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He kissed me not his girlfriend
I'm a junior in high school and since last year I've seen this guy around school and I've always thought he was just the cutest ever. This is probably the most good looking guys I've ever seen. But I never really had a chance to meet him because I just saw him in the hallways on and at football games. He plays and I'm on the drill team. Well, even though I didn’t know him I did know that he has a girlfriend.
We were both at a part a we weeks back and we officially meet there. We got to talking and not only is this guy gorgeous but he's also a great person. We started hanging out and stuff and it was great. I knew he has a girlfriend so I made sure that I kept my flirting to a minimum (I have a problem with that).
So everything was going great with our friendship and all until last night. I invited him to my dad's Christmas party with a few of my other friends to keep me unbored throughout the night. We ended up alone in my game room just talking and hanging out. He then kissed me. Of course I kissed back because well…duh.
Know I don't know what to do because he still has his girlfriend in the picture. I thought I should just back off but I'm not sure.
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He deceived his girlfriend. Even if he dumped her and went for you, what makes you think he wouldn't deceive you later the same way? I don't think he's very trustworthy, but if you're really wondering about it, let him approach you, and wait for him to bring it up. If he doesn't after a while, I suppose it's okay to ask. Still though, he might be good looking, but that doesn't mean he's good boyfriend material
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I think the best thing to do is to talk to him about it. Ask him why he kissed you and how he feels about you. tell him how you feel but also tell him that you feel weird about it because he has a girlfriend and that you do not think that you can be apart of something that could be hurtful towards another person. Tell him that you value your friendship and you would love for it to go to another level but you cannot do it unless he breaks it off with his girlfriend.
After talking to him and seeing how he responds ask yourself how you feel then. If he isnt willing to break up with his current g/f yet he still wants to see you in that way, would he really be a good boyfriend?
Hope I helped hun.
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Well i`d keep this between you and this gorgeous guy lol..
Ummm but like you said back off.. I mean this kiss could of been one of those things this guy will say was a mistake and he still wants to be with his current girlfriend because of guilt..*But hun i personally think he likes you*..
Continue to hang out with him if thats possible but don`t let him continue to do this to his girlfriend because you wouldn`t like that i`m sure..Then just see what happens from there.. ♥ Dez
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Don't tell anyone about it. You should leave it up to him. Don't kiss him again unless he breaks up with his girlfriend, but do try to talk to him about it. Try to convince him that he needs to tell his girlfriend that he kissed someone. Keep yourself out of the picture because that will cause a lot of problems for you. If he won't tell her, do nothing. It would be a mistake to get everyone all riled up over one kiss. I also suggest not to get involved with this guy because he seems to have "cheater" written all over him. Good luck!
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Hmmm...All I would do is asking him what's up. If he likes you or not and why he kissed you. You obviously like him whether it's just physical or more. Tell him that if he does like you and plans on doing something about it to break it off with his girlfriend before hand. Refuse to do anything with him if he is still with her. Don't get involved with a guy that is in a relationship because you don't know if he's stringing her along or if he's just using you for fun. Plus you don't want to be the girl that he cheated with. If he breaks it off with her for you then he likes you that much; if he doesn't then not so much.
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