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I`m Desiree

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i`m 17 years old

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I'm a junior in high school and since last year I've seen this guy around school and I've always thought he was just the cutest ever. This is probably the most good looking guys I've ever seen. But I never really had a chance to meet him because I just saw him in the hallways on and at football games. He plays and I'm on the drill team. Well, even though I didn’t know him I did know that he has a girlfriend.


We were both at a part a we weeks back and we officially meet there. We got to talking and not only is this guy gorgeous but he's also a great person. We started hanging out and stuff and it was great. I knew he has a girlfriend so I made sure that I kept my flirting to a minimum (I have a problem with that).


So everything was going great with our friendship and all until last night. I invited him to my dad's Christmas party with a few of my other friends to keep me unbored throughout the night. We ended up alone in my game room just talking and hanging out. He then kissed me. Of course I kissed back because well…duh.


Know I don't know what to do because he still has his girlfriend in the picture. I thought I should just back off but I'm not sure.

Well i`d keep this between you and this gorgeous guy lol..

Ummm but like you said back off.. I mean this kiss could of been one of those things this guy will say was a mistake and he still wants to be with his current girlfriend because of guilt..*But hun i personally think he likes you*..

Continue to hang out with him if thats possible but don`t let him continue to do this to his girlfriend because you wouldn`t like that i`m sure..Then just see what happens from there.. ♥ Dez

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ohk

This guy walks into a bar and ask the bartender for a glass of water. The Baretnder reaches under the counter and pulls out a real gun and yells "bang".

Heres what i know:
- it was a real gun
- the bartender did not shot the guy
- the bar did sevre water...lol
- they is a logical reason the bartender did what he did

Thats all it would really help me if you could help figure this out.
If your guessing please tell me in your answer.
If you know that your answer is right tell me.

ill rate five

The guy scared this guy because he had the hiccups and when you scare somebody they are suppose to not have the hiccups anymore..Also he asked for the water for hiccups also..umm He probably held his breath while this gun was held to his head and that also is suppose to cure hiccups.. Make sense?? ♥ Dez

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i'm considering getting my nose pierced... is there anything i should keep in mind? and how bad does it hurt?

Hey sweetie!
I have my nose pierced and i`ve had it pierced for over two years now.. It doesn`t hurt that bad really.. I mean i think for a day or two it just feels like it is bruised.. And it might even be dicolored for a few days but thats normal..Make sure you clean it how your told and don`t change the ring right away.. ♥ Dez

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Ok..i like this guy we have been dating for like 2 months, today in fact, but i like this other guy..plus my boyfriend keeps talking to his ex-girlfriends, he says he likes me but i cant help thinking that somethings going on....so should i just leave him and go with another guy or should i stay with him, honestly i think someones going to get hurt either way.

Well you should give this guy more trust and stuff but if you like this other guy more then i`d go for it.. I mean i understand how you feel i don`t want my boyfriend for a year and a half to talk to his ex girlfriends.. Your young you can move on if you`d like.. ♥ Dez

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I love my boyfriend to death but lately he's kinda I don't know how to say it. He's got this little mustache thingy and his hair needs cut and he doesn't wear cologne. How can I tell him about this without hurting him?

Jusy ask him if her can shave that because when you kiss him it doesn`t feel good.. buy him some cologne for christmas and maybe he`ll wear it that isn`t sayin anything mean.. about the hair cut thing i really don`t know what to tell you.. ♥ Dez

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my mom is always great to me, and does anything for me, except when shes around her freinds. they treat me nicley, but my mom makes a point of sending me to do things and making fun of me! i hate it. i cant just stay away from them. what should i do?

Talk to her and ask why she acts like that.. It shouldn`t hurt to try and talk to her hun about it.. Tell her that is hurts your feelings and stuff or maybe try kinding around with her back and kinda embarass her a little bit..I`m not sayin be completely mean or anything just say some stuff too.. She probably doesn`t mean to hurt your feelings.. ♥ Dez

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when you wear an OB tampon...should you wear a pad too? can you feel if you leak when you have a tampon in?

If you have a heavy flow then yes you might want to wear both.. But a O.b tampon holds pretty much even tho they`re pretty small.. So if it isn`t a heavy flow then you should be okay.. ♥ Dez

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What are some absolute-guaranteed exercises to help burn your tummy fat and love handles?

