VANILLA
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for christmas i got an ipod nano & i wanted to add more songs to it. anyone have any good song ideas?? i like hip/hop, rap, etc.
thanks!! (link)
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Mariah Carey- we belong together.
Pussy cat dolls- stick wit u
Eminem-When im gone
D4L- laffy taffy
kanye west- gold digger
black eyes peas- my humps
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MY VAGINA IS PURPLE...what does that mean. is it normal. it just turned purple like an hour ago!
i'll rate high (link)
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i honestly dont think it is..
but see a docter.
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Hey Guys, This Has Really been bothering me and I don't know what to do. I Knew what sex was when I was about 6 years old. I'm 13 Now. But I'm Worried that I wasn't Raised Right. I mean Most Kids don't even know what Making Out is When their like 7!! But I Knew! Was I or Am I Normal??? No SmartAzz's About This....Thanks (link)
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i got the talk when i was 6 too. there is NOTHING wrong with you ;]
ALiciaa && ♥
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i have larger inner lips/labia (down below of course) and i wanted to kno if guys still find that attractive?... GUYS and GURLS opinion appereciated=) i rate high (link)
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honestly guys don't care. how a vagina looks as long as it's not diseased and not covered in something gross we don't care. just keep it clean and disease free and we'll be glad to have something like that.
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my bf and me just broke up and its hard for me to cry and crying is the only way i can be okie. Whats a good sad love movie i can dl. thanks and no not the notebook. i saw it and didnt like it. If someone dies in the movie that helps, or if they dont end up story. (link)
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fried green tomatoes. simple as that
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Whats The Legal Age To Have Sex
Thanks
Tami (link)
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well in the united states the age of consent is 18, but that varies from state to state. in texas for example it's 17, whereas in connecticut it's 16. but the fact is most court cases dealing with this situation they are tried under the federal standard of the age of 18 thus making sex with someone under that age against the law. i'm 19, my girlfriend is 17, if we have sex and she decides to take the issue to court (or her parents decide to) then i will go to jail for statutory rape simply because she was under 18. and my record will be essentially ruined because of something so simple. and i would be a registered sex offender for something that didn't really hurt anyone but me. the justice system is quite flawed on these grounds but reform is a hard thing to do
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ive heard of girls in the shower taking the shower head and kinda putting it "near" their private areas...well im a girl so how would i do omething like this without the detachable shower head? thanks? (link)
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Dont listen to the dumb*** below..
i think you have detache the shower head to do it sorry. thats the showerhead why to masturebate, i never tried it.
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