Running! Side crunches! Crunches! Just eat healthy!! ♥ Dez

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i was at my freinds house at a sleepover, and my freind confessed that she prefers girls body's to boys. i started remembering the many times i changed in the same room with her ect. i completely blanked out and was speechless. she reasured the 5 of us that she would never hit on us. i have to see her in school tommorow. what should i do/say? i am 13 f

You don`t have to say anything.. I`d continue to be her friend.. If she isn`t going to make you uncomfortable then i`d just act no different around her.. Think about the good things she isn`t ever goin to want your boyfriend.. And i mean you can`t really change her decision.. I hope you won`t be shallow and stop being her friend because she is a lesbian.. ♥ Dez

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okayy i've had love handles since i was in 5th grade and now im in 8th and i can't stand them any longer! i hate seeing them hang over my jeans and then look at alll my friends that have their sides perfectly straight so i was wondering if anyone knew any way at all to get rid of them! Some people say side crunches but i don't know how to do those. So please either tell me how to do side crunches or tell me if theres any other way to get rid of them (i cant really run now cuz its cold and its snowing)

i rate high for anyone who gives me an answer !!!
thank you

Okay if you know what a crunch is then just do it on your side.. just lean side to side over and over again.. ♥ Dez

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when people say word what are they replacing ? what does it mean ? yes I know im kind of slow when it comes to these. I'll rate

It means agreeing.. i don`t think people use that much anymore tho.. ♥ Dez

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What are some ways to calm down and relax? School is making me CRAZY. I'm extremely stressed out and I just feel like giving up. HELP PleaSE.

How about every now and then treat yourself for your hard work.. Take Hot bubble baths their so relaxing..try working out that helps stress.. ♥ Dez

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What are some really good songs?

You didn`t mention what kind of music.. But if you leave the question in my inbox i`d be happy to help.. ♥ Dez

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ill give 5's for this!

who sings this song:
im lookin for attention
not another question

a girl sings this song and thats all i know about it so ya. thanks

**Walk away**Kelly Clarkson ♥ Dez

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I was wondering what they mean when they say "the sex is so much better when you're mad at me" in "Get Stoned" by Hinder.

Like maybe the girl is more fistier.. Or its better cuz he can make it up to her through sex.. ♥ Dez

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I will rate fives for all answers! In about 12 days it will be my boyfriend and I's one year anniversary. I was really low on ideas so I got a fleece throwover blanket embroidered for him, it has our names and December 22nd, 2004 on it and it also says I LOVE YOU. I dont' know, is this a good idea and if it is, what also can i get him to go along with it. I bought all kinds of things to make him a card and I just think maybe a lil' something else will do. thanks! -sahara

Oh my gosh thats cute.. Where did you get that made add.. let me know in feedback please.. Also i found that my boyfriend liked a build a bear on our anniversary.. He sleeps with that bear.. i didn`t make him like a happy anniversary one tho..I made one of his favorite football team.. but if thats too much how about buyin some roses and get a fake one and say when the last rose dies thats when i`ll stop loving you.. thats always cute.. ummm.. but him a cd or dvd you think he`ll like.. Give him something that has to do with the first day you met/first date.. so he`ll remember it.. ♥ Dez

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this sounds stupid but my boyfriend always says sweet things to me but i never know what to say back, i think of something sometimes, but what are some cute things to say to a boyfriend after he says something sweet???

How about telling him that he`s sweet..
That he`s nice to you.. Give him a compliment about something.. Looks,personality.. ♥ Dez

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Okay
So basically I live in Arizona
and it's pretty warm here year-round
& a few of my friends have heated pools and they throw x-mas/newyears pool parties.
Problem is:
I kinda lost my bathing suit and I need a new one.
Anyone know where they sell juniors (xs,s) bathing suits?
online,in stores, I don't really care.
Websites are helpful =]

Try american eagle..
Walmart..
Target..
Victoria secret..
♥ Dez

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whats the difference between fraternity and sorority?

Fraternity is for the brothers.. and Sorority is for the Sisters.. ♥ Dez

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Today I went to a salon to get my hair dyed and they dyed it brown (exactly what i wanted!!) i was just wondering what i need to do to keep it this color. how long do i need to wait until i shower next, how to i keep the blonde highlights (from before) from showing up through the brown, what shampoo should i use, etc... thanks so much!

If this is permenant hair dye the highlights shouldn`t show through.. *Most likely wont* i`ve never had a problem with it..Umm if the stylist didn`t suggest waitin so long til washing your hair then you can probably go ahead and wash it.. I mean she washed your hair so why wouldn`t you be able too.. You will probably need to get your roots done every couple months tho.. unless your natural hair color is brown.. ♥ Dez

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